Joey

Hi everyone, so this may be a little bit lengthy, so I do apologize.

My boyfriend of five years just recently broke up with me through a text message.

We literally just had lunch two days before and we didn't really have any problems in our relationship.

it was completely out of the blue.

He texted me saying that he basically didn't love me anymore and that he was talking to another guy.

He wouldn't want to see me face to face or even talk on the phone.

Long story short, after all this happened, it's left me really damaged.

Now, I already have huge issues with depression so it's hard for me to move on, but I have a great opportunity.

One of my closest friends is inviting me to come live with them out of state.

I'm so excited and it's really really been helping me stay happy, but all of a sudden, I started freaking out again.

See, the thing is, I'm really close to my mom.

She's not in the best health and had a stroke two years ago.

She's all for me moving saying that I need to get out of this town to move on with my life and experience new things instead of dwelling in all these bad memories.

I just fear that while I'm out of state, my mom will pass and I already have huge issues with loss.

I'm just a complete mess right now and it's making me physically ill.

Does anyone have any experience with any of this and have anything to say that'll help me relax?

I live in a rented house and we have found out that clearly this house is not properly insulated.

It can be 68 degrees outside but be 81 inside the house.

The air conditioning works, but there is an added room on this house that the owners said could be a den.

It clearly was built wrong because it is extremely hot in that room.

The room connects to the living room which makes the living room hot as well.

the only cool rooms are the bedrooms.

Just a month ago when it was raining, one of the rooms had a leak from the ceiling.

The guy came in and fixed it saying that attic was once on fire and the previous owners never fixed it.

Now my question is, if i call the owners of this house complaining about the fact that there is clearly no insulation in this house, do you think they will raise the rent?

If they fix it?

;-;

Okay so this is something i truly don't understand.

I have seen these questions many times on Y!A, but i'm hoping to find someone who actually thinks before they post an answer.

I am a catholic and YES, I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS.

I just find it all a little odd.

I do believe that you are born gay.

Yes, some people can choose to be gay but those people would be bisexuals.

Don't try to find another way around it.

If you can honestly say something like "Well we have free will, we can choose to be gay but that is immoral" "If i wanted to kiss another man and have sex with him, i would, but i choose not to", then you sir are bisexual and are denying it.

Here's what i wanted to say:

Look at the world today.

A LOT of people in the world are gay and the gay crowd has A LOT of supporters who fight whole heartily for their defense.

Many of these supporters are religious.

So am i being told that we are all going to hell?

Well dang if all the gays, lesbians, bisexuals, transgenders, and ALL their supporters are going to hell, then wow.

Sounds like a lot of loving people are going to be there.

How can that be bad?

I believe that God loves us all.

If he knows all and he makes no mistakes, then i believe that he loves everyone.

Homosexuals included.

I have spoken to many people who support the gays and many (i seriously do mean many) have told me that when they are face to face with God they will question him.

They do not believe that an all loving God would be the way that we have learned that he is.

Also if you don't believe in God at all, that's fine with me, but don't post it here please.

:)

Okay so my internet is fairly fast.

I have around 45-60 ping and 8.20 Mbps.

I play games like Aion or WoW with no problems and hardly any lag.

But i can't play runescape? lol.

I lag soo much when i try to run runescape!

I've tried it on the original internet explorer, Mozilla, and google chrome.

No broswer games will work for me.

Or they just lag completely.

Also if i try to run Nexon's Vindictus, i disconnect during character creation.

What's going on?

Okay so i'm so tired of living with my parents and sister.

I am currently 17. turn 18 in May.

Don't get me wrong, i love my family, but all they do is bring me down. They're very rude and they always fight amongst each other, but they always seem to bring me into the argument.

I'm so frustrated here.

Here's my question:

So right now i am unemployed.. I'm choosing to wait until i turn 18, because it will be a lot easier.

-My boyfriend (age 20) has a job at target working the graveyard shift and he makes about $1,100- $1,300 a month.

I want to move into a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apartment.

The one we are currently looking at is $900 a month. (A friend, who will also be 18, is also moving in with us)

that's 3 people paying for $900 rent.

With the bills of groceries, cell phones, utilities, gas&electricity, water, cable(including internet), and transportation(gas) (We have 2 cars in total).

Think the three of us will make it?

We want to move in by October-December. :l

I know that's fast but i can't stand my family.

Please answer, thanks :D

----

Extra Info:

My boyfriend's cellphone bill and mine together is:

200 monthly(our friend's grandma is paying her cell phone bill)

Cable Bill:

$120-150 a month (this pays for house phone, cable, and internet)

Groceries:

(remember it's divided by 3 people)

I'm guessing $300-400 a month

Gas:

maybe $200-300

Shampoo, toilet paper, etc:

around $60-120 a month

We have no car payments or anything like that.

None of us are in debt or anything, we are all 3 in college and we all 3 have financial aid for college.

Okay so I have verizon and I currently have a Voyager and man it sucks.

I'm due for an upgrade and I have a 2 year contract.

( I've never had an iPhone or even used one so idk much, but I do own a 4th gen itouch)

Here's my question:

If I buy apps from the app store, will it show on the phone bill or can I have the money taken out of my own bank?

(my parents pay for my phone bill.)

I know on my itouch, I sign into my iTunes account and it takes the money directly from my bank, so how does it work for the iPhone??

Thanks in advance!!

I posted earlier that i read the messages on my dad's phone and someone was telling him they missed him and crap.

and they wanted to see him.

I told my mom right now and my heart is racing i don't want a fight and i don't want them to break up i'm so scared.

Please help me.

did i do the right thing telling her???

My phone is broken so i took my dad's phone to text my friend, me being curious felt like reading his texts..

Someone was saying "i miss you" and stuff like "i wish you were here to keep me warm again"

and it freaked me out.

If my parents got a divorce we would like end up on the street.

We're behind on mortgage and **** and it's not going so good.

I don't want anything bad to happen but i love my mom and i don't ever want her to be hurt.

what to i do??

this isn't some joke question.

this is real.

Im only 16.

Its been going on for about a week.

I will doze off and soon i feel like im waking up.

But im paralyzed!

I can't move, speak, open my eyes.

I couldn't move my fingers.

I couldn't breathe.

Just 5 minutes ago was the first Time i ever woke up screaming.

I was sweating too.

I'm so scared.

Has anyone experienced this?

Don't lie.

I need to know wtf to do.

Please help.

My friend gave me a router and i hooked it up to my cable modem.

I went on my itouch and his router's connection was there.

He doesn't remember the password.

How can i change it from my computer?

I'm so confused.

My boyfriend has a few guy friends who are straight, but who knows, they could be bi.

He's known them since like 5th grade.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now, but i still get a bit upset when he spends the night at other guy's houses.

They don't know he's gay, but that's my boyfriend.

I'm not okay with him staying at a guy's house.

Should i trust him more? Or am i going crazy?

Please read this! help me!

Okay this is a bit crazy.

Okay so i have a step dad and so his sister in law would be my step aunt i guess.

Well they're major bible pushers adon'they dont know im gay so here's the problem...

Today we were having a family get together..my step aunt was telling me how my step cousin was having her new boyfriend over, and we all had to act nice and be on obehaviorehaviour..

Well when i get to my step cousin's house, i walk in and notice that my step cousin's new boyfriend is a guy i used to fool around with sophomore year of high school.

His eyes widened when he saw me and i could tell he was freaked out.

After the awkward dinner, he took me to the backyard and begged me not to say anything, he said that he's bisexual and that he really likes my step cousin..

I was completely ok until out of nowhere, after telling me thank kissed kkissed me..and after that one kiss, it lead to us making out..

I'm now at home and im so confused, i want to tell my cousin, but if i do, i could ruin my step dad's family.

Like maybe they wont talk to him if they knew i'm gay..

I don't know what to do!

Why do gay guys like supporting him?

I'm gay so i'm not hating on him or anything, but i don't understand it.

He wants attention and he gets it.

I know people like him because he accepts himself and he's not afraid of being himself, but he makes all of us look bad.

I mean not all gay guys wear make up, not all gay guys wear dresses, we don't all do the same things.

We are all individual people and we all have differences.

But he just makes more stereotypes for us.

I mean why look up to him when there are other gay people out there to look up to?

It's confusing me cause my boyfriend is always saying how chris is amazing and ****.

Why do guys/girls, but mostly guys cheat?

Isn't one guy/girl enough for you?

I mean if we commit, and we are faithful and we love you..

why do guys/girls always have to go off and be whores?

I don't get it.

It's wrong and disgusting.

And what irritates me more is that then the boyfriend/girlfriend dumps you for the new person.

And that person must be incredibly stupid because honestly.

If that girl/guy just cheated on someone for you, you think he/she wont cheat on you?

Why do guys have to kiss and fu-- everything that moves?

Well most guys.

im bored now D:

what should i do?

Please please read this, don't just skim through it.

Please.

Look, i'm not looking for attention or anything.

I'm a 16 year old gay guy and im going through a lot.

On December 17, 2008, my best friend died.

It was very hard for me and i was already thinking about killing myself.

That's how my best friend died.

she hung herself.

Just two days ago is where i went crazy..

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 11 months..

He said he loved me and everything but then out of total randomness, he said he didn't love me anymore.

at all.

I really love him and ive been going crazy.

So i tried shooting myself but my mom stopped me. (long story)

And now my moms depressed and my step dad cant take it so hes leaving

So on top of all of this, my parents are now getting a divorce.

because of me.

I feel like everything in my life was just set up for disaster.

i want to die.

Please help me.

My brother got the LG Voyager from Verizon.

You have to get the internet plan with it,(unlimited internet browsing).

Well i was looking at his phone a while ago and i saw that he was looking at porn..

Now does verizon know what he's looking at?!?

can they like track what he's doing on his phone?!

haha :D

Okay so my boyfriend has lied to me about little things..and some big things..

Little things would be like why he didn't call when he promised he would.

or how he lies about what he's doing..

a big thing would be that he was having sex through text messages with some other guy and lied about erasing them when we started dating..

i know it's stupid to still be with him after that one, but i love him..

now everything he says sounds like a lie to me..and i don't know what to do.

Whenever he says something to me, i always ask if he's telling me the truth and sometimes he'll cry asking me why i don't believe him..

20 minutes ago, i was on the phone with him and we were talking, but then it went all quiet, so i thought he went to get something to drink or w/e.

I waited and waited for about 15 minutes and i hung up. I called back and he said he fell asleep.. i know he was lying because i would have heard the T.V in the background. I asked if he had put me on hold and he said no.. and he said he was going to bed and just hung up..no i love you.. or anything.

It was pretty shocking cuz he always says "i love you" before hanging up..

Idk what to do anymore.. what to believe.. please help.

Well my boyfriend takes FOREVER to reply to simple texts that ask him what he's doing.

I get so desperate for his replies because he never tells me what he's doing.

I'm not the weird type of boyfriend, it's just that he has lost all my trust because he has cheated.

I just want to know what i can do to make time fly by.

any ideas?

Okay. I'm 15 a sophomore in high school.

My boyfriend is 17, a senior.

We have been dating for almost 3 months now and it has been very very very hard.

He has already dumped me twice because he was confused of being gay and if he really wanted it.

We have gone two months now without any breakups because he is sure he wants me now.

BUT just recently we had a big argument.

He stayed the night at my house and i read his text messages..i know it's none of my business, but what i found, shocked me.

He was sending texts to some other guy about sex and what they would do to each other intimately.

I talked to him about it and i still cant let go of him. I hate that i love him so much and now after this fight..

I've lost all my trust in him.

So basically what i'm asking is..

If this stuff happened to you..and you really were in love with someone..

Would you dump them?