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i went out for a drink with an old friend on wednesday and the stuff he was saying kinda surprised me big time he said he left b4 because he was getting to close too soon an he knew i didnt want that and that i should have let him adopt my lil child who at the time of us being together was four months old.... i havent got in touch since tht nite out but he has but iv not heard from him since thursday night but i just duno how to ask what he ment the other nite.... i do hav a lot of feelings for him they never went away and i know that if i could have chosen who to have my baby with he would have been the one... but it wasnt and i cant change that please help what is he saying and what do i say to him or do i just wait to let him contact me ??

i was seeing a guy 5 years ago, but things kinda fizzled out. id just split with my boyfriend shortly b4 i started seein rob, he was still young had his life ahead of him he didnt need a lass with a kid by someone else, we still had the odd text but we both kinda got on with our lifes. he moved away anyway he came bk an were in contact he said he was sorry for leaving n that he shud never hav gone. im so confused why he telling me this, the way he goes on about my child u wud think he was the father, an i know it reali is sweet cause he was fantastic with the baby. fantastic with me. cant knock him for anything. but like i say im confused my mate says by the sound of the messages he sends hes sounding like he wants to make a go of things but when i was talking to him by messenger yh i think he does n the comments he puts but im now not so sure.. his mate is with a mate of my mate n she said he is well fit. there all going out tonight n one of the lasses who a mate of mine is a rite slapper n she will try it on with anything. im gunna b devastated if that happens. she is the type of gal that will go with ur boyf. an i really love this guy always have. what do i do im not actually with rob so if he did go with her it hasnt reali got owt to do with me my heads done in with it all ....

how do i tell her to back off from this guy im reali into, she was quizzing me about why we wasnt still together so i told her that when we went our seperate ways it was not a bad split we stayed mates an that he was young i was telling her he was fantastic n all that n she gone an told ma best mate she likes him an although she only met him 2 day ago wht do i do i love this guy n i thought the way we was going that wed maybe get bk togetha cause he always saying he loves me im hurting bad never bin this way over anyone help

people keep telling me i need to get a life and go out more.. but the truth is im happy at home with my child. id rather stay in an make sure my child is looked after, but i keep getting told that i need to let my hair down. iv been out maybe 1 nite for every year of his life n he is nearly 6 year old so about 6 nites in 6 year... but when iv thought about what friends have said ive realized i cant change my out look on how i feel.. an im scared that if i do go out more that im not going to want what ive got at home.. ive brought my son up on my own with no help off anyone an yes i admit i went in to overdrive when i had him... didnt have time to think about what i wanted it was all his father an what he wanted but we split when ma boy was only a few week old and im scared... that the more time i have away from him enjoying freedom as such the more time im gunna have to think an im scared id get to like the single life as such.... i know in ma heart i dont want the single life, cause i love my lil boy so very much but i just cant do both... how do i tell those people to back off and stop getting at me

an old friend has come back into my life... and i just am not sure what he wants from me... he keeps going on that hes sorry for what he did b4.. but i dont remember him doing anything that he should be sorry for.. he was young and had his life to live. id just had a child and had just split from the father, my head was all over the place anyway. what we had was special but i couldnt expect him to take me and my child on.. it was special btween us an he was there for me.. didnt judge me or anything.. i never regretted what happened with him for a second, anyway hes bk in my life now keeps saying he loves me and going on about my child. its not like we lost touch completely but this is all confuzing me, i have got feelings for him an its just making things worse by him saying he loves me... i dont wana say i love u too cause for all i know he may mean he loves me as a friend? i told him he was confuzing me with what he was saying and he said i was confuzing myself by not listening to him. but im listening im just not sure of what i should be hearing please help... ive got my child to think of aswel

i have just discovered i have no hedge left due to next door removing it.... it splits our propertys off but it really has annoyed me as my child cant play out now.. if she wanted to put a fence up why couldnt she took her half out n left mine... i dont want fencing up i want my garden having hedge

i met a guy nearly 6 year ago id just split up from my child's father my head was all over the place stu was there but he was young he had his life to live.. what happened between us was special, but basically just as quickly had it started it fizzled out, no bitterness or anything, we kept in touch by text. stu got on with his life and i had mine and my child's to get on with, stu was there for me and my son he didn't judge, anyway were in proper contact all the time now and i dunno but he was saying he was sorry for whatever had gone on in the past, that he was young and stupid, but i didn't get why he is saying that because we wasn't in a proper relationship, he has nothing to be sorry for, he said he loves me but my head is done in with it all. guess you could say i did have feelings for him an they haven't changed he still makes me get butterflies hearing him or when he texts..i stayed single after him not because he broke my heart but cause i wanted to concentrate on my child... didn't want different guys in and out of his life.. but im just confused at what is happening i really didn't know someone please work it out for me how do i broach the subject again.. as when i told him all this was confusing me, he then replied you have just confused me so what do i do

i met a guy nearly 6 year ago id just split up from my child's father my head was all over the place stu was there but he was young he had his life to live.. what happened between us was special, but basically just as quickly had it started it fizzled out, no bitterness or anything, we kept in touch by text. stu got on with his life and i had mine and my child's to get on with, stu was there for me and my son he didn't judge, anyway were in proper contact all the time now and i dunno but he was saying he was sorry for whatever had gone on in the past, that he was young and stupid, but i didnt get why he is saying that because we wasn't in a proper relationship, he has nothing to be sorry for, he said he loves me but my head is done in with it all. guess you could say i did have feelings for him an they haven't changed he still makes me get butterflies hearing him or when he texts..i stayed single after him not because he broke my heart but cause i wanted to concentrate on my child... didn't want different guys in and out of his life.. but im just confused at what is happening i really didn't know someone please work it out for me im so confused i know i need to talk to him but just didnt know what to say

i met a guy nearly 6 year ago id just split up from my childs father my head was all over the place stu was there but he was young he had his life to live.. what happend between us was special, but basically just as quickly had it started it fizzled out, no bitterness or anything, we kept in touch by text. stu got on with his life and i had mine and my childs to get on with, stu was there for me and my son he didnt judge, anyway were in proper contact all the time now and i dunno but he was saying he was sorry for whatever had gone on in the past, that he was young and stupid, but i dont get why he is saying that because we wasnt in a proper relationship, he has nothing to be sorry for, he said he loves me but my head is done in with it all. guess you could say i did have feelings for him an they havent changed he still makes me get butterflies hearing him or when he texts..i stayed single after him not because he broke my heart but cause i wanted to concentrate on my child... didnt want diffrent guys in and out of his life.. but im just confused at what is happening i really dont know someone please work it out for me

theres this guy who ive known since well ages. we had a kinda fling thing an we stayed mates. he had his life n i had mine but recently were bk in proper contact. and he has been saying stuff that is well confusing me... i know he aint trying to get me in bed cause he knows im not like that ,he keeps saying stuff like you know i love u. and basically that he was sorry for what went wrong in the past.. that he was young and blah blah. i told him he was blagging my head and he sed no you are blagging ur own head.... cause ur just not listening... but i am i just dont get what im suposed to be hearing....the thing is he seems to think of my lil child like he would his own n he always did, the other week he mentioned bout coming to parents evening with me..... i just dont understand what is happening... or why he cant just say whatever outrite... can anyone tell me what is happening b4 my head goes bang. someone did say he may have been getting too close and he knew thats what i didnt want and maybe thats why he backed off i dont know what to do or what is happening....i do like him just really scared of getting hurt

theres this guy who ive known since well ages it was one of them fling things an we stayed mates. he had his life n i had mine but recently were bk in proper contact. and he has been saying stuff that is well confusing me... i know he aint trying to get me in bed cause he knows it wouldnt happen like that, keeps saying stuff like you know i love u. and basically that he was sorry for what went wrong in the past.. that he was young and blah blah. i told him he was blagging my head and he sed no you are blagging ur own head.... cause ur just not listening... but i am i just dont get what im suposed to be hearing....the thing is he seems to think of my lil child like he would his own n he always did, the other week he mentioned bout coming to parents evening with me..... i just dont understand what is happening... or why he cant just say whatever outrite... can anyone tell me what is happening b4 my head goes bang

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some one actually did say the reason he pulled bk an the fling ended is maybe because he was getting too close an he knew i didnt want tht at tht time as id just split with ma childs father.. i just cant work him out.. i do like him but whatever happens iv got my child to think ov first.....

i think i love this guy...... cant stop thinking ov him what signs if he liked me back would i get..... serious answers please

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this is quite long. me and my guy split cause id not long had his child, and i had this girl ring me and said she had been sleeping with him. my head was all over the place. anyway every few months he would contact me. just when i thought i was getting over him, it was like this for 2 and half years after, then in feb he text me again we was getting on having a laugh but then something happend and we argued again, i told him to leave me alone i was getting on with my life. i didnt need him upsetting me all over again as i had our child to concentrate on . but a few week later i heard he was getting married when he text me again i said congratulations on gettin married. he called me a slag and that i was just jelous + i was gonna end up lonely, then i said i hope it all works out for you and he fell out with me hasnt spoken to me since what is his problem, i distanced my self cause i was hurting what is going on in his head ? and why say them things to me ?

theres this guy have known him for years not as such in mates way but always when we see each other would always smile say hi i never thought anything of it i got with some one had a child still saw this guy around. he became mates with my ex, long story anyway havent been with my ex for 3 n half year, have had one nite out since my baby was born my mate knows him so she said text him an ask if he coming out for a beer an he txt straight bk with a really cheesy comment like fancy a three some urgh my reply was really i dont think so !!!

anyway he started blowing me kisses letting me cross the road constantly smiling an winking at me callin me darling and hes started where if i see him he will ask me stuff like to talk to me and im always the one that says right ive gota go so then he says yeah me too only then does he drive off but also when he spoke to me last he started talking bout my ex !!!!! CONTINED PLZ DNT ANSWER YET !!!!

my ex an i split when our baby was 3 month old i have had nothing to do with him my ex for just over 3years he has had no contact with our son since he was 3 month old i know its better this way cause kids need stability in there life, he doesnt need to keep seeing dad with different girlfriends, what happens is that after he gets with some one he starts cheating on them an trying it on with me yet when i ask him he like says oh you didnt really fink anything was goin 2 happen did ya, lol er no i know nothing was going to happen but why is he doing this like i say my baby was 3 month old he now just gone 4year old my ex is doing my head in, i dont want him back cause i know he will just hurt me an ma baby again, i really like this other guy tho a mate of my exs i think he like me cause of the way he look at me i know he loves ma lil boy 2 bits, but like i said he a mate of my ex what do i do and how will i know for sure i dont want to look an idiot

if a guy who you really like blows you kisses everytime you see him does it mean he fancies you or is he just being friendly