Daniel D

My girlfriend left me pretty much out of the blue almost 6 months ago. Since then, she has basically refused to talk or meet with me. We were together for 15 months and I was planning to propose within the year. I was her first boyfriend and I treated her exceptionally and we rarely 'fought' about anything. The night she left was the first time she told me she loved me. It was about 4 weeks after I took her on a week vacation to meet my parents in another state and about 10 days after she wrote me a series of 'love' letters when I was gone on a business trip. She wouldn't go to counselling with me or give me a chance to fix whatever was wrong. Needless to say, I'm very confused, hurt and angry. I love(d) this girl so much and feel she acted very selfishly. I think I still love her but I don't feel I know her anymore to still say that. Her only 'reason' given for leaving is felt criticized by me which I do not understand because I was very loving and can only think of a few things that I brought up which were 'critical' of her (though I made a strong effort not to be). Anyway, at the end of this week she agreed to meet with me and the pastor of the church we both went to. I'm anxious because I don't want to be hurt again but I'm going to do it. I think I'd like to be back together with her someday if possible but I'm not sure (everyone says I deserve better than that though I do love her). I already have some questions I want to ask her but any advice about the approach would be appreciated.

Also, she is probably one of the most introverted and uncommunicative person I (or you) would have ever met. She was also very platonic, barely willing to hug me and at most holding hands (yes that sounds strange to probably everyone that I put up with it so long but I've very patient).

It is a 1991 Lexus LS400 with a quite a few amount of miles on it.

I've tried starting it twice now but the 4000+ is rather abnormal for my vehicle so I don't want to damage the engine.

Other info:

It hasn't been rained/snowed on recently, I drove it the night before ok and it is above freezing.

Any help as to what this might be, how to fix it, or if I have to get it towed to the shop would be appreciated.