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In his bio, he says ‘looking for something casual and new experiences’. I know his wife but we’re not close and he has a kid. What should I do?

The thing is if he says no, I’ll still see more of him in the next few weeks at work. He’s being nice to me but I don’t know if that means anything..

He’s 34 btw 

I’m 27, he’s 29. We dated 6 years ago and it didn’t work out, then we became really good friends. One time a few years ago, he cut me off for the sake of his girlfriend because ‘we’ve history’. Then he came back after they broke up. Two years ago, we were in a phase where we both liked each other and thought we might date again, talked about it and made plans, then out of nowhere he told me he’s in a relationship. That was 2 years ago and then it happened again last month. He apologized over and over and over again, but I can’t get over it. I don’t know if I should forgive him for the sake of our friendship or not. 

He’s a really good person but that thing making me think twice. Is it silly? Should I just give him a chance?

My hair’s very curly and a bit short..

I’ve two cockatiels. One of them preens and the other one doesn’t at all. I think he doesn’t know how to cause I got him young. How to encourage him to preen?

I don’t know how old she is. I had her for a year and she gets along with my male cockatiel. Do cockatiels stop laying eggs with age? Does that mean she’s just old?

I don’t know where else to ask this, but I’m very curious. I had a perfect childhood, no trauma of any sort, yet now I have BPD and social anxiety. Don’t personality disorders stem from childhood and adolescent years?

I’m 26, and my life only started getting screwed up lately.

I’m not sure whether to clip my cockatiels’ wings or not, so I’d like to hear from you.

I’m sober for 3 years now, and this is not something I’m proud of. I do want a future with him though. Does he have to know?

My cockatiel stopped singing around a week ago. He’s around 11 months old, and he’s healthy. No signs of sickness.

The weather’s been changing a lot lately where I live, and I’m trying my best to keep him and the other cockatiel warm. Could this be why he’s quiet?

My two birdies are so not cuddly..

I mist him with warm water, but after every shower, he wouldn’t let me pet him for at least a day. The other cockatiel LOVES to shower.

Is there any way to make it enjoyable to him?

There are street dogs that I feed close to my house (I live in an apartment building). They don’t get inside my house tho.

Today when I got back home from work, I found one dog sitting by the door, whining and crying. She broke her leg a couple of weeks ago and now she’s doing good.

She kept whining, and I just want to know why she might be doing that. Does that mean she’s in pain or something?

I gave her food and water and then I had to let her leave because the neighbors started complaining... is she ok? I feel guilty for letting her leave.

I'm an ex drug addict. I'm facing a very hard time, and I just want to numb my feelings, so I'd love to know what helps you stay sober when life seems like a dead end.