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My husband and I have been married for 4 years and together for 6. Three months ago, he moved out and said that he didn't want to be married anymore. I rarely talk with him now, because I will not call him. He acts as though he has just completely closed me out of his life, but I just cannot seem to do the same. I love him deeply, but I don't know if I should continue to leave him alone or try to communicate with him. When I do talk with him, I wind up crying and whining. So many people have said "look for him to be seeing someone else." I have and I don't see anything. I still have a lot of resources and friends that stumble on things and not one has let ANYTHING slip. I am really trying to be positive, but three months is a little long when we seem to be getting more distant with communication coming to just about nothing. Therapy wasn't for him; he quit. I still go to therapy, but I am to a point that I don't think cognitive help is really helping me. Any suggestions?

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. One month after our three year anniversay, he left. He said that he just did not believe that he wanted to be married anymore. We have had our fair share of "arguements" but nothing that horrible. His problem is that he has lied to me since we've been together about little things. I did find out that he cheated (supposedly an isolated incident) about two years ago. He asks me to wait and just give him time, but he has been gone almost 2 months, but still makes daily contact with me. I am not sure if I should just go ahead and throw in the towel.