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ok this isn't me trying to get into a relationship with some guy, I have a loving boyfriend.

I'm aware I am not drop dead gorgeous or anything like that, I'm also no horse, I am probably in the cute girl next door category.. but I don't work with any very attractive women, yet I am sure that they all have alot more welcoming personalities then I do, which I am ok with cause I have never been into being the center of attention or very sociable, I can be awkward at times depending on my environment.

Any who I've noticed since I started here that no matter how much I try to stay to myself the men that come into this building always seem to float more towards me to talk to me or pick on me no matter how much I make it aware I'm not interested...

So I guess this is more of a curiosity deal, Do they come to me because I am more attractive then the rest in the room? or is it because I try to ignore them and avoid attention from people? or something else I'm just not getting?

and Im not working somewhere where talking to people in person is necessary I answer phones so meeting people isn't part of my job

How do you deal with a co-worked that spends her day trying to find stuff to get everybody in trouble for no matter how stupid it may be? I stay to myself as much as I can here with the situation but I have finally reached my limit and said something about what she does infront of her...

I should have kept my mouth shut but I just couldnt help myself now everyday since then she has made snyde comments about what happened and complains to my bosses I am "mean" to her now (I dont feel I treat her any different then I did before)

Example: Today she had printed something and the printer changed paper trays she didnt know how to fix it and asked me so I told her what to do and that was it then she asked me if it was broke I said no it was fine. I guess she didn't like the way I helped her so she told my boss, exactly what he told me she said, "You didn't get up to try to help her you just sat at your desk"

You're kidding me right? lol

How do you deal with someone like this? please help before I explode!!!

How do you deal with a co-worked that spends her day trying to find stuff to get everybody in trouble for no matter how stupid it may be? I stay to myself as much as I can here with the situation but I have finally reached my limit and said something about what she does infront of her...

I should have kept my mouth shut but I just couldnt help myself now everyday since then she has made snyde comments about what happened and complains to my bosses I am "mean" to her now (I dont feel I treat her any different then I did before)

Example: Today she had printed something and the printer changed paper trays she didnt know how to fix it and asked me so I told her what to do and that was it then she asked me if it was broke I said no it was fine. I guess she didn't like the way I helped her so she told my boss, exactly what he told me she said, "You didn't get up to try to help her you just sat at your desk"

You're kidding me right? lol

How do you deal with someone like this? please help before I explode!!!

I have been working out a good amount lately and I can usually tone up pretty quick if I put in some effort.. Certain people have been telling me maybe to cool it a bit cause I'm starting to get bigger arms and stuff... I don't really think I am but it has started to make me insecure about how I look... Let me know what you think please

I don't usually post pictures of myself like this on the computer so I did crop my face out .

http://i54.tinypic.com/1ju6va.jpg

I have been working out a good amount lately and I can usually tone up pretty quick if I put in some effort.. Certain people have been telling me maybe to cool it a bit cause I'm starting to get bigger arms and stuff... I don't really think I am but it has started to make me insecure about how I look... Let me know what you think please

I don't usually post pictures of myself like this on the computer so I did crop my face out .

http://i54.tinypic.com/1ju6va.jpg

not sure where to ask this but my boyfriend and I are wanting to open a joint savings account so we can put money in it and possibly collect a little interest plus have money taken out of our checking monthly and added to it..

we both already have a checkings and a savings account with the same bank, will they let us open just a saving account or will we have to open up another checking account also...

again sorry I wasn't sure where to ask this question and I hope its not a stupid one..

You already have two young kids and want to have another one, the last child born you have issues with was very premature but is growing to be very healthy and normal, the doctor tells you theres a good chance if you have another it could have some issues similar, you get pregnant and fnd that the baby has developed down syndrome and possible heart problems.

Do you keep the child and deal with the issues while taking care of two other very young children or abort for the sake of the children you already have?

My boyfriend and I have started going to the gym, not together on our own time, anyway we have both started becoming more fit and tone and its been noticeable and he had been telling me how good I look which motivates me to keep going... well last night he told me I needed to slow down on going that I might get to muscular (Im actually weight lifting) I have fun doing it but now it kind of made me self conscious about my body again.

Can a girl really be to muscular without being roided up?

It was just one little comment he made is it worth really bringing it back up to him or should I just keep doing what I have been doing??

I'm pretty small so I don't think I can really get very big atleast I hope not. I do both weight training and cardio so hopefully I have an even balance...

He is lifting trying to actually get big so I won't be bigger then he is ever.

My boyfriend and I have started going to the gym, not together on our own time, anyway we have both started becoming more fit and tone and its been noticeable and he had been telling me how good I look which motivates me to keep going... well last night he told me I needed to slow down on going that I might get to muscular (Im actually weight lifting) I have fun doing it but now it kind of made me self conscious about my body again.

Can a girl really be to muscular without being roided up?

It was just one little comment he made is it worth really bringing it back up to him or should I just keep doing what I have been doing??

ok well heres the story, I have had a few family members that are currently waiting or have died waiting on organ donars to come up....

Recently I have started thinking about becoming one as in going through the tests and having it on my license etc....

Im not sure how to go about it or even if it's a good idea, from what I heard from some people that if you are labeled an organ donar you will have a less likely chance of being revised if you are in a life or death situation... is there any truth to this? Also how do I go about becoming one?

Been together 4yrs in April. We have been in a long distance relationship and I'm wanting to get or do something special. Any Ideas?

IS IT REALLY THE MATH?

Yesterday I needed help with some math (I was trying to price out some things I needed) so I called my boyfriend who is extremely good at doing math (he's far from nerdy looking and just did work programs all through high school) well he started just throwing out equations left and right over the phone and adding percentages etc.

ok well i actually started to get turned on... I dont know why it was very odd, was it just a random thing or does math turn me on? lol i know this sounds weird...

Yesterday I needed help with some math (I was trying to price out some things I needed) so I called my boyfriend who is extremely good at doing math (he's far from nerdy looking and just did work programs all through high school) well he started just throwing out equations left and right over the phone and adding percentages etc.

ok well i actually started to get turned on... I dont know why it was very odd, was it just a random thing or does math turn me on? lol i know this sounds weird...

Dating almost 4 years now, he always goes all out for valentines day ie completely decked out his room with rose pedals candles balloons. took me on vacation to a nice hotel including a fun theme park. bought me a white gold necklace.. pretty expensive....

this year I wanna be a little creative for valentines day i have a few ideas but I could really use some more

I am 22 years old.

I am completely in love with this guy I have been dating for almost 4 years now. One problem we live 3 1/2 hours apart, we do see eachother every friday-monday sometimes more depending on work. I am beyond happy with him we dont have any relationship problems and this is the guy I want to marry one day.

He has asked me to move into an apartment with him and i have told him some many times i want to but for some reason every time it comes down to actually getting up and moving i get this scared nervous feeling and back out. He says he will wait for me to be ready but I am so scared of moving that far away from all my friends and family and my job.

Not sure what i should do, am I wrong to feel this way, I know im hurting his feelings and its killing me to see it I love him more than anything i don't what what I would do without him, Im just not sure if I should just suck it up and go for it, or wait till i am just completely ready to leave everything behind and live with him.

I am 22 years old.

I am completely in love with this guy I have been dating for almost 4 years now. One problem we live 3 1/2 hours apart, we do see eachother every friday-monday sometimes more depending on work. I am beyond happy with him we dont have any relationship problems and this is the guy I want to marry one day.

He has asked me to move into an apartment with him and i have told him some many times i want to but for some reason every time it comes down to actually getting up and moving i get this scared nervous feeling and back out. He says he will wait for me to be ready but I am so scared of moving that far away from all my friends and family and my job.

Not sure what i should do, am I wrong to feel this way, I know im hurting his feelings and its killing me to see it I love him more than anything i don't what what I would do without him, Im just not sure if I should just suck it up and go for it, or wait till i am just completely ready to leave everything behind and live with him.