DearClaudia

I met this guy online and we really got along very very well. From the first time we talked, I knew there was something special. We had this amazing connection and he even said that he feels like we've known each other for so long. We were talking about anything. We were so open to each other and we were in love. But then, I made a mistake of faking my picture. It was not because I was ashamed of myself but because I was just being careful. When I confessed to him, he was disappointed and got cold of a sudden. I sent him my real picture and he said that I'm not bad at all. I was really brokenhearted because the guy I've known to be so smart, funny, caring, loving turned out to be so cold. I told him that maybe it will be better if I go away since it seemed that there's no chance that all will go back to the way it used to be. He hates liars, he told me that by the way. But he said that there is still a chance, he just needs time to think. Of course, I've waited and waited and waited but he didn't talk to me. I tried to talk to him twice but then again our conversations were dull, he was not the same person. What will I do? I'm trying to forget about him but I can't.... I'm still waiting for him to come around... I haven't tried to talk to him again thinking that I'm just being desperate.. but I really am.. I can't let him go... I can't let what we had be gone forever...I know that maybe he really doesn't love me because he made me wait and he hadn't talked to me again... but I wanna know If he still loves me... I'm sure that he doesn't have anyone at the moment and maybe he still loves me but i think that he decided to let the feelings go away eventually... What should I do? I'm living my life but there are moments like this that I feel so incomplete... I miss him... What do you think guys? Any comments or advice will be appreciated! Anything!

I met this guy online and we fell head over heels in love so suddenly. We talk about a lot and there is this amazing connection between us. But I had one secret from him, I didn't let him see my real picture because I was being careful and not really interested in online relationship but when this guy came along, it changed and I honestly, I regret being so careful this time around. I used my cousin's picture since she was ok with it. Days went by and I'm only gathering up the courage to tell him the truth and show him the real me, and modesty aside, I'm as cute as my cousin by the way. ^^ then when the day came that I'm going to confess to him, he asked me for more pictures and I was crushed thinking that "gawd, he's fallen in love with someone else's face, not mine". I was really confused, scared, and cowardly. I was thinking that time that I couldn't lose him and I was losing my rationale that time. Then my cousin told me to just send him her pictures if I'm too scared to do it. Then, without much thinking, I did and I'm regreting it very much now.. But after a few minutes, reality came crashing down, "hey, what the hell am I doing? I should just tell him. I have nothing to be ashamed of and if he loves me, I think he'll forgive me." and then I confessed, his first reaction was, "you could have told it sooner instead of lying twice. things could have been different" I know I have hurt him so much and then he said I am forgiven and he's used to these kind of things. I was hurt by that because I've hurt someone I love very much.. The I asked him if I would just disappear, he said that it wouldn't make much of a difference and he said that we could still be friends. Then I asked him if he still have feelings for me, he said, "I do.. but lies just push me away." Then I asked him if there is still a chance for us and he said "I don't know.. I'll think about it.". Then I was more hurt and said that I'm going to go and just disappear and he said "I never said there isn't a chance." and then he said I should understand and I did.. I've let him be. The next day, I talked to him first but it was one way, me asking questions and him answering, I felt he was not interested anymore. Then now, I stopped talking to him and giving him his time.. But I'm really hurt and confused now... I don't want to let him go but I don't want to wait for too long too.. So, what if a guy said the things I mentioned above, what is he really feeling? I"ll appreciate if some guys answer this... and tell me what things I could do.. and also for the girls.. Please give me your thoughts. I tried to have this as detailed as I could get so you can see the whole situation...Thanks for your answers! and by the way he said, tell your cousin she's cute and you're not so bad either, Actually, I don't know if I should be relief by that..