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My partner and I argue so frequently that it is really destroying our relationship. The worst thing is the arguments are mostly unresolved and are brought up again and again. Something is very wrong in our relationship, but neither of us knows how to fix it. We try to accept each other and usually are successful, but these arguments pop up again and again. Now we are not speaking, not showing any love, and not being considerate. I thought we were having a constructive conversation and all of a sudden it turned personal and hostile. I am so sick of this drama and now I want to leave the relationship and be alone. Should I leave? It is so tempting because now not even the love we have is enough to hold me here.

Other Details-Other than the arguments, my partner is usually fun to be with, loving, giving, and supportive. It probably does not help that we no longer make love, why I do not know. I asked and asked, we talked and talked (which turned to arguments)

Really, is this over????

My partner and I argue frequently about communication. Neither of us feels understood. We are both articulate, college graduates, and in love. I feel this issue is causing our relationship serious damage. We went to couple counseling a couple of years ago and we learned some tools that seemed to help. things like "I" statements and paraphrasing, but they seem to no longer work. What more can we do? We have been together for 15 years and neither of us want to break-up. Other than communication (which is a huge thing for me) we get along fine.

.She just stopped talking to me and when I called her, she talked to me like I was a stranger. Now after a lot of years, she is back and knocking on my door. I am insulted, hurt, and angry that after I finally stopped thinking about her, that she thought she would just show up as if all is ok. I considered our friendship to be deeper than sisters and we discussed everything, and I mean that literally. Please tell me what would you do? Because now I am having hurt feelings again and I am thinking about her again, and I really want to get over this and heal.

So would you accept her back into your life, with her explanations that are many years too late? Or would you forgive her and trust her again? I really need your help!!

I am writing a term paper and I need some statistical data. I believe the percentage is high, but I really need your help.

I need to know if moms believe chicken soup relieves your child's cold symptoms and is so, do you give chicken soup to your child every time he or she has a cold.

Thank you!!!!

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