J M

Okay - so super brief history: I am just moving on from loosing my fiancee to a heart attack. It was sudden and unexpected, and left me in shock because he was so young and had no symptoms. It's been 2 + years and I *think* I am ready to start dating again - something i haven't done in forever!

I have my eye on a guy - but I have NO clue if he's interested in me. We hang out enough - within our circle of friends, and by ourselves (platonically - cause we share the same interests). My friend told me that he will NEVER make the first move - and well, I have never been the one to make the first move, especially now, because I am quite sensitive. In any case - I believe I have sent enough signals, although I have totally forgotten how to flirt! I have such a huge crush on this guy that it took me a few months to jut be able to hold a decent conversation with him! I guess my question is - what do i do? if I wait for him to make the first move, I could be waiting forever BUT I'm chicken!