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If my cars are insured and paid for completely and only in my name, does my 18 year old son have to be listed as a driver if he uses one of the cars once in awhile?

a friend of my boyfriend's gave him a truck. It needed a lot of work and he did the work. the catch is, the guy won't give him the title.The guy tells him he ordered a replacement title but always has an excuse.what can my boyfriend do legally?

I know it is me again but after year plus time with this guy I can see that we just aren't going anywhere. Since hes been running with this new friend of his he is different. Different in ways I just can't explain. He says we're fine. Tonight I told him again how I felt about this guy and he got very agitated and left. I told him that I should be able to trust talking to him without being afraid he is going to walk out on me. I didn't even raise my voice. I was crying and pleading with him to just talk to me, just listen to me and i told him I would just like him to find some friends with some character and he told me that I didn't want him to have a life. That is not true. He used to be my best friend, now I can't even consider him a friend anymore. So anyway he left, I cried pulled myself together and called him to make sure he got home alright. He said yeah, I'm home and I'm alright. When I said to him, arent you going to ask if I'm alright, he said I'm sure you are, your at home right? I said maybe. And he said yes you are or one of your kids picked you up but anyway you know your going to push me into doing stuff and its gonna bite us both in the butt. He wouldn't tell me what that means but his friend does some drugs. But I waited, tried to call him about four times and he wouldn't answer so on the last call, I let him a voice mail telling him I am letting him go. He won't hear from me again. I wish him all the happieness life has to offer but this just isn't going to work.. I love him so much. Please somebody tell me how to do this. I am 48 years old and I'm so heartbroken, like a teen, I don't know how to handle this. Any ideas. I think I did the right thing but tomorrow I know I'll rethink it all. Please tell me something

Ok so my boyfriend has this neighbor and this guy is just not good news. The other morning I slept in and while I was sleeping my bf tried calling me two times. When I called him back, he said he would get back to me then cause he was going over to this guys house for coffee. This guy has come between us many times. In fact I no longer stay at my bf house because of him. I think my bf should have talked to me for at least ten to fifteen minutes anyway before going over there for almost an hour. What do you think? Oh yea the guy does many drugs, not just pot, and drinks and gave my bf beer, (after he quit for 9 months) my bf wont say anything to him and because I got upset about it. He wouldn't talk to me at all that day. Am I wrong?

I need some quick advice. My boyfriend and I had a disagreement about a friend of his that does not have any boundaries and so I moved back home. My boyfriend just don't get it and even after I heard this guy talking to the other neighbors about me, my bf still stays friends with him. we still see on another a couple times a week. I have been trying to break some of the ties with him because I can see there isn't really a future for us. As it happens while I was staying with him, I took care of the bank account for him, my money went in there too and we worked on bills together, I let my bills go so to speak so that we could make a financial go of things. well a check bounced and it was my fault but he just couldn't let it go, by the way I paid the check and the bank charges, his rent was behind behind because he bought a truck and didn't pay a months rent and i have been working on his rent and back rent every month but i thought we were caught up but landlord says not. That he is still three hundred behind. I told him I would look over everything but the guilt is out of this world. He says things like "why weren't you watching" "I trusted you" "I thought you knew what you were doing" "now what am I going to do" "you have to straighten this out cause I don't know what I'm doing" I've never had problems with the bank before." I told him I would look things over. by the way he did have problems that's why i took over. but I feel so bad but I need to pull my money out this month and take care of my bills (that have been let go for months). Am I wrong? and I heard the disappointment in his voice so do I call him or just wait and see if he calls me?

I feel like a jealous fool? my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half except for a short break up last summer. we always got a long well unless he was drinking, that was bad but he quit drinking now for almost ten months and now and then we argue and he sends me to his house. so anyway about three months ago he and this guy starting doing this odd job together, this guy is his neighbor, and he put me on the back burner, brought me home for three days, would come see me but would leave me here at night. we got back together and worked it our somewhat but this guy, the friend has got to go. here are my issues with him. 1. he has no boundaries......... one morning he stood outside the bedroom window and yelled to wake my bf up, he comes over and makes himself at home during a family bar b q, he has called to tell us he has heard us being "romantic" and he has called three times in an evening. this guy is married but he and his wife do things separate. now at first the guy was telling my guy he is envious of our relationship cause we do a lot together. and now he thinks we don't need to be up one another's you know what, i heard him tell the neighbors this one night that its not good for us and low and behold my bf starting telling me the same thing. so i left again went to my house and he came to see me one time and i went back down just for dinner, can you believe it, this guy came over and walked right in and asked my bf to help him with his car window, i said go ahead so he did and then when bf was bringing me home he called two times, bf didn't answer but then i call to say good night and he said he would have to call me back and and this guy were talking and then this morning we were talking about dinner and what we were going to do today and low and behold this guy comes over and bf says hey I'll call you later or just stop up friend is here so i said ok. then i called him back about an hour later and canceled our dinner cause i said i was going with a friend to dinner. I am so sick of this guy {both of them} what do i do cause my bf thinks i am nuts. oh and this neighbor is leaving at end of summer {then i will be good enough again} and hes having a party and asked my bf if he would be able to drink a couple with him. are you kidding me? this guy knows the problem my bf has with alcohol and i am not in the mood spending the night being degraded, my bf says its only one night but it won't be, i just know it. help me how do i get my bf to see that it is just wrong what this guy is doing?

he is stressing me and i don't know how to stop it. he drives me nuts. he always complains, will sleep twenty hours a day, argue with me over nothing, is rude sometimes. it used to be worse cause he drank. one night we had a huge argument and i left for weeks and he begged me to come back, he got therepy and become a good guy. we've been back together for about four and a half months so far and it started again. never taking responsibility when something is wrong, always being defensive and just doing all the things listed above. he said he needs some time and to let him alone. I begged him to talk to me but he said thats it just let him alone. I called him and just tried to talk to him but he said just to let him a lone that he would call when hes ready. i don't know what to do. hurry he may call anytime, i don't know but i just don't know what to do. I just feel so bad when he does this. He does take antidepressents but something is wrong, i want him to go to dr but he won't. I think he needs something else.

ok from time to time my boyfriend has a dream about people chasing him, (anxiety) but then his x girlfriend of 8 years is in it. They have stayed somewhat friends though they don't talk real often or see on another, that i know of, well anyway we have had our share of problems and at first when we started talking she is all he talked about but then it dwindled off but when we would have a fight he would call and talk to her. well we broke up for about 11 weeks and he would call me everyday letting voice mails for me because he had fallen in love with me, i called him about 7 times while we were broken up and the one time he said i just wanted to tell you *she* was here and we were talking before anybody else tells you. i told her how much i loved you and she cried. ok but then we got back together and he has these dreams, hes never told me they were sexual or anything but like i said hes being chased and then she shows up, well this last one he had is really bothering me, he said he was walking down the street and this girl came up to him and said *don't you remember me? you beat me up* he said *I've never seen you before in my life* well she walked off and came back with all these people and they started chasing hin (anxiety) so he ran in this house and it was his x girlfriends house. she was there with he whole family. and then he said they were alone and she took her shirt off and there were all these black and blue marks on her. Hes been sleeping at least two days a week and is on medicen for depression but this dream worries me, does he miss her, does he want to have a relationship with her. I know why she was taking off her shirt, (though he didn't tell me, I'm not dumb) so what is up with this dream? can somebody help.....please asap

my boyfriend and i were broken up for about eleven weeks. long eleven weeks but he was a heavy drinker and that caused big problems. during those eleven weeks he called me two times a day and let me voice messages. very nice ones. he and i only actually talked two or three times but i missed him very much. i know that he went out and got sloshed two times and i know that he was hanging with his x of 8 years during that time two times, i think in fact he told me about it cause he didn't want me hearing it from anybody else. well we got back together and even though he swore nothing happened between them, im getting a sick feeling in my stomach. she called after we got back together and he told her and she hasn't called since, not even on christmas which i find off. it really bothers me and i want him to tell me the truth by the way he quit drinking. we

ve been back together since oct. hes doing good. please help me. i just want the truth.

my husband has been on disability and has been receiving benefits now for over a year. he had applied for social security and has been given an amount less than disability and so there is an over payment due disability. now social security has sent us a check worth that over payment but things were tough and we were stupid and so we spent it. what is the law with that and what can happen? my husband is avoiding calling disability even though they have called him and sent him a letter. i want to know what is going to happen to him.

my husband has an impotent problem and is only able to make love, maybe once a month. A therapist had suggested, about two years ago, that he satisfy me in other ways but he won't. It makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. What can I do. The Dr. had prescribed pills but they don't work and he don't take them. Can somebody give me some ideas?

we used to argue about sex or lack of sex a lot. I wanted it more than he did. I got on here and got some advise and i stopped saying anything about it and we've been active about once a week. sometimes it is good and sometimes not so good. like this morning. he doesn't touch me during foreplay very often and he doesn't always preform oral and its always better when he does but he closes his eyes during what small amount of foreplay we do have and i just wonder if that's out of enjoyment or is he somewhere else. It hurts me that if I'm in the mood I just can't start something or he will just shut down and it bothers me that, like this morning, from start to finish was about ten minutes. I can't talk to him about much of anything lately because he gets so defensive and says hurtful things. any advise for me because I am feeling rather depressed about everything

i am 44 and he is 54. when we got together he seemed so respectful and when it came to sex, he said that he had some circulation problems but he would get vitamins and pills if he had too. because he loved me and wanted to be with me in every way possible. well time went on and he did go to the dr. and got some pills but needed a higher dose. then he had surgery for a circulation problem and the dr.said that that wasn't the problem with the sex. ok then he said that when i would talk to him about it, i put too much pressure on him but he would go three weeks sometimes. he said that he just doesn't have the desire. he has pills that do work but he won't take them. i have masturbated but its not the same. i have asked him if he is gay but he says no. i have asked him if it is me and he says no. but he won't take the pills. this is the only thing we argue about because he just won't even try. every time we talk about it i get so frustrated and hurt and he gets angry. i need that closeness. he says that he thought just cuddling would be enough, then his reason was that hes never been with anyone that wanted to have sex more than one time a month, then it was that hes just not that good. then it was that afterward when i cuddle its as though i'm not satisfied cause i like to cuddle and stuff. and i get real loving. then it was when i make little remarks to him in a sexual manner it puts pressure on him. he thinks that i am always ready and in the mood. he says that he thinks if i could have sex three times a day seven days a week i would and that's just not true. i would like it more than two or three times a month. now lately when i get a little in the mood with him he has been getting sick at night, always at night and then he is really tired and just can't stay up anymore. i haven't said anything to him but i am so hurt. well i haven't said anything for awhile. its like he likes to see me hurt and beg for him and that only makes me feel like crap and angry with him. its really affecting our marriage and our relationship. can somebody please give me some good advise. please only serious ideas. i have tried romance, i have tried anger, i have even threatened to seperate, i have cried. i have just not said anything. i have tried being naughty, saying a bout a lap dance or strip for him, but nothing.....

I would like to be together at least two times a week and he is comfortable with two times a month. We have had arguments about this because I just feel so alone and I feel like I am begging for it. That don't make me feel good at all. If we go a couple weeks without it then I feel like why do it cause then I will just crave that intimacy again