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I have dated white collar, blue collar and in between. I have yet to find a man that could be faithful and tell the truth. OMG it is SO pathetic to think that at this point (over 40) there's nothing but LIARS out there. Maybe I pick the narcissistic, pathological liars or something but across racial and economic lines, they ALL end up lieing and cheating. Oh...and they don't want to leave - they want to get married, etc.? It's crazy. Thoughts?

How do you truly know someone is over the 'ex' gf or wife? Soooo many people I know go back to have 'sex with the ex' and I'd like to know why - other than convenience. I mean when you break up or get divorced isn't that really the end of it? Shouldn't it be? How do you really know someone is 'over' the other person? Seems like lately the 'exes' seem to creep into more and more relationships and many of my friends have been guilty of 'sex with the ex'. Yuk is what I say....and if they DO have sex with the ex - why? and why not reconcile? why keep dating the other person they are currently in a relationship with?

Dating exclusively for 4 months; divorced 2 years ago. Ex-wife is manipulative (yes I have proof) and wants him back; still asks him over for dinner and movie. Found a pair of earrings at his house. He has no explanation and told me to get past it. Gotta take him at his word. Hasn't said the 'L' word yet however we spend lots of time together; enjoy each other's company, laugh, etc. Maybe he just wants to be 'friends' or had a romp with the ex? Thoughts?

I've dated a string of guys that just can't be honest! It's absolutely crazy. They lie about having sex with their ex-girlfriends; they lie about having a relationship outside of the one they are in. And in all the cases, they didn't want to break-up; they didn't want to leave; they love me...blah blah. The last one was nuts - he went back to some buck-toothed, trailer-trash chick who cheats on her bf and drinks to get drunk; smokes like a chimney. I'm totally baffled by these liars...what's the point? Outside of the obvious - sex - why stay? Why not just leave? I did and it feels GREAT!

My son has allergies to furry animals. We had to give our English Springer Spaniel away when he was young like 2 years old. Now he's older and we want to try again with dog with less dander, etc. Has anyone else bought a Cockapoo with kids that have allergies and/or asthma? How did the kids react to the dog?

I downloaded the blackberry software 4.10 for my BB 8700c and nothing shows up in my start up or my desktop. I've called support 3 times and they send me the download instructions for www.cingular.com/downloads. I download the .exe and nothing launches. If I save and then try to launch nothing happens. What's up? Why isn't windows XP picking up the 'new program'? HELP!

We've spent billions on nuclear programs, weapons, tanks, submarines, arsenals, missiles, etc. What would a country have to do to the US to get us to actually use (ala Hiroshima) a nuclear weapon?

Should I be concerned to allow him to play in sports such as hockey? Doctors don't know much about it ....does anyone else have a child with EDS and do they play sports?