Cass

I am 37 weeks and 3 days today. For the past 2 days my baby has been moving like crazy and at my ultrasound and regular appointment I was told he hasn't dropped and I am not dilated at all but I went for an NST and was told I was contacting but not like normal (my uterus was quivering and irritated) I also couldn't feel it so I don't know if it has stopped. Today I woke up just feeling out of it. I'm tired, grumpy, slightly nauseous, and feel a cold sore coming on so I feel my immune system is low. My nipples were also very sensitive last night. Could this be labor? Is there anything else I could look for other than contractions or my water breaking?

I had to walk up and down stairs for 4 hours straight 3 days ago. Since then I have been having period like cramps everyday. I know it could be Braxton Hicks but I'm worried that it has become daily. They do not increase in intensity or frequency but I have them 3-4 times a day.

I am from Newark Ohio and want to have an outdoor wedding in Newark, Columbus, or somewhere close to that area in summer or spring of 2013. I would like a waterfall that is easily accessible. I would be alright with a river or lake though. Any suggestions on a place and a place for a reception? Also any suggestions on a wedding planner/consultant would be great because I really need help considering my fiance and I will both be trying to plan this from different states. Any suggestions at all about ideas or venues will be greatly appreciated.

I am trying to get a divorce but I am in the military so can not be with my husband. I was told filing would be easy to do on my own so I got papers written up on the internet to file myself but when I read how to file it has to be signed in front of a notary public. Can I sign from where I am and send them to my husband or do I have to be there? He is the one filing and the only resident of the area.

I would like to open a shelter in Ohio. I am saving for the next 3 years to get started and have been researching but can't find many specific details about how to do it. Most information I am finding is telling me how overwhelming it is and I'm starting to feel that way. Can anyone help me by just giving facts on how to go about actually doing it like laws to be followed or how you did it?

I am leaving for boot camp and want to give my dad my power of attorney to pay my bills for me. I went to the library and they had 2 different forms, 1 was a General Durable Power of Attorney and 1 is a General Power of Attorney and the man said is is for military. Which of these should I use?

I am leaving for boot camp and want to give my dad my power of attorney to pay my bills for me. I went to the library and they had 2 different forms, 1 was a General Durable Power of Attorney and 1 is a General Power of Attorney and the man said is is for military. Which of these should I use?

I have seen a lot of answers about when it rains there is no light so you think it is time to sleep but when I first wake up and haven't looked outside and can't notice a difference in the sun because of curtains I still know it is rainy because it is hard to get up. Is it something with the pressure or does my body somehow know what is going on on the other side of a wall? Also, why do I still want to sleep when it is cold outside? My house can be a very comfortable temperature but if it is cold I want to stay in bed asleep.

My fiance and I are having a very small wedding with just our parents but have a lot of people that want to be there. We don't want to plan a big ordeal for a reception so were planning on moving in together and having a relaxed party there so we can use all of our stuff (fridge, grill, food, etc) and won't have so much of the stress of the wedding and planning the party all in one but can still have most friends and family there to celebrate with us (and meet everyone). Is this a good idea? What would you do? (we don't live together now and will not be in the same state for the wedding planning so it will also be easier to plan this party once we are together)

I have 2 chihuahuas that are about 1 1/2 years old. 1 has been neutered and we are about to get the other done. Recently (after the first neuter) they have been really aggressive with each other. It is never one starting it but they start with each other. The one we got neutered was aggressive toward me until we got the surgery and now he is only mean to the other dog. The one that was neutered is aggressive when it comes to his space (won't let the other one under the covers or allow him to be scratched) and the other is aggressive about his food and will growl at everyone but attack the other one and it gets really bad. Is the neutering to blame? Will this stop once we get the other one done? How can I stop this behavior?

I am going into the Navy and planning on getting married during the 2 weeks I will have for leave after I graduate A-school. How long will it take to get the paperwork through? Will he be able to live with me if we do it the first week and give them the second week to do it all? What is the exact process?

Did you find out when you graduated boot camp? A few weeks into A-school? Just trying to get an idea of how much time I will have to try to find a place to live.

I feel like every decision I have made for my wedding I find myself thinking about it later and wondering if I made a mistake or it could have been better. The venue has changed at least 5 times and after I picked out a dress I started going over all of the other dresses I've tried on in my head and wondered if I should have went with one of them. I haven't been able to decide how I want my cake or bouquet to look. How do I get over this fear everything I pick is wrong?

Before I got engaged I thought all proposals were romantic. Even on here a lot of people talk about disappointed they were in their proposal. Mine wasn't as bad as some, it was romantic to us but the rest of the world would hate it. Just curious if yours was romantic, romantic to just the two of you, or one that every girl in the world hopes for. I would love to hear your stories but you don't have to tell it. Also men, if it wasn't that romantic, what were you thinking when you asked? Did nerves get in the way or did you think she would like it?

My dress is like a burgandy and white. Can anyone send me a link to a good purple idal bouquet to match it?

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My aunt and I were shopping today and saw the outrageous prices of veils. She has done a little work (made a blanket and halloween costume) and offered to help me make my own. I did a little research but didn't find very good information. Any good sites or anyone done it? It doesn't have to be very fancy but I don't want it to look homemade and would like jewels but don't know how to attach them.

I want to engrave something on my fiance's wedding band. At first I was thinking of something like I'll still be here tomorrow or something with tomorrow in it so no matter what day he looks at it there is always a tomorrow. I don't quite know what to say because when I think it, it kind of sounds like I have to be with him. Even I'll still have you tomorrow sounds like I own cattle or something. Then I started to think we are not serious or romantic at all (even though we try) so to say something too serious wouldn't be us but I'm having a sort of writers block with this. Any suggestions with either the tomorrow theme or something romantically funny?

My parents were never married and I have lived with my father my entire life and he was never married, I don't really know my mother but she has been married and divorced more than we can count so I have never had anyone to talk to about marriage (I'm not very close to his family we get along we're just not close). My fiance and I will be 22 when we get married. I have graduated culinary school and have an Assoc degree and I am going into the Navy in 3 weeks. My fiance wants to go back to school but hasn't had the opportunity. I do not want him to go into the service so when it comes time for children they will have some kind of stability in the home. Do you have any advice for us or want to share stories about your marriage? I feel like I half way know what I'm getting myself into but I don't know the specifics of it.

Has anyone used them? We are doing the garden site ceremony and a 2 night stay in the honeymoon cabin with the add ons like the chef dinner and massage in the cabin. Any information about them would be appreciated because we will not be able to meet with them and have to do it all over the phone and in the internet.

When people ask if something is acceptable during their wedding and someone answers it is you and your fiance's day people rate that answer bad. Why do you do this and if that is not the right answer who's day is it? Who should they be making happy if not themselves? Just curious.