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Me and this girl met on tinder, we hung out and had s*ex once.

Ever since the first day, she's been really casual about it. She's in a sorority at like a no-name college. She's probably just looking for a hook up and maybe some nice dinners thrown in, bcuz all we did the first night is watch a movie in her dorm and have sex.

Anyway, after that we had texted back and forth. At one point I asked her to hang and she agreed, but the day of she texted me that she remembered she had a last minute paper to do. So I said ok.

Anyway, we ended up agreeing to hang out this Saturday. We had been casually texting on Thursday (yesterday) and I stopped responding... Then she texted me today around 5pm saying the following convo:

Her- "Did you still want to do something tomorrow?"

Me- "Sure, if you are"

Her- "Okay"

What does this mean? Does "Okay" mean "Okay yes I want to hang out too", or does it mean "Okay I understand you wanna hang out if I do. Well, I don't really. so go away." Lmao

Like say a white couple has a black baby, and it's pretty obvious to everybody that the mom cheated.

And there's like a 99% chance that the mom cheated.

How come a lot of the FEMALE answerers will say things like "A lot of times there is recessive traits that might not show up blah blah blah..." (which is actually BS considering black skin is a DOMINANT trait and always shows up somehow). But then those women NEVERRRR admit there might even be A SMALL chance the wife cheated.

Even though statistically and based on common sense, the chance of the wife simply being a slut cheater pig wife, is much higher than the chance of some weird DNA miracle.

So with that said, why do women not just admit the wife was a cheating slut?

Why do women side with, and defend, and make excuses for, a cheating whore race-traitor mom?

Ok I just mutual matched with a girl from tinder last night. So last night I messaged her casually, saying "Date this Friday?"

She said "I'm down!"

I'm thinking of jokingly responding "But what if I'm like a savage killer" just to f*ck with her lol

Obviously I'm not, I have pics of me with girls smiling, pics of me playing sports for my college and pics with friends. So like obviously I wouldn't be. But then again some girls are paranoid.

Would this be

1) funny and ballsy

2) kinda funny and ballsy, but also a little worrying to you/ "red flag" ish

3) would you immediately go "OMG. HES A PREDATOR CREEP. RUN"

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its funny!!!! When a girl sees a guy in a sexual light, she ASSUMES he MUST see her the same way. But when a girl friends zones a guy? Similarly, she assumes he MUST ALSO see her as a friend! Girls are the queens of NARCISSISM. They think that men AUTOMATICALLY THINK HOW THE GIRL THINKS. That's just not true. Just cuz you see him as a friend don't mean he doesn't wanna bone you; and just cuz you like him and think hes hot doesn't mean he feels the same. SORRY. NOT SORRY!

Like why do women do this? They are such narcissists. They act like the world revolves around them.

if its a hot hunky 6' guy that she wants, she assumes he MUST also see her in a sexy sexual light.

but if its a fat or short guy that she finds unattractive, the idea NEVER OCCURS TO HER that he could POSSIBLY like her as more than a friend!

Does the idea really not occur to women? Or do they just lie and pretend it didn't occur to hthem, for their own benefit?

Women always say that they love the excitement and attention that alpha males bring to their lives. But they dislike the fact that the alpha males ultimately cheat on them, leave them etc.

They also dislike beta males from the getgo because beta males seem weak, unable to stand up for themselves or handle situations like a man should, are too nice and agreeable and passive and weak, etc.

Here's a good solution I just thought of:

Why don't women date these beta males, and then educate them on how to become alpha?

Let me give you an example.

Say a short guy is lifting weights. Or say a short guy is riding a super nice car (bcuz, despite his shortness, he is actually SMART AND SUCCESSFUL AND RESPECTED despite what girls like to delude themselves thinking otherwise). Or say a short guy has a really nice house. Or say a short guy focuses on his style and appearance a lot.

Girls will say stuff like "oh he has napoleon syndrome" or "oh he is over compensating".

Now, there's 2 problems with this:

1) The not as big, but still obvious, problem is: Tall men also go to the gym, want to dress nice, and have nice houses/cars if they can afford it. So realistically, how is it fair to say a short man is overcompensating when tall men do the exact same sh*t?

2) The HUGE problem is this:

Women say that short men are "overcompensating" as if short men shouldn't be allowed to overcompensate, or as if it is some embarrassing, bad thing, like a social taboo.

But if short men DONT overcompensate, considering women naturally dislike short men, wouldn't that cause that short man to then be wiped out of the gene pool entirely, with 99% of short men getting no female attention, or if any, its with equally undesirable women?

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So really, IF short men ARE overcompensating, they only HAVE to overcompensate because of the SHALLOW NATURE of women.

And it's equally likely that short men do these things (nice cars, lifting weights) simply bcuz they like them.

Ladies?

I'm so tired of girls posting screen shots of texts with "thirsty" dudes claiming they're creepy and pathetic, especially when the girls gave the guy her number, flirted with him, gave him her instagram, talked sexual to him, and/or never actually said she wasn't interested in him, in general giving him hope. It's cruel, sad, and not at all entertaining. We get it, guys think you're hot and want to have sex with you even though you don't feel the same way. Here's a thought: Using your sexuality and feigning interest to bait men into showing interest in you, and then publicly mocking them for that interest is actually uncool, fake, shitty behavior.

I feel like I shouldn't even have to add this, but I wanna point out, are those guys tools? Yeah. Are they clearly out of the social loop? Of course. But they are also for the most part lonely, and they often have social disabilities like Aspergers which isn't their fault and makes their lives very hard. When you exploit guys like that for personal gain, and humiliate them, you are whipping an already beaten down horse even further. You are causing undue pain on somebody who just wants to love and be loved- and causing them to be even more awkward, shy, and weird down the road. It would be a total shame if guys were to start doing that to all the thirsty *** girls around. But we don't, 99% of times when a girl hits on us guys we reject her discretely, politely, and honestly.

Do you agree or disagree?

What I'm saying is, when a girl breaks up with a guy and then a few days to a week or two goes by and she messages him back, saying how she made a mistake etc... That usually means she left the boyfriend for another man, the new man came in her p*ssy and then dumped her after, so now she feels stupid and ashamed and comes back to her original boyfriend as a backup. Right?

Look, I'm not doing anything drastic to get her back. I actually had forgotten about her for months, it's been over a year now (about 13 months or so since we broke up officially) and I've been getting ready for the Marines, signed up, and deploy in August.

But I just suddenly had a memory of her today, and then I thought... .Would she want me back once I've joined? Because I know I will get more girls in general just by being in the Marines, so maybe her too?

Not to say other guys don't deserve girls or that I'm actually any better- I believe its all in the mind, and I for one think girls are a little irrationally into Marine/military guys, like there are hero's in every day life and buff guys in every day life too, you know? But anyway, despite that, its just pretty common knowledge that girls want guys who are in the Marines, a few girls have even asked to hang out before I deploy for "good luck" haha.

But still.... Idk, I guess I still love my ex :( She was perfect in every way. I messed it up. Like she wasn't "better" than me or anything- it was just to me, love is loving an imperfect person perfectly. And to me, she was that perfect person. We were on the same level so I wasn't greedy or anything.

Does anybody think I will have a chance at getting her back? She dumped me bcuz my life wasn't really going anywhere at the time, and I could get really jealous sometimes. The positives of why we stuck together for 11 MONTHS is because we just got along really great and liked each other.

Let me know!!! If you do think there is a chance, how should I go about letting her know? Yes I know its a long shot. She dumped me, has had me blocked on facebook the whole time, we dont have mutual friends, etc. She is single though. Any suggestions?

Look, I'm not doing anything drastic to get her back. I actually had forgotten about her for months, it's been over a year now (about 13 months or so since we broke up officially) and I've been getting ready for the Marines, signed up, and deploy in August.

But I just suddenly had a memory of her today, and then I thought... .Would she want me back once I've joined? Because I know I will get more girls in general just by being in the Marines, so maybe her too?

Not to say other guys don't deserve girls or that I'm actually any better- I believe its all in the mind, and I for one think girls are a little irrationally into Marine/military guys, like there are hero's in every day life and buff guys in every day life too, you know? But anyway, despite that, its just pretty common knowledge that girls want guys who are in the Marines, a few girls have even asked to hang out before I deploy for "good luck" haha.

But still.... Idk, I guess I still love my ex :( She was perfect in every way. I messed it up. Like she wasn't "better" than me or anything- it was just to me, love is loving an imperfect person perfectly. And to me, she was that perfect person. We were on the same level so I wasn't greedy or anything.

Does anybody think I will have a chance at getting her back? She dumped me bcuz my life wasn't really going anywhere at the time, and I could get really jealous sometimes. The positives of why we stuck together for 11 MONTHS is because we just got along really great and liked each other.

Let me know!!! If you do think there is a chance, how should I go about letting her know? Yes I know its a long shot. She dumped me, has had me blocked on facebook the whole time, we dont have mutual friends, etc. She is single though. Any suggestions?

I went to see a recruiter, and in his words they will definitely accept me as long as I can get my high school diploma. He has been working with me the past couple days. he says tickets don't matter.

What I have going for me:

1- Very high ASVAB % score- 96th percentile, Tier one.

2- Although I got a great ASVAB, I'm also very personable, athletic, alpha, and driven, and I'm pretty sure he could tell that.

3- For purposes of answering this question, assume I have my diploma (the 2 classes I need to finish up I'm taking and will be done in a month)

4- I can do 27 pullups, 100 situps in 2 minutes, and run 2 miles in 12 minutes so he knows i'm very in shape unlike many recruits

5- The one problem- I let the recruiter know I have a DISMISSED MISDEMEANOR (not felony) charge of domestic assault, and the story behind it isn't scandalous either- my dad was chasing me with a bat when he was drunk one day, so out of fear, I hit him ONCE to get out of the house then immediately ran off (I thought he was coming at me with the bat, which he pretty much was). Nothing really malicious on my part. I had just been getting ready for school and was late a few minutes, and it pissed him off to the point he got a bat (he was hungover or drunk). But I got charged with DV and my stepmom backed him up.

6- I also have a MISDEMEANOR possession of alcohol, when my friend had beer in his trunk and we got pulled over. I'm not an alcoholic and don't drink as far as the military is concerned it was an isolated incident (which it was).

Anyway apparently the Lautenberg amendment doesn't apply to me since I was NEVER CONVICTED. It was however dismissed with conditions.

Answers please???