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I really love this girl. She says she doesn't want a relationship. But we sleep with each other, see each other every day and she says if she catches me with other women it's over and she will keep it exclusive.

So basically we have sex, are exclusive, and take each other on dates and hold each other's hands etc

Is this basically a relationship and she is just being silly not calling it one? Or what should I do, threaten to break it off if she doesn't want to make it official?

Hello ,

Amdeciding between a fully loaded orange mini cooper convertible or a gold toyota camry. I suppose a camry is more boring, but commuting between SF and LA might be easier with csmry2. Also camry is 5k cheaper. Mini cooper though would be great because I live near the beach and San Francisco.

Also im from England so mini is British, and I like that. Although I've heard in America where I live now a mini is considered to be a choice car for homosexuals or women. Is this , even with the S version? I suppose would it look strange for me to drive it?

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I've liked this girl foralmost 2 years, she says that she cant have relationship right now and that its not just me but that the timing is bad. I understand her because her father has cancer, but I think maybe she just doesnt like me. I literally cant get over her, I have a girlfriend right now that is long distance but honestly I am a bad person because I cant stop thinking about the other girl. My current girlfriend is more or less just a regular girl who goes shopping and stuff but the girl I like is one who faces many of the same difficulties as me in life such as having a mental disorder, is smart and goes to the same university as me and has a good personality. I feel terrible because I like my current girlfriend but honestly I could only imagine spending my life with the other girl. I don't know what to do i feel like I am losing my mind. Also I have the opportunity to spend time with only my current girlfriend or the girl I like tomorrow it is my last day visiting the country and I cannot choose whether to be with a girl I like but is short term as we will neverive in the same country for two years, or to see the girl I like one cannot stop thinking about but she chooses not to be with me. I understand why she doesnt want to be with me as she needs to focus on her career to help her family due to her dad having cancer, maybe I am selfish and a bad person

Basically I have only $2000 left, I was going to spend $1500 to go on a trip to go back to Japan where I spent last summer. If I do this I am I wasting money? I suppose it would mean having New Years with the girl I like, spending time with friends that won't be there in the future and seeing Japanese traditions first hand instead of being in my bedroom playing videogames lol. So i think it might be worth it, I would go in spring when cherry blossoms are but if I go then the girl I like will not be interested anymore.

Growing up, I always wanted to be a businessman/entrepreneur like my father as I saw that they have the ability to rise from nothing and create great change. However, I honestly think its sort of empty living for money and that even if you create big change being an entrepreneur you can create change and meaning somewhere else. I suppose I dont have that many hobbies or many personal desires so there isnt really something i would create, also because I lack technical skills. I changed my mind and wanted to become a doctor as I can help people who cant help themselves and have dreams, roles (like being alive and supporting your family), and future paths that cant be fulfilled without medical support. I was just wondering if this makes sense and if I should go through with it. I am currently a second year in college and have to pick my major and have to be on the path (doing research during summer etc.). Now you can say that I dont have to, but honestly to become the top of the top you do and I go to UC Berkeley so it is very competitive here. I suppose the only reason why I wouldnt be a doctor is because the process is really boring, long and rigorous. Also if I dont become that doctor, someone else will (due to medical school acceptance rates and other factors) and perform more or less the same surgeries with the same success rate. I suppose that would make the whole effort seem meaningless if in the end I am not doing something I enjoy and actually making no difference.

I'm a second year in college and attend one of the top colleges in America (ranked like number 4 or something). Anyways, I have to choose my major soon but nothing really interests me. I don't really see the point in doing anything. I used to want to change society and the world as I had the mentality that we only have one life, and that we create our own meaning and that ones legacy should be to be remembered and to make as much use out of your life as possible and help as many people in the present and future. But the more I look into it the less I want to. I don't really like society, I don't see the point in contributing to something that I don't like, and even if I change it I wouldn't know what to change or how to change it. And if we all die in the end, then what is the point in even doing anything our existence is meaningless and transitory. I saw a therapist, and she just said I was correct lol. She said that yeah society isn't perfect and that life doesn't really have any meaning. So now I just feel like I dont really want to do anything as I dont see a point. Anyone offer any suggestions (Im not religious so please dont try any of that)

Basically I studied abroad last summer and made a lot of friends. I don't have many friends at my current institution, it would be nice to see them. I also had a fling with a girl that I can restart, but more importantly a girl that I really like but I wouldn't be able to see until next year unless I go (and it may be a lost cause by then). Is it worth spending $2000 (all the money I have saved up) to go back and visit friends and also go to a new country where some of my other friends live and explore? Or should I save it and do something more useful as these friends I may never be able to see again anyways.

This may sound ridiculous but I got the date of my final wrong and am now cramming for my precalc final in 2 hours. I havent slept though so im not sure if I should take a 10 minute nap. Also for cramming for math is it best just to memorize formulas, read example solutions or actually grind through problems? Keep in mind time is a HUGE issue rn lol. but yeah I get a headache and get super nervous ugh i feel like im going to die. if I dont pass I fail the course

Also would you say that it is quite bad becuause the curve makes it not straight and appear shorter. Also iis there a possible cause for this? let me know so it doesnt worsten. but yeah I found a picture of a penis similar shape/size to mine(about 6.75-7 inches) . Would you say that this penis looks very abnormally shaped or short in length?

thank you sorfy for imagery lol

http://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Downward_...

For some reason my penis has a slight curvaturs downwards when erected (maybe like a 30 degree curve). im afraid that this is unnatural and will scare off ladies. im also afraid that it makes my penis look smaller as the curve makes it not straight. with the curve it is like 6.75 inches and wirhout it its like 7.2. Should I be very concerned? is there a way to correct this or a reason for causes? I dont think its peyronies as its not thay severe.

It more or less looks like this image at roughly the smae length and curvature (this is not me but from google)

commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Downward_curvature.jpg

please let me know!

For some reason my penis has a noticeable curvature downwards. this makes me very self conscious as I am afraid women will find it disgusti I am also worried about the size of it as the curve makes it appear smaller. with the curve its about 6.75-7 inches, but would be probably 7.5 without it. Should I be worried about this? is there a way to repair my deformity

I like the song but it seems like no one else does, and it got the views just because people were curious watched it once then went on. I think he should have released "Right now" instead, what do you think?"

That song is a lot better than gentleman and he can seriously rake in $$$ and popularity if he just re-releases it and perhaps makes a new dance to it. What do you think?

I got into both programs but I was wondering which one is better. I'm afraid that Berkeley is going to be too rigorous (I find high school hard) and that it is not a private school (large class sizes). But I know UC Berkeley is ranked higher and might have as good alumni network. Which one do you think (also I might have to take out loan for USC for at least first year, my dad didnt fill out FAFSA)

I got into both programs but I was wondering which one is better. I'm afraid that Berkeley is going to be too rigorous (I find high school hard) and that it is not a private school. But I know UC Berkeley is ranked higher and might have as good alumni network. Which one do you think (also I might have to take out loan for USC for at least first year, my dad didnt fill out FAFSA)

There is this girl at my school who I kind of like. She said she was busy two days ago so I drove about 3 hours away to hang out with other friends. Although I might have phrased it wrong as I said my parents aren't home if you wanna come over as she might have thought I wanted sex. But she later that night took my best friend out to dinner and afterwards texted me for 2 hours and didn't tell me about it. What should I do? Ask her out and just assume she became free later or she was afraid to come to my house. Or assume she is a ***** for asking my best friend to dinner althought it might have not been a date as he is a nerd although that is kind of bad obviously

There is this girl at my school who I kind of like. She said she was busy two days ago so I drove about 3 hours away to hang out with other friend. Although I might have phrased it wrong as I said my parents aren't home if you wanna come over as she might have thought I wanted sex. But she later that night took my best friend out to dinner and afterwards texted me for 2 hours and didn't tell me. What should I do? Ask her out and just assume she became free later or she was afraid to come to my house. Or assume she is a ***** for asking my best friend to dinner?

Thoughts or suggestions

There are no girls at my school that like me yet I spend a lot of time thinking about whether or not I should ask them out and if Im wrong and they do like me. I also for some stupid reason want to ask a girl out that lives two hours away from me. I know its worth asking a girl out as I have exams that I will need to prepare for 3 weeks for and are over a span of two weeks which would make dating impossible during that period. Then I have college in 5 months which would probably screw the relationship as we might go to different locations and want fresh starts. But at the same time I still want a girlfriend lol as Ive never had one, thus I think about it way too much and chat to too many girls on facebook getting nowhere. How do I stop, and am I right that it is futile?