koroshiya2000

I am married, kid, job and all that, but I cant help but see things in the big picture, for example, whats the point in doing certain activities when Im just going to die eventually. and Im only 28.

I know you have to live for today, enjoy yourself and make the most of things. I try to put things in perspective, but I think I have WAY too much perspective to be comfortable.

I cant help but see the end result....

I own a 2002 Hyundai Elantra, when I bought it a few months ago, I started it up on a cold morning and had to turn on the heat, i noticed it would heat up, then the heat would slowly dissipate and blown normal temperature, I thought I was crazy and left it at that..

now, Its HOT, so I put on the air conditioning, the same thing happens, it will blow ice cubes and then warm up, while still driving !.

I dont know if it is connected, but the clock is never right either.

I was thinking electrical/alternator, but the lights never dim and the car starts up fine with no other issues.

anyone have a clue. ???

I drive a 2002 Hyundai Elantra, here in Illinois, it just got to 90+ degrees and HUMID so I had to turn on the air conditioning.

After a few minutes of blowing ice cubes, its starts warming up, especially during an idle, but even then it takes some speeding up and RPM buildup to get it cool, then it backs off again.

kind of comes and goes. from what ive read, it might not be just the freon levels. It doesnt seem to make any funny noises or do anything wierd, just cooling and warming.

Anyone have any ideas?

So, a little background, i got a job over a year ago, a few months ago I found out that a female employee had applied for the same position but of course didnt get it. Then I found out for the whole year, her and her husband (who works in the same position as me but at a different company) have HATED me the whole time.

she finally confronted me about it and asked why I hated HER, I told her I had no idea and that I barely knew who she was. we patched things up and became good friends. we text each other and talk sometimes at work, but have never met up outside of work. we have no feelings for each other, it is just a friendship.

the other day, her husband emailed me and messaged me on facebook and was harassing me. he bascally outlined that he hated me, didnt like the way I did my job (even though he really has no idea and I dont affect him at all). He threatened to contact my wife, and my boss.

I have SERIOUSLY done nothing wrong, Ive vented to the friend about issues, but nothing more.

it all sounds like crazy high school drama but we are adults. he is out of line to email me a personal message on facebook, but I have to admit, I am scared of the guy, but not threatened by what he said he would do. My wife knows we are friends. he is a huge over bearing bully. he tries to control her tell her where to work, who to be friends with....

he threatened that if I didnt stop talking to her, he would do these things and visit me personally.

I dont need this grief, I dont want this stress. I told him fine, I'll stop talking to her so I unfriended her on facebook....what should I do if she messages me?

Im not hiding anything from anyone, especially my wife.

We think that our baby developed my milk allergy, he is 3 months old and has been spitting up a lot on Enfamil Lipil, so we gave him the A/R formula to thicken it up and he then spat thick formula, last night we finally decided enough and bought the 'Prosobee' Soy formula.

He threw up clear liquid through the night and a little this morning. Then when I fed him this morning he spat the whole bottle back at me right after being done feeding, I managed to get 2 more ounces down him and he fell asleep, so far so good. He is happy and doesnt seem to be in pain.

we called the nurse and they havent got back to us yet.

is it common to have upset tummy when switching formula??

let me know, thanks.

My wife and I both claimed 0 dependants and withhold at the higher rate or whatever..... but we are filing our taxes and found that we will owe a few hundred dollars... this does not make any sense to us.. can anyone shed any light as to why we would owe??... we made almost the exact same, and paid almost exactly the same in tax, and totalled just over 40k before tax. help!!!!