Mira

So... i am 17, sonn will be 18. And i really really wanna be a musucian/singer/do something connected with music! But no one actually knows that, i tried to tell my sister and she said taht i was too shy to do that which is kinda true and kinda not cuz i KNOW that i can overcome that but i just don't know how my parents would react to that and all that jazz and i don't have the courage but i realllly wanna do it! I am not the most extraordinary thing you have ever heard but i'd like to think that i am good , i feel it when i sing, it is my safe place, very time i feel stressed i am on the piano singing my heart out if i am all alone which is sad... and i just cannot get my sh*t together and sing when my parents are home... i can sing in front of strangers and not give a sh*t but in front ot my family - NO WAY! WHY? help me, a really wanna do it but i just don't have the balls...

I like a boy that is my friend and he likes me, but ... i know it is going to sound awful but i don't want anyone to know that there is something between us... why? and i really like him but i am just afraid and stufff,why?!

will having a low grade at some subjects ruin my life and my possibilities for growing and becoming successful?

Help me! I am failing at school and not because i am lazy or something... i really work, yeah i don't work my *** off but i am working and it is just not happening... i don't know what i wanna do with my life and i feel like a big piece of sh*t. what can i do

My sister has mental issues! she has a really low paid job that is like really stressful and she moves the stress into her relationship with her boyfriend, she is cursing him and saying awful stuff to him every day( she says she doesn't love him, that she wants to make a whole in his forehead etc) and after an hour she forgets everything. He is a really nice and patient guy but he cannot do it anymore so today he moved out ( they were living together with me cuz i go to school in a different city) and she was working.She was texting him all day and in the afternoon she said that she was going to wait for him after work but he called me and said that he was not going to go which i understand! now she is there waiting for him, my mum and dad came here to be with her and i just texted my father and he said that it is awful and that she does not want to go home and she is crying and calling him and texting him! she is totally off! and her boyfriend really loves her and he is texting me that he is really worried and that he is so sorry and i don't blame him but at the same time i really want to help my sister, but i don;t know how, i know she desperately needs a therapy but she doesn't want to go! HELP PLEASE!

do u have any advice? it ended badly but we are in the same group of friends and they don't really know about us and stuff... i still have feelings for him ( that is so sad...) i see him too often... what can i do?

I am ok with my family and my friends ( i've known them my whole life) and that's it! I am too shy to go and ask fo the left shoe in the shop( real story, and that is pathetic!), i am too shy to make new friends in my new school , cuz i feel like i am forcing people to communicate with me(so, i have like 3 frineds that are living in another town...), i am too shy to do what i want to do and to show that i am actually good at it, i am too shy in general and this is stopping me in life and i DO realize that but i cannot change it. What do i do?

I am 17, a girl! A have a bad case of dandruff! i have tried everything (head & shoulders, hair masks that cost a looot, selsun blue...) nothing works! my scalp is flaking and the dandruff is greasy... some people say it's because of puberty and hormones... i am really ashamed, i always wear my hair in a ponytail , i am ashamed to go and get a haircut( i alwaysi think that the hairstylist is going to think that i am dirty and have a poor hygiene and that is not true), it's awful... what should i do?

I don't fit in school, like at all and i am really stressed out! I live in Bulgaria ( excuse language mistakes :/ ) and i have 2 more years of high school! The school is not in my hometown so i live away from my parents and i am really miserable at school! i don't have real friends, everybody cares only about their make up, the parties, the alcohol and the sex. I am NOT interested in these things, i really genuinely think that i can have fun without being drunk or high but there's no one who shares my opinion! i really don't want to go back to school i don't think that i can make it for 2 more years... I know that my case is not the worst but i dunno what to do, please help me! :///