Jesse

Ok so I have a hard time when it comes to girls. Its not that I'm lame or anything its cause I get nervous an shy around them. The kind of girls I'm into are the smart, funny, down the earth, great smile, amazing eyes, she doesn't have to be skinny, but has to be able to keep up with me cause I'm an energnic kind of guy. I don't really care if shes black, white, asian, or whatever. As long as she likes me for who I am thats all that matters to me.

Here's a little about me....

Age - 19

height - 5'4''

race - black

body type - not skinny but not fat somewhat muscular

weight - 194 ( I do work out)

hair - short black curly hair

I like to draw, dance, and sing. I like going camping, hangin out with friends, an listening to music, I have no preference on music though country is not my fav. I do listen to rock, alternative, punk, hip-hop, rap, pop, pop rock, and R&B. I do try to live my life like its my last day.

My problem is I'm transgender an most girls freak when they I tell them. Some girls don't react that way, but they can't see themselves dating a guy like me just because I was born a female.

Anyway my question is would you date a guy like me?

I'm only asking cuz I was curious of what kind of answers I will get............

Ok so I'm an ftm transgender (female to male) for those who don't know and I just wanna know if these qualities bout me are worth dating I know I'm lame for askin such a question but I don't care-

bout me -

- I'm a nice guy

- I'm 5'4 (sadly I'm short)

- smart

- funny

- sweet ( I've been told)

- likes to have a good time

- short curly black hair

- brown eyes

- a nice smile (or so I'm told)

- cute, hot, sexy ( again I've been told)

- somewhat muscular (nothing to inpressive)

- not fat but not skinny

- an artist ( I like to draw, paint, etc.)

- a drummer

- likes sports

an a lot more but I'm not really the kinda guy who brags bout himself and yes I am black

I'm in the process in becoming.......................a transman. I'm not a lesbian or bi just a guy trapped in a girls body.

I just wanna know if there is a girl out there who would take a chance with me?

I'm in the process in becoming.......................a transman. I'm not a lesbian or bi just a guy trapped in a girls body.

I just wanna know if there is a girl out there who would take a chance with me?

I was born a girl but I'm the process in becoming a guy. With knowing that about me would ever consider dating me?

I don't think of myself as someone who is gay or anything like that. Just a straight guy trapped in a girl's body.

I was told that I have an IQ of 148 and I just wanna know if thats good or bad.

So there's this girl that I really liked and even though she had a boyfriend my feelings for her got stronger. I have gone out with other girls, but these feelings were stronger for her then they were for them. So last night when I sat in the rain for an hour or so I made a choice.

I thought in order for these feelings to stop I gotta make her hate me some how. What I mean is as long as I know that she hates me these feelings will go away.

So I acted like a dick and treated her like ****. Yes I know its wrong and I may have lost a friend, but its better this way.

So was I wrong to do what I did?

Why is that I feel, act, and think like a male, but my body is female? I don't understand why I'm this way. What the hell is wrong with me?

Can anyone help me?

There's this girl that I really like and she knows how I feel about her. She's smart, funny, great personality, and amazingly beautiful. But there is just one big problem. She has a boyfriend who she does plan to mary someday.

I tried seeing other girls, but these feelings for her keep coming back. I just wanna know what I can do to get these feelings to stop.

Please can anyone help me?

I wanted to know what does it mean when my sign is gemini?

What kind of person am I, who will I be, etc.

Just wanted to know.

Does anyone remember the group called Dream Street?

If so did or do you still like their songs?

I still listen to them so I was just wondering if others did to. And yes its the group Jesse McCartney was in.

I have a fear of crying especially in front of other people because it makes me feel weak.

Yes I know its sad but true. So I wanna know whats your fear and why?

When I was driving my brother back to his place the other night, he and his girlfriend decided to climb into the very back of my jeep and had sex.

WHILE I WAS DRIVING !!!

Anyway I never want him or his girl in my car again. Am I over reacting or am I doing the right thing?

I have a split personality and I have tried to tell my mom. But she just laughed at me and said I didn't.

All my friends know and I'm thinking telling my mom, but I'm not sure.

Now I'm thinking of having my therapist talk to her and explain. Maybe I shouldn't even bother telling her at all.

What do you think I should do?

Any answers will be great.

I hate myself is that wrong. I know I have all these great quality's, but I don't feel it in my heart. My friends are always telling me all these positive things but they don't sink in, why is that?

Is something wrong with me?

I'm not depressed I'm just confused why I'm thinking this way.

I hate living at home and I want to runaway. But knowing my mom she's is gonna have the police on my *** if I do. Things aren't really tight between me and my mom. Now it seems like things and getting worse.

I have a really traumatic past and that's why I wanna leave. The problem is I have no place to go.

What should I do?

I was just wondering how can you tell if he is really a she?

I'm not trying to be stupid or anything I just wanna know.

I just wanted to know is have a child worth it. What I mean is......is it worth going through all that pain just to have a child. Did you ever think to adopt a child instead.

I'm not asking to sound stupid or anything I was just wondering.

I have a split personality. I have never had any problems with it until these last three months. And I was wondering if anyone has or had this kind of problem. If so what can I do to get a handle on it?