miranda.virgil

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We dated on and off (long distance) and have three kids. He is a HS teacher and has began his MA degree in psychology. He began counseling an 18 year old girl from his school district because she has major home issues. He wants to "save" her so gave him her number so he could motivate her daily and be accessible at all times. I was uncomfortable with this once the phone calls began lasting hours and texting was occurring excessively until 11pm. I expressed these feelings to him but NOTHING changed. I felt like he really didnt give a crap about how I was feeling which I have never experienced with him. I have always been insecure in general but my relationship was the one place that I felt pretty secure- because my husband tells me he loves me and I am beautiful everyday. Anyhow- I was becoming more uncomfortable and more uncomfortable and since I couldn't talk to anyone- given the situation being "odd"- I vented to his mother.. who in turn... spoke with his boss (her friend) and raised concerns with the choice of speaking with her outside of school. Now he feels "betrayed" by me and that I don't trust him. I have done a lot of self-reflection over the situation and I know that all of my anger, anxiety, etc over the situation- stems mainly from my insecurities and I EXPLAINED this to him. He never has in the past- but now he is making comments about other women being good-looking and stuff (I hate using the word- stuff). I am appalled at his insensitivity and feel that given the fact that I told him I am INSECURE- that these comments are far from appropriate. How do you perceive this situation?

I have 2 daughters- Isabella K-Leigh and Victoria Elyse. i am pregnant now and I THOUGHT my hubz and I had agreed on the name Natalia for a girl but apparently not. I am looking for some ideas =) Thanks!!

So- I only have one class left to complete my BA. I get quite a bit of money in Fin Aid, Grants, and scholarships but of course the amount goes down if I am not full time. I would really like to lighten my load next semester to allow more time with my family but we definately need the money. What would happem if I enrolled full time and then dropped a couple classes down to half time- after the money disburses? has anyone ever done that? Will they really take money back and how would they do that??