Chloe

So it's my birthday next month

I don't wanna be on my period on my birthday (the break on the pill is due around my birthday) and i want to be able to have safe sex still.

If I miss the break on the pill (microgynon 30) and continue straight onto the next strip, will I still be protected against pregnancy????

Help me please! Thank you! Xx

I have been aching all day on my upper arms, when I got home I had bruising all over my upper arms. I also had a bruise appear for no apparent reason in between my breasts. I have no injured myself or noted a reason for bruises to appear. The veins on my hands also really hurt from time to time

My mother has a blood clotting disorder which I have been checked for and don't have.

My full blood tests are normal.

I'm 15 female.

What's wrong with me?

I'm on mycrogynon 30. I've been on it about 9 months. Last month I took 2 of the pills around 4 hours late but I still took then. 4 days into the 7 day break I got my period as normal. This month I have taken every pill religiously at precisely the same time every day, not forgetting one. I'm now 5 days into my 7 day break and nothing, no spotting or anything.

What is going on? I'm in a relationship with a guy who I love and who loves me but I'm too young and scared and I need some answers. My parents will be so cross if they knew I was having sex or was pregnant.

I'm on mycrogynon 30. I've been on it about 9 months. Last month I took 2 of the pills around 4 hours late but I still took then. 4 days into the 7 day break I got my period as normal. This month I have taken every pill religiously at precisely the same time every day, not forgetting one. I'm now 5 days into my 7 day break and nothing, no spotting or anything.

What is going on? I'm in a relationship with a guy who I love and who loves me but I'm too young and scared and I need some answers. My parents will be so cross if they knew I was having sex or was pregnant.

So I'm 15. I've been with my boyfriend a long time. On Monday we had sex for the first time. It went better than I expected, I didn't bleed and it didn't hurt too much. I'm on the pill and the condom didn't break at any point. I was coming up to the last few pills on my strip, I had sex about 5 days before the end of the pill. I came off of the pill on Friday. It is now Tuesday, and I haven't had a proper period at all yet. I had a tiny but of spotting yesterday. I don't see how it is possible that I am pregnant because we used double protection. Could my period be like this because I am stressed? I haven't told my mum and don't plan to. What could this be? I know I'm young, but please don't judge me, my boyfriend wouldn't leave me over this (he is also 15) I know he would always be there and he told me that.

thanks, Chloe

So I'm 15. I've been with my boyfriend a long time. On Monday we had sex for the first time. It went better than I expected, I didn't bleed and it didn't hurt too much. I'm on the pill and the condom didn't break at any point. I was coming up to the last few pills on my strip, I had sex about 5 days before the end of the pill. I came off of the pill on Friday. It is now Tuesday, and I haven't had a proper period at all yet. I had a tiny but of spotting yesterday. I don't see how it is possible that I am pregnant because we used double protection. Could my period be like this because I am stressed? I haven't told my mum and don't plan to. What could this be? I know I'm young, but please don't judge me, my boyfriend wouldn't leave me over this (he is also 15) I know he would always be there and he told me that.

Thank you, Chloe

I can make myself orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but it's not that amazing.

When my boyfriend fingers me (and uses clitoral stimulation) it's feels amazing, like he's doing everything right, and it's so much better than if I do it myself, yet I never orgasm?

What could be going wrong? It feels so right but it never happens and he is blaming himself, but it feels like he's doing it how it's supposed to be done and he does everything that makes me feel good, but I just don't orgasm?

Please help.

I can make myself orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but it's not that amazing.

When my boyfriend fingers me (and uses clitoral stimulation) it's feels amazing, like he's doing everything right, and it's so much better than if I do it myself, yet I never orgasm?

What could be going wrong? It feels so right but it never happens and he is blaming himself, but it feels like he's doing it how it's supposed to be done and he does everything that makes me feel good, but I just don't orgasm?

Please help.

I have had two best friends, one boy and one girl, for a few years. The boy is also my boyfriend. And since he has become my boyfriend, my best friend has been blanking me.

First of all, she doesn't like him. And I don't really care to be honest.

Then she is accusing me of ignoring her for him, but whenever i try to talk she just blanks me and refused to answer.

She is blaming me for not making an effort, even though i try to speak to her I always sit with her in the bus but she makes it uncomfortable because she won't talk back so i feel my efforts are for nothing. She said she hates sitting there when we are together. I told her there's not much I can do about that, my boyfriend is a part of my life a dim not gonna tell him to go away. By the way we are all 15.

She sas "it's not working out" and told me I have to understand her situation. I told her I can't understand it. Every time I make an effort, it's not good enough. And I'm fed up of it.

My boyfriend is the most wonderful person in the world. He told me not to worry about her and just focus on people who can be happy for me. But it still makes me sad because she has been my best friend for 4 years.

Any advice? I really have no idea what to do anymore...

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month. We are both 15. I've known him since I was two, we went to nursery together, and we have been best friends for ages as well. So i guess it seems like we have been very close for a long time anyway.

He is my first boyfriend and I'm his first girlfriend. I really do love him and he tells me all the time that he loves me too. He tells me that when we are old enough and have enough money we will get our own flat. He said he is looking forward to spending the rest of his life with me. And I couldn't imagine being without him. He makes me feel complete, I trust him and really care about him.

However, theres this girl in the year below. Her best friend was going out with my boyfriends mate. So they have met on occasions, but haven't really talked or anything.

However, every photo I post on Facebook of me and my boyfriend, she 'likes'. Every status I tag him in, she 'likes' it. And I don't even know her that well, only seen her around at school. Any of my other photos or status', she hasn't 'liked', only the ones with him in.

She recently posted one of these 'Hot or Not' videos (if you don't know about these, its basically where they comment on whether people are hot or not) and in this, she says she thinks my boyfriend is hot. Is it normal that I would feel a little angry at this?

I dont know if I'm over reacting. Me and him were on Facebook the other day and a photo of her was on my newsfeed, and he commented on how annoying she seems to be and how he think she is ugly. I wouldn't say she is ugly, but she isn't beautiful. This is what kind of keeps me positive about the situation, knowing that he doesn't find her attractive and thinks she is annoying, which is a trait he hates. I know it would be wrong for him to like her in that way anyway, but it would make me jealous if he finds her attractive. I obviously know he will find other girls attractive, and I'm totally fine with that, obviously some people are very attractive, but its the fact that she seems to like him, it would bother me if he found her attractive.

It's not that I'm over protective and clingy as I know it is important not to be. He has his own friends, I have my own friends, and we both have mutual friends. We do our own things, and do stuff together too.

I know I would never cheat on him, and I know that he isn't like that either. But I cant help but feel she is a threat in some way.

Please help, I don't know what to do! I wouldn't confront her or anything without knowing the full story and as well she can be quite nasty so I stay away.

~Chloe

how old were you and how old were they?

are you female or male?

did you regret it?

are you still with them?

was it a good experience or not (did it hurt)?

Were you together, if so how long for?

Thanks, Just curious, talking about it in social health.

~Chloe

I'm 15 1/2 and so is he. We have been best friends for ages but when he asked me out it was my dream come true. He makes me so happy, like I'm complete. I feel safe and loved when I'm with him, I mean I feel safe and loved by my family but having a boyfriend is just amazing.

I've known him since I was 2. We went to kindergarten together. However I only got to know him properly about 3 years ago at secondary school.

His best friend recently had sex, so I think this is why he is bringing it up. His friend is the same age and has been in a relationship for 9 months.

We have been in a relationship for 2 weeks. In fine talking about sex with him, I can talk to him about anything, he is always there foe me no matter what.

He told me he was ready for sex and I told him I wasn't. I mean I want a stable relationship before any of that. I mean I know I wouldn't regret it, I love him, and he says he doesn't care if I'm not ready because he will always wait for me and loves me, and I believe that.

But I feel bad. He is my first boyfriend nd I'm his first girlfriend. I don't think I'll ever know what im doing.... I really worry that I won't be good enough and he always tells me of course I'm good enough and it doesn't matter to him. But I'm such a worrier!

Please give me advice.... I really don't know what I'm doing, I'm not having sex for a long time because I know I'm not ready and I'm not gonna rush because I want it to be perfect. All advice is greatly appreciated, thank you.

~Chloe

Help! I'm 15 and want to stop my period altogether.

For the past 2 years, i've really been struggling with it. And its not just like "ohhh im on my period...." Ive had 2 operations for ruptured ovarian cysts and I do get them quite a lot but they have said theres not much they can do anymore and its something ill have to deal with. Ive been on the pill since I was 13. Ive tried 6 different ones, 5 had very bad side effects but im currently on Mycrogynon 30, which has cleared my skin and has been the best out of all of them. My periods are very long and heavy, although the pill has shortened their length but haven't made them and lighter at all. Most months I shed large amounts of flesh in my period, I mean big pieces of my womb lining, so much so that a and e thought I was passing a miscarried baby, even though I told them i'm a virgin and they couldn't quite believe it. It's not just little clots. It hurts.

Im fed up, it goes through my clothes it feel disgusting and i'm in pain.

Is there any way of stopping it altogether?

~Chloe

I'm 15, hes a couple of months older. We have been best friends for a while, I feel really comfortable around him and our friendship is great, and he says the same.

However, I have liked him for a while and I couldn't believe it when he told me he liked me yesterday.

Now we are going out, its my first boyfriend, i'm his first girlfriend and I have no idea what i'm doing! I am such a worrier.....

We are going to the cinema monday night. We have been a couple of times, but only as friends. It seems so strange that I feel so worried and nervous about it all cos he's my best friend and I know he'd never do anything to hurt me or make me do anything I don't wanna do. And thats why I love him.

What about kissing? I have absolutely no idea how and i'm worried it will be awkward, also he has never kissed anyone either.

Any tips on kissing and general first relationship advice? Thanks so much.

~Chloe

I'm 15, and I've just started to enter my first relationship. I haven't had a boyfriend or kissed anyone before. My best guy friend recently told me he likes me. I was so happy because I have liked him for a while and didn't know he felt the same.

We are going to the cinema next Friday and i know for a fact something is gonna happen. He said he is gonna wait to ask me out properly until Friday, but we are both really excited.

And tips and advice because I don't know what I'm doing!

~Chloe

So theres this guy. In the past few months we have gotten really close. Before i didnt like him that much but now i know him better, i think ehs amazing. Hes so kind and is lovely overall.

He used to send me lots of kisses (like 20) then he got a girlfriend and stopped, which is understandable

Now they have broken up, he has bee closer to me than ever, he calls me baby, sends loads ofd hearts on messages and said that when we are older we are gonna go to uni and live together. (we are 15) we always mess about and have a great laugh.

So after all of this I though he might like me. But he has said he likes this other girl, but he hardly knows her at all. She said he loves me to bits, but just as a friend. He is always really protective over me which i love, its so sweet and shows he really cares, and he always looks out for me. We talk all the time and when we aren't together we constantly text each other. He says i'm his best friend and he is mine, but this seems a little more than just friends to me.....

Please say whether you are a guy or girl, it would really help to know what both genders think about this....

1) Do you think he sees me more as his sister rather than anything else?

2) Why do guys get all close to girls even when they don't even fancy them?

Please help!

~Chloe

Everyone always says to young people "You don't know what love is at this age."

Why?

So tell me, what is love you you?

~Chloe

He is my best friend. I've known him since we were two. We are now 15, we are soooo close, we are like brother and sister. He used to like me, but at the time we were only 13, I wasn't interested in boys really and so I didn't like him. But now I am older, I really do like him as more than friends.

He left his Facebook logged in on my phone. I told him this and he said "oh well, we know everything about each other anyway, you can go on it, it doesn't bother me." He recently broke up with his girlfriend. Well, I say girlfriend, they didn't even kiss and were only going out a couple of weeks. when i asked him if he ever kissed her, he said "No, but at least I get my first kiss with the right person, ;-)" Why a wink face though?

I read a message from his girlfriend saying "Its not working, you are awkward around me and its not right. lets just be friends."

So he says "I know, its only awkward because i'm trying to impress you. but okay, I'll be more comfortable as friends as i don't have to impress you."

And then he goes on to say: "i'm comfortable around only one girl. Chloe." (thats me) "But I don't like like her and she's a weirdo :D"

Me and him always mess around, calling each other weirdos and stuff, and saying how we are so strange. And today he told me we are gonna move in together one day, just the two of us, when we go to Uni he wants me to go with him and be his flatmate. We have such a strong connection with each other.

So is saying "shes a weirdo" a bad thing, or is she just messing around as he normally does?

what does he mean by saying he's only comfortable with one girl? (which is me)

Is it possible he likes me and was just saying he doesn't to make sure his ex didn't get jealous?

Help!

~Chloe

Im a 15 year old girl. I have saved up from my Saturday job and I am getting the iPhone 5 on Tuesday. I'm not sure which colour to get.

Either way i will get a clear case so you can still see the back of the phone.

My dad has the black one and it looks quite nice. Lots of people at school seem to prefer the black one too. I haven't physically seen the white one, but have seen pictures. Yet i am still unsure. I know, at the end of the day, its my choice, but i want some opinions :)

At the moment i have a white 3G. The scratches ont he back are very visible, whereas my friend with a black 3G has more scratches and they hardly show. And i am very likely to scratch the phone at some point!

Which colour do YOU think looks nicer?

If you have a 5, what colour is yours and why did you chose it?

Thanks so much!

~Chloe

I'm 15 and last year I was admitted to a children's hospital in London.

I was suffering from constant headaches, weakness in my right side and occasional tingling in my spine. I spent 2.5 weeks in hospital and had 3 MRI scans with contrast. My mum had multiple sclerosis, and they thought that I either had this, or a tumour. However, nothing was ever found, my scans were clear thankfully. After a few months my symptoms subsided by themselves and the weakness went completely. The headaches were literally non existent which was great and the tingling in my spine went completely

This was 1.5 years ago. I have now been having tingling in my spine much worse than before, and aches down the right side of my body. I also get occasional headaches behind my left eye.

What could be wrong with me? The tingling is all the way up my spine and I'm worried?

~Chloe