Mrs.Cinnamon

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My girlfriend is always annoyed when I talk to people who don't have the same habits as her; for example, we went to new years eve party and, she got mad at me because I was talking to other girls. She's starts shouting and screaming at me telling me "if you like those ghetto bitches then go be with them". Always a problem with people who don't like or do what she does. I don't have a problem with people but, if they're not primed and proper like her they're garbage. 

When it comes to my friends coming over and hanging out its another big problem if they say anything to her.  My friend since high school asked her "why you never want to talk to me?" Her response was "if you had anything intelligent or interesting come to the table then I will acknowledge you." Then left the house slamming the door.

Don't know what to do with her and she is getting worse. Talking to her seems impossible now because she gets combative and disappears for 4 days then comes back when shes good and ready.

Please help.

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I have been in a rocky relationship with my boyfriend. Now he doesn't listen to me and. Its getting frustrating to the point my own family turn their back to me. He tries to do good but, when it comes to  money he's horrible!! I work 3 jobs and, make my own money. He's another story, he will do day labor but, the last five months he was lazy!!! 

When he does work his money is already spent on his pleasures, I don't like that because it doesn't pay the Bill's. I'm really at the point I want to RIP my head off!! 

Its like I'm taking care of a 38 year old little boy, to me he's only a man when he works and, helps pay the bills. 

What should I do??? I want my life back!!

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I looked through my book and could not find an example so can anyone help me.

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I never owned a boxer so, I do not know what to do because my Husband decided to adopt a puppy girl boxer from a high kill shelter who he named Libby.

Now Libby is a white boxer with fawn markings and, I was told that most white boxers are vulnerable to sunburn and other disease but, I want to keep little Libby as long as we can so, how do I take care of her so she can live a full life?

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I had divorce papers signed and I paid for my copy of the divorce papers. Then I got Married three weeks ago to my long time childhood friend.

My ex is telling me that were are not divorce because he hasn't gotten the papers, my ex was not born in the United States he was born in Poland. I told him that in the state that we live in you must pay for your copy of the divorce papers which is $50 and, to get them you would have to go to the state capital. I didn't hear from him in the last five days and now he is asking me to give him a copy of the divorce papers because he doesn't feel that he should pay the $50 to get them nor take a trip to the state capital court house.

I told him no and he said he'll won't stop until I give him a copy so, what can I do.

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I know I am being repetitive about these dental questions but, my husband had three cavity filled in. He's hungry and wants to eat anything but, soup or yogurt. Can he eat anything solid? If so I'll walk to the supermarket and get him something to eat because right now he's very whiny.

I took my husband to the dentist to get cavities taken care of and he was being whiney and dramatic six hours ago when he was on pain medication. I don't know what the doctor gave him but, he has not waken up since the last four hours and now I am worried because he usual takes a 30 minute nap the get back up.

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Took my husband to the dentist today because he had 3 cavities. The doctor said it would be quick and painless procedure because his cavities weren't that bad. It was over before he knew and the doctor numb his gums and gave him pain medication which he did take so, what's his problem? It's not like he's in pain now why is he so dramatic about it?

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My husband has three cavities in his mouth and does not want to go to the dentist to have those cavities worked on because he hates going to the dentist. I asked him to go and I would come for moral support but, he doesn't want to do it and he looks like he's in a lot of pain so, how can I get him to go?

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There are 30 people in one house, There are men, women, and children, so there should be 15 adults and 15 children correct?

Now the question comes i how many children do each couple have? Also for each couple what is the most likely chances of some of those girls being a red head? a Blond? or a Brunette?

For the boys its just says which ones will have brown hair and which ones will have black hair because the girls do not have brown hair its red, blond, or black to be specific.

Its a mixture of genetics and math. I am taking biology and this class consist of math,

I am assuming since there are 15 adults in the house there would be six couples?

So would that make each couple have 2 children at the most?

I am stuck if I am right let me know.

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My long time friend and I decided that we are at that stage in life that we know one another better than anyone else in life so, we decided that it was that chapter were marriage was the next step. I told close friends and family about my decision and they do not seem to support it because hes five years older than me but, they knew him since he was a little boy because we were childhood friends and I thought they would be more supportive of it.

I thought it would be a problem if he was like 10 years older than me rather than 5 years older than me but, at this point in time they are glad I made a better choice in who I wish to marry because the first person I married they are still getting over it because it shocked the family that he married me in the use of getting his ex girlfriend back.

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I am trying to leave my husband of three years and I have been separated from him for a year and 5 months and I had a divorce complaint and summons filed. The Sheriff could not reach him nor he could not be reached by certified mail at the location where he is staying because he was living with another woman that he met when we were together.

On our second year of marriage he started acting funny when we were out in public and, in the beginning of our third year he told me that he never loved me but, was using me to make an ex girlfriend of his jealous which backed fired.

Now I am trying to get a divorce but, he is playing around because the attorney I am working with stated that he is not a legal citizens and since his case will be sent to an immigration court they can have him sent back to Hamburg but, he obviously does not want that because when we were married he filed a marriage visa and was here on a students visa but, the thing was he dropped out of college so to prevent to be sent back he filed a marriage visa to stay longer. Now since I am getting the divorce he is now in hiding so what is another recourse I can take to get my divorce finalized,

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I am in the middle of getting a divorce from my ex-husband after three years of being in a loveless marriage only to be used by him to get someone else to marry him.

We have been separated for over a year as of August but, recently my ex told me since I earned a degree while we were married that some states look at that as collateral but, I have all financial records from school stating that he did not put money towards my education which is true because when I married him he dropped out of college after the first semester when going for a Bachelors in Computer Science and Physic due to the fact he did not like living in a dorm and getting stipends for personal expenses each month.

I just want to get this divorce over with so I can move on with my life because I did pay for legal advice and they told me that best thing to do is get an attorney but, I want to get one where I do not have to pay an extra arm and a leg.

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I was in a loveless marriage for three years and, I took the time to finally leave my husband for good August of last year. Now it has been a year since we separated now I going for a divorce. My ex is trying to claim since I earned a Bachelors degree when we married he should get some money from the Bachelors degree even though he put no money towards and I have all our financial records to prove that he did nothing for my degree.

The reason he learned this because when I left him he looked up information about what he could get out of me because I decided to leave after finding out he did not love me but, married me in order to get back at another woman who refused to marry him trying to show her that he was something good.

I was hurt beyond any words to describe it but, now he wants compensation for me leaving him even though that he lead me to believe that I was some one special but, when he finally showed me the type of person he was I started seeing more and more a person that had a shallow reason for marrying me.

5 Months before I left him he told me that he married because I was Cute like his previous lover, the only thing different I was more educated and i was nicer to him than she was. He lead me to believe that she treated him like garbage but, she took me to the Olive Garden for lunch in our second year and she told me that this marriage would not last because he's using me to get to her.

I did not believe her because everything was still on cloud nine and I could not believe that I would be a subject of what you would called a sham marriage which hurts so bad because I really had my heart set around him then he finally admits that he never love my because he loved his previous lover more.

Now since I am gone and making my money and doing things that we both have planned its now that he really wants to be with me. He figured out that some states have it written that if someone earns a degree when married the years that the person made with the degree and money put towards it should be compensated.

Also he is trying to state that I left him with nothing but, the things that I had in our rented apartment belonged to my mother and grandmother whom gave it to me! Only Me! when I first gotten my apartment when I was in my second year of College and working as a Accounting Clerk.

Now I worried because I do not want to give this man anything what so ever because I did not appreciate the fact I was used and only showed affection in an attempt to tick off another woman that does not love him. So where I look to see if the State of North Carolina has it placed that if earning degree in a marriage counts as collateral in a divorce.

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I went to a nursery today to find some trees to plant on my northern side, eastern side, and south side of my house because its like the Good, Bad, and The Ugly. The Western Side has no room for trees since I have planted flowering shrubs that mature to their maximum height which does give some room for privacy.

Now the north end of my house will be the really big trees like the Evergreens, Holly, and Cypress. The reason I am planting those in the north end because that cut down on the wind so, when tornado season comes around I will not get the severe winds like I use to. One neighbor told me that will work because he did and it will also aid in cooling and heating bills.

On the Eastern side I have planned that side for the Flowering trees like the Dogwoods, Tulip poplar, Crape Myrtles, and Japanese Maple trees. I figure planting them on the eastern side because that is the ugliest part of my house because the house was brown or black but they tried to paint over it with a light color like a coral or peach.

The south end is going to be the mixture of the North and east plus so shrubs similar to the western end of my house where I can enjoy my backyard.

I went to the nursery and the gentlemen told me that if I had too much trees on my property that my house value will raise a lot because he said one of the dogwoods if I was to buy one would increase it by $57.33 if I only planted one of those and the cypress trees would increase my property by a good $60. The reason he told me this is because in the past people have come in and bought elegant trees to decorate their property but, did not realize that this would increase the property value so, I am wondering how high would that make mine?

I only pay $2,500 a year in property tax which is not a lot in a small town but, I don't want it too high that I am seeing my house sold because I can't afford the property tax.

So with the trees I chosen how high would it be before this year is out or beginning of next year when I have to pay property tax.

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I am planning to fix the outside of my house because its like the good, bad, and the ugly, I want to plant elm trees, evergreens, Dogwood, Ficus's, Deciduous, and probably some tropical trees in the backyard which is the ugly.

So where can I buy some that are really big and will look great spring, summer, fall, and winter. If you have any other suggestion on trees please feel free to give some.

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Okay I live in a small town in a very small county in my town there are 536 women and 567 men so there is not a whole lot of people and in the neighboring towns and township the county totals out to 10,000 people so, in other words everyone knows everyone and their personal private business.

Why is it when you ignore people that are insalubrious and abhorrent that they do not take the hint? If you do not talk to them nor make eye contact with them why do they still keep talking? When you walk away why do they follow you and still keep talking? What could you do that can give them the hint that their occurrence is a earthy and malevolent towards you?

There is a bunch of people that constantly try to speak to me and they are so dense that my cold shoulder does not seem to deliver significance for them. You know what I am saying? They do not get it! Talking to them is a squander of time because other people who have tried to get them to leave them alone by speaking to them civilly they have over talk them so, they are very uncouth and impertinent so, what other course of actions should I take.

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Why is it when you stumble upon a few of your old high school or middle school contemporaries they are still not fully formed than you are? I figured that pettiness should have gone when you walked across the stage of graduation and became an adult going off to college. I just finished four years of undergrad school and determined to take a year off before pursuing a graduate degree and when I came back home I encountered some insalubrious folks from when I was in middle school and high school that are still unripe and have not made advancement in life.

Individuals that are 20, 21, 22, and 23 years of age making statements like “Hey Girl! Brian likes you”, “Hey is that your real hair or a weave?”, “Are you a virgin?”, and “Do you have a boyfriend?”. When I speak to them on an adult level such as “Do not verbalize with me if you do not have no matter which to confer on a topic of common proceedings”, “desist from asking unintelligent and extraneous questions”, and my desired “converse to someone on your own echelon”. I attended an all girl’s college in Virginia Mary Baldwin College and, I had this teacher for two years instantly that prepared us to learn and articulate in a appropriate manner to make us different than from other ladies in the world.

Through my four years I was taught to be a suitable lady at my college of choice but, I am stunned that some of these people are still behind and not doing their best. Also do you think it’s rather slow on the uptake to prolong tête-à-tête with one that speaks in a conduct that you do not comprehend because I really do have a discussion like this because the teacher I had enforced us to speak in this manner or we would not pass his class. How do you deal with this when you go aboard and have no other means of transportation because I live in a small vicinity so, it’s very hard to avoid these individuals on daily basis.