Zechariah

There's a girl at my school that seems to like me. She is very loud and outgoing around her friends, but when she's around me she clams up and speaks in a very soft tone. If I catch her staring, she almost immediately looks away. The only way to get a decent reaction is if I frustrate her. I asked if she has a hard time "letting" people in and she said she does. She sends her friends around me sometimes, though I may not say anything it's pretty obvious to me. I've asked her for her phone number once and she got defensive and said she doesn't just give her # out. I asked how she expected me to get to know her and she said that she didn't know. So, is my original question above the problem or is it something else??

I'll give a quick run-down. There's this girl at my school, we're both seniors, and I think she likes me. She used to seem to play games, but could have been nervous. She would stare at me and look away, and would neither speak to me nor hold eye contact. I couldn't tell whether she was into games or was just nervous, she never communicated, so I moved on. After while she would come near my way in the halls and speed up to walk right in front of me between classes. So I approached her again and told her to meet up with me 6th period. Instead of doing so, she walked right past the meeting point and said nothing. I plan on going up to tell her that basically a chase can be fun, but if carried on too long it gets old and that I like her, but I am not willing to do this (trying to get to know her) much longer. Would I be wrong?

P.S. It is now November and this has breen going on since September

Obviously with confidence and all, but in the sense of what to say? Be descriptive.

This girl @ my school does a lot of staring at me and looking away when I catch her doing so, not holding eye contact when I speak with her (she instead looks around me or at the floor), and can only bare to speak with me when she's with her friends (even then she doesn't hold eye contact). However, when I told her that I was interested and that is should get her # she told me that she was talking to another guy already. So I let her be and moved on. Even though I did, she still does the staring thing and does things to get my attention. I don't know if she's nervous/shy or is playing games for attention.

Smirk, smile, wink, or what?

Do you girls look for insight about a guy by the way that he walks ? If so, what things do you all look for?

I'm just curious as to how you process when a guy has confidence. Does it make you nervous/happy/drawn to him/or what?

This girl, I believe, genuinely liked me and after she saw that I was interested she seemed to start playing games. So, I began to ignore her and now she seems to be trying to get my attention...

I think this girl genuinely liked me and now seem to be playing hard-to-get or something and I've been ignoring her. To me, the games are a waste of time. Ever since I have been, she seems to work to get my attention.

I think this girl is playing hard-to-get or something and I've been ignoring her. Ever since I have been, she seems to work to get my attention.

It all started August of this year. I'm in high school. There's this girl and about the second week of school I noticed that she liked me. She would stare at me and if I caught her doing so she would look away; when I would approach her she would get really nervous, not speak, and even dart off sometimes in the halls. The only time that she could merely talk to me is if she was at the comfort of her friends. Even then, she wouldn't look me in the eyes- she'd either look down or around me, but not directly at me. This carried on for two months. So one day I had gone up and told her straight up, although I felt it was pretty obvious , that I was interested and that if she was interested in me that I could grab her number so that we could actually talk. Her response was that "I'm taking to someone". This didn't surprise me, because I had seen her walking in the halls with this guy a few times before and saw them hug some. To me that didn't mean much and I didn't feel threatened due to the fact that it wasn't as of she and I had committed to anything. Ever since then I'd left her alone altogether. What I don't get is that she's still talking to this guy, but is, at the same time, still doing what she's always done: stare and look away and act shy. Today, she even went out of her way to walk past me in the hallway- I guess in hopes that i would show her some attention.

So...does she still like me or is she playing games? Guys I'd love you're wisdom but ladies what do you say?

It all started August of this year. I'm in high school. There's this girl and about the second week of school I noticed that she liked me. She would stare at me and if I caught her doing so she would look away; when I would approach her she would get really nervous, not speak, and even dart off sometimes in the halls. The only time that she could merely talk to me is if she was at the comfort of her friends. Even then, she wouldn't look me in the eyes- she'd either look down or around me, but not directly at me. This carried on for two months. So one day I had gone up and told her straight up, although I felt it was pretty obvious , that I was interested and that if she was interested in me that I could grab her number so that we could actually talk. Her response was that "I'm taking to someone". This didn't surprise me, because I had seen her walking in the halls with this guy a few times before and saw them hug some. To me that didn't mean much and I didn't feel threatened due to the fact that it wasn't as of she and I had committed to anything. Ever since then I'd left her alone altogether. What I don't get is that she's still talking to this guy, but is, at the same time, still doing what she's always done: stare and look away and act shy. Today, she even went out of her way to walk past me in the hallway- I guess in hopes that i would show her some attention.

So...does she still like me or is she playing games? Guys I'd love you're wisdom but ladies what do you say?

It all started August of this year. I'm in high school. There's this girl and about the second week of school I noticed that she liked me. She would stare at me and if I caught her doing so she would look away; when I would approach her she would get really nervous, not speak, and even dart off sometimes in the halls. The only time that she could merely talk to me is if she was at the comfort of her friends. Even then, she wouldn't look me in the eyes- she'd either look down or around me, but not directly at me. This carried on for two months. So one day I had gone up and told her straight up, although I felt it was pretty obvious , that I was interested and that if she was interested in me that I could grab her number so that we could actually talk. Her response was that "I'm taking to someone". This didn't surprise me, because I had seen her walking in the halls with this guy a few times before and saw them hug some. To me that didn't mean much and I didn't feel threatened due to the fact that it wasn't as of she and I had committed to anything. Ever since then I'd left her alone altogether. What I don't get is that she's still talking to this guy, but is, at the same time, still doing what she's always done: stare and look away and act shy. Today, she even went out of her way to walk past me in the hallway- I guess in hopes that i would show her some attention.

So...does she still like me or is she playing games? Guys I'd love you're wisdom but ladies what do you say?

Is it that freshman is core classes (math, history, etc) and the next three years is your major? I'm kinda lost