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I almost fell down a well, what would have happened if i fell down the well? Would i be ok

So, how do I? Please tell me

obviously, this is a loaded question. I consider myself the opposite of self seeking, most of the time- in the sense that I am readily available to anyone who needs help,and I am glad to help...or at least I was.. but lately I feel that my help is now expected.. and when i don't offer my services, which I have started to do lately, due to the fact I am so busy helping the people nearest to me, that I am now being considered rude or even nasty.. I have never asked anyone for help or sought it.. I am self sufficient- but i've realised lately that people who are always rude and selfish get appreciated for doing small guestures of selflessness...and I wonder maybe if I was a bit more selfish and pursued my own thing If I might achieve much more and be valued more.. any thoughts?

I have no intention to sell toys on amazon this christmas, i think maybe i sold one stuffed toy on amazon out of about the 200 things i have put up for sale in 4 years.. Why am i constantly getting a message informing me i can't sell toys.. At christmas! I got 100% feedback.. Makes me want to source out toys real cheap and sell on ebay!

England always seem to be placed in qualifying groups with rubbish sides like montenegro or poland as their toughest opponents.. Because they are high ranked by fifa but when they play anyone in the top 20 they struggle really badly and get beat or play really bad and fluke a goal in..and they only play friendly matches at home

Long story short, i had to move back home a few years ago after a breakup, and losing my job. I was out one day and came home to find my mum "cleaning" my room.. I'm 32 years old! My room didn't need cleaned.. I found a pile of personal letters i had stashed away were sitting on the bed- being "sorted". What the hell is this about? Do mothers just enjoy invading your private space any chance tgey get or what?

I like my own space. I have always been that way. The only time I really hang around friends is on the weekend, and I like to occasionally call them up on the phone, but not that often- I am a guy, if thats not obvious lol.

Anyway, my mum has been stressed at work for a long period of time.. about 6 years.. I have been advising her to switch jobs from virtually the first day she started- as it was clear she was going to hate working there- and that she was getting herself stressed out.. I've done stressful jobs myself but If I feel its going to take a toll on my health, I get out and do something else.. but mum is worried about not having the money, I keep telling her the money comes second to your health..and anyway,I could help her out in the meantime, you could put a transfer in or go for a different job, but she wouldn't listen.. and now she is suffering from depression, and has had to leave her job. I got her to go to councelling but she has given up on it. She is still taking her medication though. But i've ended up losing my job because of tiredness from the stress of trying to take care of her.. She wakes me up very early in the morning to tell me she is depressed and doesn't want to be alone by herself, and yet wont go to the councelling and doesn't feel any joy from any encouragement, I have spent weeks reading about depression on the internet and showing her ways people deal with it, and she has appreciated some of the things I have shown her.. I take her out every day for walks, and I let her do anything she wants to do- unfortunately, this can mean I spend all day and evening in her company- and I can't get the time to apply for work, and actually don't know if it is worth bothering applying since I wont have the mindset to work- as I will be too exhausted- I also don't want to leave her alone at home. Its stressing me out so much not being able to do what I want to do- for 90% of the day. I have no relatives to fall back on- and I offloaded a bit of my grief to my friends but I don't want to turn them away.. I am worried that I may become depressed due to this stress.. Its not like leaving a job, I can't just walk away and try something else. I am keeping myself upbeat a lot of the time, since I am getting little positive feedback from my mum.. I've never been a worrier, I am an extremely upbeat person- but I feel like she is sucking all the joy out of me..I go to bed now and expect to wake up to her crying in my room, and i'm getting extremely tired and drained by it. I love her and don't want anything bad to happen to her, and I do everything I can every day to help her, but I worry my personal life is quickly disapearing. I don't do what I normally used to- no more gym, no more pool matches- and lately I am not going out with friends- although I desperately want to, because I am afraid she will take her own life. My dad died about 17 years ago, from suicide, and my mum was in shock and sad for a few years after that, but she got back on her feet, between me, and counceling, and some of her friends.. I was devastated too, of course, but did a lot of soul searching and got on with my life.. but now she told me she has had suicidal thoughts and that the only reason she hasn't killed herself is because she wouldn't want to put me through it.

I know this isn't really a question, I'm just looking advice or reassurance i guess!

She was in a car accident not long ago, but it wasn't serious, but now she has explained it wasn't an accident- at all, something told her to crash and she acted within a split second.

My dad killed himself 14 years ago (i was 13 at the time).. My mum explained her attempt to us because she was terrified that she could've killed herself and put us through that pain again..and has said she will never do it, but she has been acting oddly. She saw the doctor and is going to get councelling, and the doctor has given her antidepressants but she is ashamed to use them no matter how much i reassure her that they aren't anything to be ashamed off- just like taking flu medicine if you have the flu.. I am worried deeply, and can't seem to be much help, i have spent 7-8 hours talking to her every day for the last 4 days, trying to be upbeat and helping her, and reading up on depression and trying to encourage her but i feel like i'm getting ill myself now.. And i don't know if she will go to councellung even if i go with her.. Feel pretty helpless! Any advice anyone?

was just sitting thinking about this today. not in a snobby way. I am not an intellectual by any means.

But I just sort of thought of all my problems and thought, you know what, I am actually just a little insect and anything I ever did or do wouldn't matter that much. All the famous people I idolised as a kid I barely have any feeling for now.. because they are similarly insects. I just feel like nothing can bother me now.. tell me your own feelings about this,sorry if this sounds super lame to you- it would normally, to me,, give me some of your own philosophy- and make sure its your own!!! :)

wanted to make a joke name for a site.. but it seems like the syrian vice president is unknown.. been trying for ages to find him.. is there a conspiracy or what? why isn't his name available, or are we only going to hear about him when he replaces the current president when he is executed? thats a side question.. like a truther would ask lol.. i just want to know the vice presidents name goddammit...also, has anyone got an alternative to google- they are becoming too private interest based.. you type in "old mcdonald" and you get old mcdonald adverts instead of the song.. you know what I mean? ok, end of my speel.

I want to be an animator, I have done lots of drawings, but my dad says they are crap, and he wiped them on his bum bum and said I have to get a real job. So I borrowed money from him and bought a suit for my new job making cheese sandwitches. Sandwhiches..What should I do, pursue my dream that will make me really happy and feel so ahhh happy or make cheese sandwedtches and just give up on the animation dream?

So I am going to a barbeque with my mum and my aunt and uncle are going to be there- and cousins who are a lot younger than me, but not too young that they arent adults (around 20-22) who will be bringing lots of their friends, around the same age. I will be the only one there who is 31, and arriving with my mother.This has the potential to be so crap and awkward. Also I think I may have kissed one of my cousins friends a few months ago. Any advice? I do want to enjoy myself, but i'm not concerned about making friends or anything like that.

ok, so i bought a six pack of beer.. one of the beers was noticably a lot lighter than the rest... I mean, it weighed hardly anything, and when i shook it, it was clear it was basically only a can that had been filled a fifth or so of the way, roughly. What do I do about this? I have checked, and there is no sign of damage, or leakage.

she disapears in the morning before I am out of bed, and when she comes back she talks about how shes doing a physio job

So I met a chinese woman on the internet, thought i'd let you all know, so you wont all hit on me.

logged into youtube today to find this lovely message:

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I know which person they are talking about, but I believe the strike is completely unfair, as said person had been harassing me for a long period before i responded. I have decided to delete my youtube account, but I can't get into settings until I click the button saying "I acknowledge". I am reluctant to click this button as I DO NOT acknowledge that it is accurate. How do I delete my account.. should I just delete my gmail account? would that do it?

I have decided I want to pursue a potential career in making games.. I have very little knowledge in how to do so, and would love some tips on where to start. I am prepared to spend a hell of a lot of time learning if neccessary, as I have a few ideas for games, and would love to make them even if its only me playing them! any courses/books/tips? Thanks, any help is much appreciated

well i turned 30 not long ago, and I haven't played football in about 10 years.. but I always had a dream of playing for manchester united.

I am not very good at football, and have asthma and smoke 40 cigarettes a day... do you think there is a chance i might still get to play for manchester united some day or is god cruel and denying me my chance? thankyou in advance for your answers

I agreed to go paintballing for the first time, but I lost my job.. I'm wondering how expensive it is.. I don't feel I can back out now, don't want to let friends down, they are planning to play for around 4 hours... would it cost more than say £60?

I had to sit with my grandad today as my mum couldn't, due to work.

I don't know him too well.. I never knew him too well, we barely talked.. I was just a kid for all the years I knew him, and all i remember is him taking out his false teeth and chasing me (in a nice funny way lol)..but today I done my mums shift and was aware he was trying to reach out.. He would say something and then forget.. but he smiled so much that I was there, i felt so strongly that I want to help him.. I looked up about alzheimers online.. to get a better idea of it.. i don't think my mums family care too much about his condition.. because he is quiet, and untroublesome.. but he looks so sad, and like he wants to say something..i think he was always aloof when he was younger..he enjoyed his own privacy, and i reckon he doesn't want to have the attention that has been thrust on him.. I would love a bit of advice!.. i'd like to help him see out his final days in a joyful way.