St.Anger

My wife has arthritis and was sexually abused when she was a kid. Our sex life was average at best but now in our mid-40s it's gotten a lot less frequent. When we do have sex it’s always in the same position and there's never any foreplay. Also if I go for too long she starts to feel pain in her joints. I have no intension of cheating on her but I’m really miserable. Actually I feel sad and lonely.

Sex has always been very important to me. I know i sound like a pr!ck for complaining about my sex life while my wife is the one with the real problems. I’m really unhappy and have no one to commiserate with. Because of the abuse she suffered in the past she doesn’t like talking about sex or rather about me not being happy with our sex life. This was so even before the arthritis declared itself.

I just want to know if anyone out there is in a similar situation and how do you deal with it. Again, I do not want to cheat on her. Tried therapy and it only made me feel sadder. So any thoughts on the matter would be greatly appreciated.

If so would it bother you if your partner fantasized about someone else?

Today a young man on acid realized that all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration, that we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively, there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. "

Bill Hicks

Most of my friends are women. it just seems that i get along with them much more than most guys. I find there's always sense of competition between most guys which I don't feel at all with women. My wife is cool with it. She's very secure in our relationship and knows there's no danger in me cheating. She actually knows some of my friends and some have come to the house for supper.

I had a conversation with a guy today at work and he asked me who of the the girls I had lunch with is the easiest. I had to set him straight 1. We really are just friends and 2. it's idiotic attitudes like that that make me want to hang out more with women.

Later in our conversation he said his wife would never allow him to hang out with girls the way I do. i told him I felt sorry for him.

My question is... How frequency is this. Is there anyone else man or woman that has better relationships with members of the other sex?

First things first I always give up my seat for older, diabled or pregnant people. (You know which people get pregnant so spare me the wise cracks). However, today there was this girl who had a pot-belly. Now I wasn't sure if she was pregnant or an avid beer drinker. So I was hesitant in giving up my seat, I mean i didn't want to offend her if she wasn't pregnant.

So what was I to do?

Do you believe there's more to life than what we experience with our senses, emotions and intellect?

We enjoy having sex when our son is at a friends house so we can both relax and not worry about him barging in on us. So this means in the afternoon most of the time.

...have orgasms. The reason I ask is because some guy answered a young girl's question saying that most women don't have orgasms. I think he's either a virgin, gay or the worst lover on earth.

The world is like a ride in an amusement park. And when you choose to go on it, you think it's real because that's how powerful our minds are. And the ride goes up and down and round and round. It has thrills and chills and it's very brightly coloured and it's very loud and it's fun, for a while. Some people have been on the ride for a long time and they begin to question, is this real, or is this just a ride? And other people have remembered, and they come back to us, they say, "Hey - don't worry, don't be afraid, ever, because, this is just a ride... And we... kill those people.

Bill Hicks

Do you love close to you or does your love go beyond that?

For me it's her pretty face and long legs.

How many women would be comfortable with their husbands staying home to take care of the kids & house. I would love to, however I'm in a line of work where I make more money than my wife. She is looking for something that will paymore so this may come true for me.

I'm not.

Or do you have the same sex at the same frequency all the time.

We tend to ebb and flow. I like it that way because I don't like routine.

My wife and I have been married 10 years together for 16 and we went out to celebrate last night and spent the evening talking about how we've grown together as people,. How we've been a good influence on each other and how great our son is.

How is your marriage/relationship after say 10 years or so?

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