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  • Am I being to harsh?

    My boyfriend just said he wants a break about a week ago and wanted to see other girls. He left me when I needed him the most and I've been so selfless that I would drop whatever I'm doing when he needed me in the relationship. I'm seeing him tomorrow to drop off his stuff and get mine. I want to break up with him completely I don't want to be his side toy when he can't find any better prospects. I'm so over waiting for him that I feel unlike myself. I don't wait for anyone. He said he wants to talk tomorrow an either he's going to agree with the breakup or he's going to say something that he thinks will make me stay. So is breaking it off 100% with him too harsh?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • My boyfriend wants a break? I'm so confused?

    We've been dating for about 8 months now and yesterday he brought up that he wants a break primarily so he can focus on school.. I know being a girl, I can over think things but my first question is why? I'm not needy, I've been there for him through thick and thin, I've been his rock when he's needed something to stabilize him, I've basically dropped everything I was doing to comfort him when he's upset.. What am I doing wrong? I don't demand anything from him! Just maybe 1 day a month for us to be alone and go to dinner and I've even offered to pay! I just don't understand it. I make everything less stressful for him by driving to him all the time, occupying myself or leaving early if he has homework, i cook him dinner, HELL I've even done his laundry and swept his room for him and made his bed. I mean, why would he want a break? I honestly feel like I've failed somewhere and it hurts me that he wants a break. What should I do? Should I just move on with my life like it's a breakup or should I wait for him to come back to me? I'm so confused and hurt

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Metabolic rate and weight loss question?

    My metabolic rate is 1673, I eat 1300 calories roughly a day, and I burn 870 at the gym (I'm not going under 1200 don't worry I already know. I already subtracted and eat what I need to stay at 1300 or around there.) I track everything on myfitnesspal and I'm wondering roughly, what could I expect in weight loss per week? I googled and googled and asked people and I cannot get answers so if anyone knows it's greatly appreciated!

    14 AnswersDiet & Fitness7 years ago
  • Boyfriend spending time with a girl who's his friend?

    My boyfriend and I hangout quite a bit, and i usually go over after my last class but he decided to cancel that plan and hangout with hos friend at Starbucks, she has a boyfriend, should I be worries at all? I have a cheaters anxiety where I think it'll happen to me no matter who I date :( and it's gotten better but when the guy I like goes places with another girl single or not, freaks me out a bit... I didn't say anything because I don't want to sound crazy girlfriend like, but idk it really just rubs me the wrong way that instead of seeing me or hanging out with me he rather go drink coffee with another girl..

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • A question for guys? 10 points for best answer :)?

    How do you feel if, say your favorite color is orange, your girlfriend or wife wears lingere in that color, would you notice? Is is more of a turn on?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Too early to say I love you?

    Me and my boyfriend were inclusively dating for about a month and then we became exclusive and it's almost our one month anniversary. I spend just about as much time as we both can together both having part time jobs and going to school full time, I genuinely feel like I love him. Just thinking about it makes me smile and I get butterflies when he touches me or even kisses me still and I haven't felt like this with anyone before and I've ha quite a few boyfriends in the past. I don't want to say it to early but I don't want to keep it in for too long either you know? So if anyone could help me with this that would be much appriciated

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Is it too early to tell him I love him?

    Me and my boyfriend were inclusively dating for about a month and then we became exclusive and it's almost our one month anniversary. I spend just about as much time as we both can together both having part time jobs and going to school full time, I genuinely feel like I love him. Just thinking about it makes me smile and I get butterflies when he touches me or even kisses me still and I haven't felt like this with anyone before and I've ha quite a few boyfriends in the past. I don't want to say it to early but I don't want to keep it in for too long either you know? So if anyone could help me with this that would be much appriciated

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • I feel like he's blowing me off?

    First started with him going through my phone when I kissed him, and then I told him I feel like he only likes me for what's between my legs and since I said that he's barely talked to me, he barely has time for me, I used to hangout with him ALL the time and we were together a lot and now we talk like twice a day and we hangout once a week. He always says he can't hangout because he's busy but what's he busy with that takes up an entire day to where he can't even say hi? I haven't asked him about it I'm just playing it like he does, he takes an hour to reply ill take 3 type thing and since I did that r started replying quicker. I feel like he has no interest in me (I'm his girlfriend of two months by the way.) so should I be worried or is he REALLY just that busy? I'm not clingy I just miss him is all!

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • My boyfriend went through my phone...?

    I went to kiss him ,and I ALWAYS set my stuff behind me on his table when were together because I like to give him my full attention, I opened my eyes to see him GOING through my phone WHILE I was kissing him. WHO DOES THAT!? WHY would he do that. I haven't confronted him about it because it SERIOUSLY put me off in a bad place like he didn't care I was there all he cared about was snooping through my phone. Or when I kiss him sometimes he doesn't even close his eyes he stares at the TV like I'm invisible and it really hurts my feelings. I don't understand what's going through his mind or what he's feeling but why would he do things like this? I haven't even looked at his phone :( and I refuse to because that his personal space and I don't want to invade it. And when we are together he's always texting or not giving me his full attention like I do to him. I don't know what to do! I'm lost

    2 AnswersFriends8 years ago
  • Should I go to the ER?

    I think I have a UTI but I'm bleeding when I per and it's really bad the i practically jump off the seat and cry and it throbs after I don't know what's going on but it hurts REALLY bad

    1 AnswerWomen's Health8 years ago
  • Should I go to the ER?

    I think I have a UTI but I'm bleeding when I per and it's really bad the i practically jump off the seat and cry and it throbs after I don't know what's going on but it hurts REALLY bad

    3 AnswersPain & Pain Management8 years ago
  • Some weird feeling when I go pee after oral?

    I'm a virgin (Female) me and my boyfriend tried to have intercourse but I was too tight and we had some issues so we went straight to foreplay, now I have this weird urge to pee a lot and I can barely hold it in, but when I got its a weird good feeling I can't tell if its pain or what but it tingles like CRAZY! and then my clitoris kind of feels like its throbbing after. I'm REALLY confused right now any help would be awesome

    1 AnswerWomen's Health8 years ago
  • Orgasm issues? Please help?

    Me and my boyfriend have recently gotten into the foreplay aspect and I'm having a VERY hard time reaching orgasms, I haven't had one yet :( and it depresses me because I've never gone this far before and either has he but I've already faked a number just so he'd stop because I knew he was exaughsted and he even states his exaughstion :( I feel awful that I have to lie but I don't see any other way to do it, how do I know I'm coming closer to an orgasm to just let it go? Or how do I get one to come up? I know it's easier for the men, but for some reason I'm having difficulty reaching one :(

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Difficult time reaching an orgasm?...?

    Me and my boyfriend have recently gotten into the foreplay aspect and I'm having a VERY hard time reaching orgasms, I haven't had one yet :( and it depresses me because I've never gone this far before and either has he but I've already faked a number just so he'd stop because I knew he was exaughsted and he even states his exaughstion :( I feel awful that I have to lie but I don't see any other way to do it, how do I know I'm coming closer to an orgasm to just let it go? Or how do I get one to come up? I know it's easier for the men, but for some reason I'm having difficulty reaching one :(

    5 AnswersWomen's Health8 years ago
  • Boyfriend said I love you after 3-4 weeks of dating...?

    First im almost 19 and hes almost 20. I really like this guy, and it's really both of our first real relationship. We went out for 3 weeks till he asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday and naturally I said yes. He started to tear up... I was a little worried... I asked him what was wrong and he said I was just too good to him and he was unbelievably happy. I thought that was cute but it struck me a little weird and then he said he loved me.... I have a very BIG rule on the L bomb.. I give it at least 3-6 months because its a decent time frame to get to know the person completely! Really do like him A BUNCH but I'm worried about this emotional attachment he's presenting, is he going to be overly clingy and obsessive? I'm just really confused and worried and help or advice would rock

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • How do some guys like their hair played with?

    My boyfriend wants me to play with his hair but I don't exactly understand how. A girls hair is very different from his (I play with my fiends hair a lot) and what I like is very different from what he likes. So do you just run your hair through it or what? Haha

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Inexperience boyfriend?

    So, I'm 18 and he's almost 20, but he's very nervous and inexperienced. How do I break him out of his shell and get him over the fear of me rejecting him? I've been telling him I like him so much and I really do! I just don't know how to go about this. I talk to him about things I like an point them out like say, I tell him how I like to be held, or kissed, or anything like that. But I don't want to be the lead forever you know? I want him to become

    More dominant. Does that just take time so he can boost his confidence more? (I'm not going to end things with him because he's shy. So don't even say anything about how I'm a mean person to judge him. Everyone starts somewhere and I just want him to know its okay! And I'm not going to leave him just because he's too scared! I just want him to get over the irrational fear!)

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Cleavage, when is too much, too much?

    So I have a question, when is too much cleavage too much? I wear shirts that aren't too low cut but they do show a tiny bit. I'm just curious when is too much too much for a date, a hike, or just hanging out with your boyfriend? I don't want to come off as trashy and slutty but I don't wan to come off as Sister Marry from the catholic school down the street.. So guys, what's the perfect amount to show?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • How do I explain this to my dad?

    Okay, so I signed up for an online dating site (I'm almost 19) and I did it out o sheer boredom and just to troll around, turned out I actually met someone with a lot in common with me. One of my best friends already know about him, but the other doesn't and either does my dad. I met this guy and he's amazing. But I'm afraid of being judged by my best friend and my dad getting very angry at me... I know there's nothing wrong and it's a norm but I just dont know how to bring it up

    2 AnswersFamily8 years ago
  • I don't know what to do anymore with this stupid computer?

    I got a new lap top for graduation because my old ones screen constantly turn pink and it wont I itself no matter what I do. So its windows 8 and I thought whatever maybe it wont be as bad as people thought and after just now im about to throw this piece of **** at a wall. I cant play any gta games, none of them work. Idfk how they work for other people but not me. I cant play any games you insert as a CD because THERES NO CD PORT another problem I have with this since I wanted to test the sims games I have because apparently it works with windows 8. Wtf do I do I want to return it but I don't think I can now. I want a windows 8 computer that freakin works. HELL ill switch to god damn apple and throw out everything that isn't apple related. I cant hook my iphone up to this pos and I cant play games. its pretty much useless beyond belief. So my question is now, wth do I do?!

    3 AnswersOther - Computers8 years ago