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I love Chinese and Japanese relaxing instrumental music, can someone advise me, which albums would be the BEST soothing and enjoyable to buy?

I'd love to hear from someone, who is familiar and knows what I am talking about and needing, that would be great.

Where can i get the best deal on refrigerator? which store should I buy from? and not feel cheated? and what brand is the "BEST" brand?

I have the old fashioned yahoo account, earlier I could click on "My Account" above the email, go into Edit/Creat Profile and there would be a box, where I could click and make myself invisible, but now they have changed the whole format and I can't find, that box, tried very hard spent lot of time, I am so frustated and don't know how or where to find that tab to make myself appear invisible, because even when I am checking my mail, my freinds see me because my ID has that face that lits up yellow, please help me and guide me, and show me the path. Thanks in advance.

I find it difficult to remember stuff, specially the names, and what I ate, sometimes I forget the processing procedures of my orders at work, and that makes me nervous, I'm single, middle age woman, and if I loose my job it will be devastating, not having health inusrance I cannot go to the doctors, thought I'd ask my friends here on Y/A, please help me.

Ofcourse my diet is mostly fruits and salads, but is there any particular fruit, herb, vitamin or medicine, that I should eat more? Please advise. Thanks in advance.

1998 Toyota Camry, has 72000 miles on it, excellent condition, very well maintained and just last two weeks, everytime I try to start the car, I have to key it few times, while pushing the brakes, then it does, what could it be?

Is this a big problem? will it cost me a lot?

I just moved from Dallas, Tx 9 months ago for my 80yr old aging mom, but because she is (170lbs and I am 110lbs)over weight and keeps falling, we have decided to admit her in nursing home, right now I am in Chicago and cannot handle the city life, because I am used to suburban life and I find it hard.

Well! I have a decision to make, either settle down here in ILLINOIS or move to a diffent state?

My stuff is in PubSt for last 9 mths, besides I am single, I have to start from scratch find a place and a job, before I do that, I would like your opinion, which state has more job opportunities? all I do is Cust Service job, at call centers, please give me some good suggestions, and help me out, I consider you guys like my family & my best friends, you'll have been very supportive, please advise, should I stay here or move out of state? I am very worried, deepressed and lost sleep over this.

I am still at my brothers house, he will admit mummy to the nursing home on 29th May, he has his 15th Wedding Anniversary this year, and both of them are going to Vegas to celebrate, he asked me if I could watch his 12 year old daughter, while they are gone so I said yes.

So before he leaves I decided to go home and get my Diabetic and Blood pressure medicines. When I went there, she was not home, I was shocked to see, everything was packed, kitchen cabinets were empty, no pots and pans, nothing, all my stuff she has thrown away and gave away & got rid of it, so much so my medication too.

I couldn't believe my eyes, she was leaving and I was to stay their until I find a place or decide what I should do?

How can she be so bitter and vicious about it, forget all my stuff, but my medications?? and my mails?

She is so very religious all her life, how could she do this to me? Trust me, I am not angry or mad, but "YES" my feelings are hurt and crushed, I keep crying, can't get over.

Well! You all know me by now, finally brother is taking mummy to the nursing home on 29th May, brother was paying for her rent, besides it was small apt and in city, I am used to suburb life, he knows that, so he told me, to take my time and when I find a place and a job, I can move out.

After what mummy did to me, my feelings are crushed and I am so turned off with all this, that I no more want to stay here in Chicago, again moving is expensive, my stuff is in PubSt for last 9 mths, besides I am single, I have to start from scratch find a place and a job, before I do that, I would like your opinion, which state has more job opportunities? all I do is Cust Service job, at call centers, please give me some suggestions, and help me out, I consider you guys like my family & my best friends, you'll have been very supportive to me, please advise, should I stay here or move out of state? I am scared worried, deepressed and confused, please help me. Thanks! I love you all.

Arrange marriage in India, lived with a joint family of 8, a full time slave, cook, clean and serve. Husband was momma's boy, tried to make marriage work for 12 years, finally it came to a point where his mother started to brain wash kids(2 boys) and use them against me, divorced him for the sake of the kids, as per muslim law man gets the custody of the kids, woman does not get a dime. I lost my kids, my youth and I was straight on the road, my father had died but I was lucky to have my brother in USA came here. I am only a l 9th grader. After 2 yrs, I got breast cancer but I survived, its been 20 yrs here in US and life has been nothing but a day to day struggle, barely hanging in deepressed and lonely life has become a curse a burden tried to help out my mom but no sweet words, look at my previous Q you will see, what I am going through, feels like I am drowning something is pulling me down and yet I am struggling to keep my head up in water, I am so sick and tired of life, why me?

Arrange marriage in India, lived with a joint family of 8, a full time slave, cook, clean and serve. Husband was momma's boy, tried to make marriage work for 12 years, finally it came to a point where his mother started to brain wash kids(2 boys) and use them against me, divorced him for the sake of the kids, as per muslim law man gets the custody of the kids, woman does not get a dime. I lost my kids, my youth and I was straight on the road, my father had died but I was lucky to have my brother in USA came here. I am only a l 9th grader. After 2 yrs, I got breast cancer but I survived, its been 20 yrs here in US and life has been nothing but a day to day struggle, barely hanging in deepressed and lonely life has become a curse a burden tried to help out my mom but no sweet words, look at my previous Q you will see, what I am going through, feels like I am drowning something is pulling me down and yet I am struggling to keep my head up in water, I am so sick and tired of life, why me?

As you all know I left Dallas and moved to Chicago, for my mother 80yrs old who was dying, seriously ill and didn't want to go to nursing home. Its been nine mths she is doing okay, but BECAUSE she fell down four times my brother decide to put her in nursing hm, she was stubborn, mean, selfish, & self centered person to begin with, but this news has made her evil.

My plans was to put her in Nur Hm, then look for apt and then move out.

Now she is giving me hard time, she is pissed, because she cannot yell or hit my bro she is taking it out on me and has made my life a living hell, she pushed me at the edge so I left her Apt and came to my bro's, he too is helpless and gave up my mom does not want me there, I am homeless, its sad and frustating, I wish I had not come, you know moving is not easy it costs money and I am broke I cannot believe your own mother could do this to you, I am hurt, sad & deepressed, where do I go? what do I do now?? This is my reward for fee service I guess.

My mother is 80 yrs old very sick with all kinds of hlth issues I am in my 40's deprived of her effection all my life she cannot live by herself anymore, and hates nursing home. I grabbed the opportunity thinking she is so vulnerable, I volunteered, cause she needs a caregiver and I need her love and attention.

I have been on my feet day and night, bed bath and bed pan, cook, clean etc for 9 mths no aprciation.

She loves her friends and relatives to death, to please her I go over board cook invite and entertain them, but she is happy with them but not with me, not one kind word to me, during this time she fell down three times she is 170lbs and I am 110lbs, my bro decided to admit her in nursing hm since then she hates me.

She's become more mean to me I have been severly deepressed I am heart broken & burnt out, looking at her age and illness I don't fight or argue with her, yesterday I left and came to my brothers now u tell me wht should I do? She is 1 stubborn mean old lady.