Michelle

My husband and I live in two different countries and we get to see each other about four times a year - though hopefully I'll be moving to his country soon. We have three children together. After my last childbirth, my breasts went from being pleasantly full - size B - to just sadly saggy - size A. I'm thinking of getting implants to fill them out to a nice C cup - nothing ridiculous. I don't want to talk it over with him first because I'm afraid he'll feel obligated to tell me the "honey, you're just fine the way you are" thing. Mainly, I want to do this for me because I no longer fill out my clothes the way I used to, and I enjoy having my breasts played with during sex and right now it's a bit embarrassing that they're so empty. So, men out there I'm especially asking you, do you think it's absolutely necessary that I tell him first, or is it OK if I do it and then surprise him on our next visit?

Years ago, the man who is now my husband was illegally in the United States. Twice he was caught and "voluntarily repatriated" to Mexico. He was never formally deported, never appeared before a judge or had a deportation order issued against him. (He has no criminal record, btw.) He stayed in Mexico and has lived and worked there since 2005. We were recently married in Mexico. I'm a U.S. citizen. Now, I'd like to get his spousal visa. I've been told we can seek a waiver for his record. I'll be talking to a lawyer this week, but it seems the lawyer isn't familiar with this sort of problem. Anyone out there know?

Asi tres a~nos, viajaba manejando por la costa Pacifico de Mexico con my hijo de 4 a~nos. El se enfermo mientras pasabamos del estado de Nayarit. Estaba vomitando. Unas senoras compro un paquete de "azul" - un polvo que fue azul en color. (No pude encontrarlo en las famacias normal - ellas fueron a una tienda local para comprarlo.) Mezclaron el polvo con aceite y lo dio a mi hijo. Y paracio que si funciono.

Ahora, quiero saber que fue este "azul." Estoy leyendo que unos remedios alternativos usando polvo tiene cantidades peligrosos de plomo. Quiero saber si ha sido algun dano a mi hijo.

(perdon por mis errores en espanol... soy de los estados unidos y no sabe como manejar el teclado para poner los acentos y tildes, gracias)

My 7-year-old son is super bright and wants to become a gamemaker. Already he is coming up with concepts - characters, storylines, rules, etc...

I know little about computers. How can I help him develop this interest?

I'm looking for a private room in a restaurant, hotel or banquet hall where we could hold a holiday party for my company. We're expecting about 100 people total - workers, spouses/partners and kids. Our office is in Doral, so it would be most convenient to have it somewhere nearby, or somewhere central to both Broward and Miami (our folks live all over the area). We have some money, but we're on a tight budget. I don't want to go over $50 per person, and would prefer to keep it closer to $30. Ambience is somewhat important, but we'd like good food and service mostly.