knowitall

I am trying to decide what to do.

My husband and I got into a fight that turned physical a year ago. He threw me around and threatened to throw me off the balcony it was a bad situation. he had me over his shoulder and I was kicking and bit his back while i was trying to get away.

I eventually got away and was able to get out of the apartment. I left for about an hour, when i came back to pick up some stuff so I could leave for my parents I was arrested for assault on my husband. He had called the cops on me saying I had beaten him up. I spent 3 days in jail and never gave a statement. my court date is up in a few weeks and I don't know if i should take the crowns plea or fight the case. they are offering me a conditional discharge with 2 years probation.

I don't feel right pleading guilty. Yet I also don't trust the legal system, the police, lawyers, anything at this point. Supposidly the police took photos of his back where I had bitten him.They didnt take any photos of my injuries.

Im newly divorced and never was into the dating scene I need help.The most beautiful man I have ever seen has been on contract at my work as an electrician. Is it wrong to date someone who is temporarily a co-employee? (I don't date fellow workers ever)

How do I find out if he is single? or if I stand a chance? How do I find out his name even. He says hi and smiles when ever I see him and it makes me so happy. What do I do? How do I let him know Im interested without being to obvious about it? I dont want to make a fool of myself.