Maria

I've spent most of my life listening to metal (NWOBHM, Thrash, Death, Grindcore, Black, industrial, Groove, MDM, Porno grind, Alternative, Stoner, Sludge... basically every sub genre of metal, excluding most progressive, power and symphonic metal) punk, and hardcore punk. I love these genres, but after listening to them so much, and for so long... I need a little bit of a break. I like alternative, ska, rockabilly, big band, some rap, etc. Some of the bands I've been listening to a lot lately are a little more lighthearted thank Cattle Decapitation, Minor Threat and The Exploited. And I'd like some suggestions for more. These are some bands/artists that I've been listening to

Social Distortion

Blue October

Sublime

Mighty Mighty Bosstones

Rancid

Alkaline Trio

Third Eye Blind

Cage the Elephant

Oasis

Awolnation

Flogging Molly

The Tossers

The Creepshow

Glenn Miller

Nat King Cole

Thanks for the suggestions! Please so emo/scene, or post hardcore. I'm mainly looking for laid back music. Also, please nothing too mainstream and obvious.

I'm 5'3, 120 lbs, wear a 34C, 25 inch waistline, 35 inch hips, a larger butt and flat stomach. I've always considered myself to be an hourglass. Pretty curvy. But twice now this week, I've been called a toothpick. I'm thin, but not extremely thin. And i still have curves. My friend told me is was stick figure like and she was the hourglass, she's a bigger girl, beautiful... but far from an hourglass. What would you define as am hourglass? Because the definition of curvy is now confusing me.

My mom's friend told me that I should consider modelling. I actually had a little bit of a debate with my boyfriend, my cousin, and my mom's friend over this. I think maybe they think they're being nice by saying it. I really don't think I do. And I'm happy about that. I have curves that I embrace. I don't like the ideal model body type. I am 5'3". I wear a 34C, have a 25 inch waistline, 35 inch hips, a larger butt and I weigh about 120 lbs. Does that seem like a body that could model to you? I thought too short and too curvy. But I embrace it... I've always admired Bettie Page, Marilyn Monroe, Dita Von Teese, etc.. so I like my curves and my pin up look...

Mine is probably Demon of the Fall. We have very similar taste in music.I have quite a few users in here that I like, though. Phatzwave, Tristan Geoff, FTW, P-Man, Hurricane, Xaverie, etc. Also, who is your least favorite user? Mine are mainly just the trolls, like Aulem Lupen.

Well my man and I have been together nearly two years, we waited over a year before we did anything sexual. And around a year and a half for actual intercourse. He's fantastic in bed. I tell him that. He's always very insecure about his size, although it's absolutely perfect. He's always worried about not satisfying me.And with just vaginal penetration he can get me very close to orgasm. But not all the way there, which is normal. I know. He tends to ignore the clit and nipples during sex. He gives them attention during foreplay, though. So while he's ******* me, ill use a hand so I can orgasm. But when I start, he stops ******* me and starts sucking on a nipple or rubbing my clit. It feels great, but I don't orgasm. So every time I've faked it. How can I kind of tell him that I need him to either pay attention to more of my body or to let me help pleasure myself? I'm not trying to hurt his feelings. He's great in bed, but I need a little more than just vaginal penetration. We were each other's first, so we're not terribly experienced. Advice?

Well my man and I have been together nearly two years, we waited over a year before we did anything sexual. And around a year and a half for actual intercourse. He's fantastic in bed. I tell him that. He's always very insecure about his size, although it's absolutely perfect. He's always worried about not satisfying me.And with just vaginal penetration he can get me very close to orgasm. But not all the way there, which is normal. I know. He tends to ignore the clit and nipples during sex. He gives them attention during foreplay, though. So while he's ******* me, ill use a hand so I can orgasm. But when I start, he stops ******* me and starts sucking on a nipple or rubbing my clit. It feels great, but I don't orgasm. So every time I've faked it. How can I kind of tell him that I need him to either pay attention to more of my body or to let me help pleasure myself? I'm not trying to hurt his feelings. He's great in bed, but I need a little more than just vaginal penetration. We were each other's first, so we're not terribly experienced. Advice?

Just wondering. I've pretty much been a regular here, mainly in the Rock and Pop section, but also somewhat in Polls and Surveys. It killed time when I'd get bored. But lately, Y!A has not been helping me with my boredom. Why do you think that is? Do you think I'll ever giggle at a troll again?

My man and I have been together for a little over a year and a half. We're madly in love. I guess you could say that I'm a bit of a make up junkie. Not that I cake it on I just love doing make up. When I get the money, I'm going to beauty school for it. I don't leave the house without it. My style is very classic, and I'm good with makeup. So it's not the amount or application that bothers him. The picture is Rita Hayworth, but a good example of how I look. He tells me things like "You don't need to bother with makeup if it's just the two of us just sitting around". He always tells me that he thinks I'm beautiful either way and to do whatever makes me happy. So I wear it every day. Today he told me that he thinks I'm more beautiful without it. He's seen me naked faced, all made up and everywhere in between I'm not sure if that was to be nice or because maybe he doesn't like me wearing it. What do you think? Do you think maybe he wants me getting less male attention? He gets a little upset when other men stare. Do you think he just wants a more natural girl? Or just flattery? What's your take?

I honestly think that woman aren't EVER half as attractive without makeup as they are with it when they know how to properly apply it. I think they are generally lazy, or "don't need it". I think they're just being holier than thou with an inflated sense of self or don't know how to use it. I know that I'm pretty. But make up brings me to my full potential. No woman is as beautiful without it as they are with it. I don't cake the stuff on, I have a very classic look. Think Rita Hayworth. But my man told me today that he thinks I'm prettier without it. He also says things like "If it's just the two of us, you don't need to bother." He's always told me that I'm beautiful both ways and to do whatever makes me happy. So I wear it, every day. I like to. But like I said, I'm wondering if he wants me to stop. What do you think? And why do you think he'd want me to? Less attention from other men? He doesn't like it? Just trying to be nice?

Honestly, I don't even find Kim attractive because she's so fake and classless. Dita, however is naturally beautiful, with an amazing body, that pin up look, she's a real lady. She embraces being sexual without being a whore. I admire Dita, and would most definitely have lesbian time with her, although I'm straight. She's irresistible. Man man calls me little Dita lol, because I'm like the short, red head version of her.

DEVILDRIVER - Sail (Official Lyric Video) | Napal…: http://youtu.be/torc9P4-k5A

When I heard the Devildriver version, I was hooked. It makes a great metal song. Devildriver is one of my favorite bands of all time, so I guess I'm a bit biased, but I think this was a great cover. You guys?

BQ: Which version do you like best?

BQ2: Favorite Devildriver song?

Devildriver

Probably Back With a Vengeance or Just Run

Just wondering if anyone else has a list too lol. My man and I have one. It includes songs like

Closer- Nine Inch Nails

Good Friends and a Bottle of Pills - Pantera

Adrenalize- In This Moment

Slip it In- Black Flag

I Just Want Some Skank - Circle Jerks

... and many more. If you have one, what are some of the songs on it? Do you like my list?

I like them despite the fact that they're terribly racist. I'm not proud of it, but I went through a phase of being white power. During this phase, I started listening to Skrewdriver. Although I've grown as a person and now have friends of all colors and backgrounds, I still like the band. You guys?

I'm not going through puberty, or menopause. I'm not on the pill. My period shouldn't come for another few weeks. No chance of being pregnant. No dry skin, they haven't been loved on too much. But I do have an upper respiratory infection and I'm on antibiotics. My nipples have been very sore. It's weird. Just wondering why this might be.

That I am Maria Brink of In This Moment? (For those of you unable to see who posted the question, it's Maria. The metal/hardcore punk one :P )

I like NIN, but I actually found Hurt to be an OK song, not exceptional. But when Johnny Cash does Hurt, I can hear all the pain in his voice. It hits me, it's so real. Sends chills down my spine and makes me cry every time. Very few songs do that. I'm not one to get emotional, but damn. That song does it. Which is your favorite and why?

I have a very large and painful sty. I've gotten them before but never this big. My eye is swollen almost shut. I can't see to pluck the infected eyelash. I've been doing warm compresses and tea on it several times a day. How can I get of it quicker? Thanks!

I'm extremely bored. I have nothing to do, I can't leave the house at the moment, nobody is home, boyfriend is going to band practice soon so he can't come over... suggestions? Maybe a new band to listen to? A new pin up girl to look at? An offensive joke? Lol I just need something, I'm bored out of my damn mind.

(I listen to a lot of types of music, mainly groove metal, melodic death metal and punk though) I'm also open to discuss music with people lol that entertains me.

Mine is Soilwork.

BQ: Favorite album?

BQ1: Favorite song?

The Panic Broadcast

One With the Flies