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First and foremost, I have a long-term boyfriend that I love very much.

When my friend and I go out to the bar, about once a week, she always has very attractive men hitting on her. I do too, but I feel like they may be, less than par?

I'm grateful, but I always get the old gross men, and she gets attractive, young successful men coming her way.

We are both in our early twenties. She is petite and from Indian decent. I am more curvaceous (size 10-12, large breasts and hips) with mostly eastern European decent.

I don't feel like I'm ugly or anything, but I feel like I'm always ignored when I'm with her and it makes me somewhat jealous.

I thought men liked curvyish women. I find myself tanning and having to make the assets I do have more prominent when I'm with her to get any attention at all.

Like honestly, isn't it just unattractive to read post after post about how this girl and that girl think they are sooo fat (even though they are not fat at all)?

I laid out on my lunch break today and the UV index is an 8. I did 20 minutes on my "front side" and about 10 on my "back". I didn't use any lotion... (I know, bad idea).

Do you think I will burn or just tan a little? (I have somewhat of a base tan, I'm not pale nor super dark). All answer appreciated! Thanks!

she has some nice curves to go along with it. Am I right?

My mind decides to flip flop like every other day and it's driving me crazy. Granted, i'm not taking my depression meds like i am supposed to, but is there anything you would recommend doing to even out these feelings a little more? Thanks for answering/reading.

If you're you're going to blab about your anorexia or bulimia or ednos whatever its called, just direct it there. This section is for people who exercise regularly, need advice on being healthy and healthy diets, not unhealthy everything. Thanks. Sorry for being a bxtch, but you girls (and guys) need to get a grip, seriously. MENTAL health from now on, k?

So, don't get me wrong, I am no rookie here. I dated a man for 7.5 years and we ended that. One month from today is me and Jordan's 1 year anniversary. We are super laid back, completely open with each other. We smoke, drink, we both love rap music, food, comedy, cats. We aren't formal and we definitely aren't rich. We have jobs and we are adults.

I don't know if I should make dinner reservations, or do a day road trip, get a hotel somewhere, just hit a movie, I don't know what to do! We are pretty boring people, we don't do much, but I do want to make our anniversary fun. For his birthday I took him to a comedy club and that was fun - don't think i should use the same idea. I need something kind of unique, not TOTALLY expensive, but not completely cheap either. i know him so well and i know he isn't going to plan anything which is totally fine by me, as long as we do SOMETHING.

So do you guys have any ideas? or things that have worked for you in the past?

I am applying for jobs through Craigslist and I accidentally sent out a very embarrassing cover letter stating I had strong written communication skills and I misspelled about 4 words! I feel so stupid. What should I do?

Want to get married in the next few years, but I know I can't afford an extravagant wedding like most people have these days. I would be content getting married at the court house, because all it comes down to are the papers, right? Do you think I would be "missing out" on some huge life event or something? Thanks!

Ok so I'm 22, I've been having the worst baby itch! For awhile now. By boyfriend is 20 and I understand he is not ready. I feel like having a little baby will make my life so much happier. Maybe I'm just being crazy?! Women with children, what do you think?

25 lighters - Lil Keke

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I had a hot dog from Target earlier this evening. Tasted great! But my tummy was NOT happy afterwards. Felt sick all night, finally only the hot dog came up and I do feel a lot better. Should I report that it made me sick or just leave it alone and not get another hot dog from Target again?

Okay, so I used to weight 130 and I looked great. But then I went to rehab and gained some weight. My boyfriend is really skinny and he thinks i look wonderful. I think I look good too, but I wouldn't mind losing like 15-20 pounds.

Would you guys on here think I'm fat? I don't even look fat. I have wide hips naturally, big boobs naturally (D's) and a medium sized butt. Would I risk these features just to have a smaller tummy? My boyfriend likes my tummy....and I'm like 80% comfortable with my body.

Would you rather be with a woman that is very underweight and super body conscious, OR a woman with some nice boobs, a butt, hips, maybe somewhat of a tummy and loves or is at least okay with they way she looks? And can share a nice meal with you. I need to tell these girls what men actually think! Thank you.

So I've been trying to lose some weight and according to the scale it says I haven't lost any, but my tummy looks smaller and it feels smaller. What's going on? By the way, I haven't been working out or doing any strength training or anything so it's not muscle. Thank you.

Or I could be delusional and just be seeing what I want to :p

I'm 21 and I believe I am very pretty. I have a curvy body, large boobs, pretty big butt, wide hips and a kind of flat stomach (I have a tiny belly) 140 lbs 5'3. I love food but I still watch my weight. But even though I think I'm pretty seems like %70guys are not attracted to my body type. What is the hype about skinny women?

Usually it's the other way around, but I swear he never comes onto me anymore. I have to give him head before we have sex just to turn him on. I don't get it I'm pretty and there isn't anything wrong with me. It's actually starting to hurt my feelings. Guys or gals, could I get some advice or insight please?

At least once a week (sometimes more) i dream about him. sometimes we're dating, sometimes it's bad like he hits me or something or I will be with my current boyfriend and we're all hanging out. But I always wake up freaked out. Worst part is that I'm sleeping next to my current boyfriend! It makes me feel guilty, but I can't help it. What could this mean??

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, but we've been good friends for over 6 years. He used to make out with me, throw me on the bed and kiss me passionately, touch me gently, kiss my neck, etc. Now he just gives me little pecks, never initiates make outs and basically tells me he wants to have sex by going down on me...

I don't think he is bored or anything, he has told me before he isn't really your average "hey let's f*ck all the time sorta guy" and we've been friends for so long I know his personality really well. I mentioned it before he fell asleep and he apologized. I know he is genuine about it, but I have depression and I would occasionally like to be kissed sensually, come on to and really feel like the pretty woman I am. Ladies, you know what I mean. It just makes you feel better about yourself.

I know for a fact he is not cheating on me so I know it's not that, but I am kind of just looking for advice from men and women on how to really address the situation so things can be changed a little bit. We have a great sex life, but I don't always just want to have sex. What should I do? And men, do you ever notice yourselves doing this to your woman? Even accidentally? By the way, I am 21 and he is 19. Thanks for your feedback!