Jennifer

I was with a group of friends last weekend, sort of an informal party. There were ten of us, five guys and five girls, including two couples, the rest singles. at my urging, we agreed to play a stripping game.

One of the guys, let's call him John, is somewhat overweight, maybe 250 pounds, but he's smart and funny, a regular part of our group. He was really hesitant about playing a stripping game (he wasn't the only one), but everyone agreed to play, and he did too.

Well, he ended up the first one naked, and everybody saw how small his penis was. I mean, it was like completely retracted into his body, with just a little foreskin showing. He was obviously really embarrassed, but a couple of the guys, and a couple of the girls, made a really big deal out of it, calling him some predictable names.

John stoically took the teasing, but he looked to me like he was about to cry. While these four people teased him mercilessly, the rest of us began to feel very uncomfortable.

Finally, one of the girls began to play with his penis, and within seconds he had an impressive erection. They grabbed a ruler and measured him, and his erection turned out to be about five and a half inches, perfectly normal. John even joked that he was "a grower, not a shower."

The party ended shortly after that, with most people in an unhappy mood. I wish I'd never suggested the stripping game, because while I thought somebody might get really embarrassed, I never anticipated the level of humiliation that John endured.

Why did they do that to him? And what can I do to let him know how much I disapprove of what they did? He's always been kind of a friend, and he's really sweet. I'm afraid the whole experience may have scarred him. I've even thought about asking him on a date. I really don't care that he's overweight, because he's always neat and clean, and fun to be around. But I don't want him to think it's just because of what happened. He's endured enough.

What are your thoughts?

I know it sounds weird. A while back, I was at a club with some friends. The back of my dress came untied and fell down, exposing my boobs to everybody. I was embarrassed, and a little tipsy, but I just laughed it off, tied it again, and kept dancing.

Alone that night, though, thinking about it, I got really turned on.

I work hard to look good. I'm 27, I have long blond hair, a slender body and a nice bottom, and smallish, perky breasts. I think I'm fairly attractive, and I know guys (and sometimes girls) check me out. And I'm always flattered when they do. I figure some of them are picturing me naked, and that turns me on.

It makes me wonder what it would be like to be the only naked person in a crowded room, and it gets me more than a little excited thinking about it. I just want to know whether any other women ever have a fantasy like this.

I know it sounds weird. A while back, I was at a club with some friends. The back of my dress came untied and fell down, exposing my boobs to everybody. At the time, I was embarrassed, but I just laughed it off, tied it again, and kept dancing.

Alone that night, though, thinking about it, I got really turned on.

Now I'm fantasizing about this, in many different settings. The safest would be to get naked in front of my friends, maybe to intentionally lose a strip poker game. In the wilder ones, I just walk down a crowded street with nothing on.

I just want to know whether anyone else, women in particular, ever have a fantasy like this.

My breasts have always been rather small; I wear a 32A bra. I'm 27, so I don't think they're going to grow any more, either.

I've had several boyfriends, and I've never had any complaints. But when I look around at all the big-chested women, I get jealous sometimes. I do know that when they're too big, they can cause backaches.

I met one guy during a padded bra phase I went through. When he found out how small my boobs actually were, he told me he was disappointed. He said he didn't care how small or big my breasts were, he said he felt he'd been lied to by the padded bra.

I'm a grown woman, and I should be past this, but sometimes I get a little down. What do you guys think about a pretty, slender girl with long blond hair, a nice butt, and small breasts?

I've always been strictly heterosexual. A while back, at a party, we were playing some games, and this other girl and I lost. We'd agreed beforehand that we'd have to pay a "forfeit," so the guys decided that she and I had to make out for 15 seconds.

My God! I didn't have anything against something like that, but it's not really me. But I always try to play fair, so I agreed.

The other girl, Emma, is really beautiful, and I know she's kissed other girls before. Well, I moved in close, closed my eyes, and within second we were French kissing! The thing is, it was actually enjoyable. So enjoyable, I wasn't paying any attention to the time. I was really into the kiss!

It turned out that we made out for more than a minute, and when we were done, I could feel dampness between my legs. I got turned on kissing a girl!

Now I'm confused. I don't really want to do it again, but could I actually be bisexual, or bicurious? Should I experiment? Should I call Emma and ask to try it again?

For the record, I'm 27 years old.

Help!

I was at a club with several friends, male and female. I was dancing with one of the guys, when the strap on my dress, behind my neck, came untied. The top of my dress fell down, leaving my smallish boobs on full display! I'd had a couple of drinks, and it took me a few seconds to cover up. All my friends, and a lot of strangers, saw my breasts! My face got so hot from embarrassment, but I just laughed it off.

But later, alone in my room, I thought about it, and I got really turned on. I wondered what it would be like to be totally naked in front of a lot of people. Now I'm trying to figure out a safe way to make it happen, and trying to decide if I really want to.

First, am I weird? Does this mean I'm an exhibitionist? Should I explore it further?

And has anyone else had a similar experience? How did you react?

My breasts have always been rather small; I wear a 32A bra. I'm 27, so I don't think they're going to grow any more, either.

I've had several boyfriends, and I've never had any complaints. But when I look around at all the big-chested women, I get jealous sometimes. I do know that when they're too big, they can cause backaches.

I met one guy during a padded bra phase I went through. When he found out how small my boobs actually were, he told me he was disappointed. He said he didn't care how small or big my breasts were, he said he felt he'd been lied to by the padded bra.

I'm a grown woman, and I should be past this, but sometimes I get a little down. What do you guys think about a pretty, slender girl with long blond hair, a nice butt, and small breasts?

My breasts have always been rather small; I wear a 32A bra. I'm 27, so I don't think they're going to grow any more, either.

I've had several boyfriends, and I've never had any complaints. But when I look around at all the big-chested women, I get jealous sometimes. I know when they're too big, they can cause backaches.

I met one guy during a padded bra phase I went through. When he found out how small my boobs actually were, he told me he was disappointed. He said he didn't care how small or big my breasts were, he said he felt he'd been lied to by the padded bra.

I'm a grown woman, and I should be past this, but sometimes I get a little down. What do you guys think about a pretty, slender girl with long blond hair and small breasts?

I was at a club with several friends, male and female. I was dancing with one of the guys, when the strap on my dress, behind my neck, came untied. The top of my dress fell down, leaving my smallish boobs on full display! I'd had a couple of drinks, and it took me a few seconds to cover up. All my friends, and a lot of strangers, saw my breasts! My face got so hot from embarrassment, but I just laughed it off.

But later, alone in my room, I thought about it, and I got really turned on. I wondered what it would be like to be totally naked in front of a lot of people. Now I'm trying to figure out a safe way to make it happen, and trying to decide if I really want to.

First, am I weird? Does this mean I'm an exhibitionist? Should I explore it further?

And has anyone else had a similar experience? How did you react?

I've always been strictly heterosexual. A while back, at a party, we were playing some games, and this other girl and I lost. We'd agreed beforehand that we'd have to pay a "forfeit," so the guys decided that she and I had to make out for 15 seconds.

My God! I didn't have anything against something like that, but it's not really me. But I always try to play fair, so I agreed.

The other girl, Emma, is really beautiful, and I know she's kissed other girls before. Well, I moved in close, closed my eyes, and within second we were French kissing! The thing is, it was actually enjoyable. So enjoyable, I wasn't paying any attention to the time. I was really into the kiss!

It turned out that we made out for more than a minute, and when we were done, I could feel dampness between my legs. I got turned on kissing a girl!

Now I'm confused. I don't really want to do it again, but could I actually be bisexual, or bicurious? Should I experiment? Should I call Emma and ask to try it again?

Help!