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I met this Christian girl last year in school and my feelings grew. I knew through my friends that she has a boyfriend, but when I'm around her, she openly flirts around with me and soon, I began to think that she was serious about me. We conversed mostly through text messages, and spoke to one another only a couple of times. Still, I thought she could be the one for me. (No matter how foolish it seemed)

I asked her out for a movie a couple of times, but my offer was always turned down, and I accepted it that it was because of her busy schedule. Then, she was the first girl I'd ever asked out.

One conversation with my best friend snapped me back to reality. He told me that she was telling others about her relationship with her boyfriend, even while she and I were becoming close. I then decided to pull out of the mess that I had gotten myself into. I stopped the text messaging and barely spoke to her in school, and eventually, I did not see her for quite sometime.

Since then, when I saw her Facebook and blog, I began to realise that I was lied to repeatedly, about her birthday, her family relationship, etc, and it made me question myself, "Why was I so stupid in trusting her?"

Since then, I never dared to ask any girl out, or to even get to know them. I'm afraid that I'll be used, just like what had happened to me. I just don't know how I can ever get to trust any girl, and I really need some advice.

I hope someone could help me.

I met this girl last year in school and my feelings grew. I knew through my friends that she has a boyfriend, but when I'm around her, she openly flirts around with me and soon, I began to think that she was serious about me. We conversed mostly through text messages, and spoke to one another only a couple of times. Still, I thought she could be the one for me. (No matter how foolish it seemed)

I asked her out for a movie a couple of times, but my offer was always turned down, and I accepted it that it was because of her busy schedule. Then, she was the first girl I'd ever asked out.

One conversation with my best friend snapped me back to reality. He told me that she was telling others about her relationship with her boyfriend, even while she and I were becoming close. I then decided to pull out of the mess that I had gotten myself into. I stopped the text messaging and barely spoke to her in school, and eventually, I did not see her for quite sometime.

Since then, when I saw her Facebook and blog, I began to realise that I was lied to repeatedly, about her birthday, her family relationship, etc, and it made me question myself, "Why was I so stupid in trusting her?"

Since then, I never dared to ask any girl out, or to even get to know them. I'm afraid that I'll be used, just like what had happened to me. I just don't know how I can ever get to trust any girl, and I really need some advice.

I hope someone could help me.

Why do we always see blind people wearing sunglasses but we don't see deaf people wearing earmuffs?

I'm just an ordinary 17 year old guy who weighs just around 55kg, which is suitable as according to my height. But the problem is, my parents think that I'm too skinny for my age. My dad, who is slightly shorter than me, weighs around 75kg, and has this huge spare tyre around his mid. My mom who's more vertically challenged, weighs 54kg, almost similar to mine, but considering our height difference, she should be overweight...And yet everytime they see me, they start calling me 'skinny boy' and 'all bones'. What on earth is their problem?

Also, they start buying all these junk food: Coca-cola, A&W, Deep fried chicken and lots of pastries. And everytime they themselves start to indulge in such junk. They use their jobs as an excuse for them not to excercise and so they themselves are gaining weight. But for me, I still workout and excercise, and every single minute I start to excercise, they tell me that I'm too skinny already. I'm really sick of them telling me I'm skinny and even

Is there a way to increase your metabolism rate so that you won't have to keep stopping at intervals to eat?

The US had backed out from the Kyoto Protocol in 2001 saying that it was too costly. But global warming concerns everyone, including them! And they're one of the highest greenhouse gas producing countries. Why aren't they helping out in battling global warming like the other countries?

If you like a girl, and you know that she likes you too, how do you approach her? What should I do to tell her that I like her too?

I'm a member of my school' Wushu team but I can't secure a first team place in school since my hand injury. What can I do to prove myself that I can perform well?

There's this girl in school I like, she's beautiful and she's in the top class while I'm somewhere in the centre. We've never chatted nor spoke to one another before, cause I'm quite shy when I'm around her. She hangs out with this three girls who are equally charming and always seem so wise and busy when they're together. I keep making eye contact with all three of them, not purposely but accidentally, and this makes me kind of insecure. Now whenever I'm walking along the same corridor as them, I always catch them making snide glimpses of me and looking the other way when I look in their direction. I wanted to give this girl something for Valentine's Day but I couldn't think of anything and ended up not giving anything. I really like this girl but I just don't think that I'm up to her standards, and I hope anyone of you can help me.

There's this girl in school I like, she's beautiful and she's in the top class while I'm somewhere in the centre. We've never chatted nor spoke to one another before, cause I'm quite shy when I'm around her. She hangs out with this three girls who are equally charming and always seem so wise and busy when they're together. I keep making eye contact with all three of them, not purposely but accidentally, and this makes me kind of insecure. Now whenever I'm walking along the same corridor as them, I always catch them making snide glimpses of me and looking the other way when I look in their direction. I wanted to give this girl something for Valentine's Day but I couldn't think of anything and ended up not giving anything. I really like this girl but I just don't think that I'm up to her standards, and I hope anyone of you can help me.

I'm 15 this year and I've taken a fancy to this girl in my class. She's beautiful and has a beautiful voice which I can't get over. We've seen one another in class but not outside, and when I had posted a note under her desk, it seems to be left untouched. I'm not sure what I'm going to do next cause other guys in my class are falling for her too. Should I persue her or give up the chase? And how should I get her attention? Please help!!!

im 15 and i've been attracted to this girl since the start of school, she's nice and has a beautiful voice. everytime we take snide glances at one another but im not sure whether she's looking at me or my best friend whom i believe also likes her. we've spoke to each other only 2 times!!! Im in love with her but i dare not face up to her and now i belive that she's getting tired of this going ons, please help!!

Juventus doesnt belong in Serie B!! Bring them back for winning the world cup!!! Why on earth must they destroy Juventus like that? Other teams might also be doing the same thing unnoticed....give equal punishments to the other clubs involved. this way its fair...

I've downloaded quite a number of anti virus softwares from the internet but none seem to have worked. Please help.