Jorge

we separated in november of last year. 

in VA law we need to be separated for a whole year before a divorce can happen.  because we have 2 kids 

i recently got fired a job where they pay in full for my medical and dental insurance.  

both my kids and I will be on it.  

she asked me if i could put her on it.  

since we still married.  just for a few months.  so she can use it.    

i dont know if she will try to fight at divorce time. 

my question is.   if i do put her on.  

is there any bad side effects that i might have to deal with later come divorce time ?? 

silverado? 

f150? 

tundra? 

ram? 

i drive about 100 miles a day and move around plywood, 2x4, sinks.  tile.   large objects.    my bed gets full most of the time. 

what is the best truck for me ?  

keep in mind it needs to be reliable also since i drive about 100 miles a day. more or less.      

and.  am not trying to spend more than 40k in a truck.  since is for work.   

my company will reimburse me 800 a month plus a gas card.  so gas is not an issue.  

i recently got a job as a superintendent for a construction company.  2 months ago.  

i am currently driving a small civic.   but this cant go on.  for anyone who knows what a superintendent is in a construction site. knows i am handicapped without a truck.  

i get a 800 dollar reimbursement for driving my car at work every month.  so the truck would pay for itself.  

this is where i am at credit wise.   

i was separated last year and was left in a very bad place financially.  

in debt.  

i january i lost my job.   

in february i could not make payments on my debts.  so i contacted a debt resolution company.   to get all my account into one monthly payment while they negotiate my debts.   credit cards.  

they told me to stop paying all of my credit cards while they negotiate.   this brough my credit score to the 400s currently 

i started my current job on may 1st.  

i make enough money to afford the truck i want.   which doesn't even matter since i get an 800 reimbursement plus a gas card.   

i havent gone to a dealership yet.  but i wanted to know if anyone could help here. 

what are my chances of been able to get a truck ?   

i make enough money to afford one right now.  

and i waited two months on this job to make sure i could do it and it was a sure thing.    

i make about 1250 a week before taxes. 

plus 200 personal car reimbursement 

which is about 1450 a week 

5800 a month.  before taxes. 

i have to kids with my ex wife.  

9 and 3 year old 

i have been living with my girlfriend since december now 

and have always visited my kids 2-3 times a week for the past 6 months while with her.  

my ex wife wont let me take them out of the house.   so my visits are inside.   this have always made my girlfriend uncomfortable

i dont want to get any type of court involved.  

but now.   my gf exploded on me with a fight we had.  and said.  

that i can only go once a week now.   and it has to be a weekday after work.     

but, i can see rhem more often. only if i can manage to start taking them out 

or else the relationship is over 

who is in the wrong here ? 

my kids love seem me.  

so its not forced on them.   

i have 2 year old and a 8 year old with my ex wife.   

for the past 5 months i have been dating a women with a 4 year old and a 12 year old.  

last 2 months living with her.   

i have kept this a secret from my 8 year old. 

dont want him to think that i traded him and his brother for two other kids.  

i could say i love the person i am with right now. but, i do not see myself as a father to her kids. as i already have two of my own.  

who dont even know of their existence yet.  

i am seriously thinking about packing my bags and living. on my own.  

am i in the wrong here ??  

keep in my mind. this women am with. 

does everything. i need her to do.  

has chosen me over her kids i would say 90% of the time.   

the issue is me. am just uncomfortable with her kids. i feel a feeling of guilt. for not been with my own.    

i have 2 year old and a 8 year old with my ex wife.   

for the past 5 months i have been dating a women with a 4 year old and a 12 year old.  

last 2 months living with her.   

i have kept this a secret from my 8 year old. 

dont want him to think that i traded him and his brother for two other kids.  

i could say i love the person i am with right now.  but, i do not see myself as a father to her kids.    as i already have two of my own.  

who dont even know of their existence yet.  

i am seriously thinking about packing my bags and living.    on my own.  

am i in the wrong here ??  

keep in my mind.  this women am with. 

does everything.  i need her to do.  

has chosen me over her kids i would say 90% of the time.   

the issue is me.  am just uncomfortable with her kids.  i feel a feeling of guilt.  for not been with my own.    

i had a vasectomy on Friday 8/9

everything went well. except the tip of tongue at left side felt numb. and swollen.

nurse said it would go away.

it is 2 days later now and nothing has changed. it is still numb and a swollen.

what could this be ?

i was put under general anesthesia for a vasectomy.

i had a job interview on the 3rd. of this month, it went very well. he said he would probably send me a job offer by that weekend. and if i had any more questions about the job to text him.

on sunday the 5th he texted my answers to my question. and mentioned nothing about a job offer.

on the 7th. he texted saying that he is sorry he hasnt been able to reply yet, that he has been very busy and would have something by the end of the week for me.

it is now the 15th. and i have not heard back from him at all he has not texted me since tursday and neither have i.

i was thinking of texting him this afternoon. to ask if i was still been considered for the job or if the job has been filled by now,,

my question is , what do you guys recomend i do? keep waiting ? or text him this afternnon

i live in northern VA

i am looking for a place that can give me my fat percentage.

and like all that info about our bodies that fitness proffesional have on youtube.

i also looking for a place that can give me a good nutrition plan. and workout plan.

i am asking here i have no idea how to even start looking for a place like this ..

i was thinking the gym but i am not sure that Gyms do this type of things. as fat percentage and things like that

also i know that most gyms try to sell you extra items thhat we dont need just like a car dealership.

is there a place where i can go to look for what i am looking for ?

a place that can help me have a healthier and more active lifetyle by keeping up with my fat percentage, giving me a nutrition plan and also providing me with a personal trainer type of thing to keep up with my workouts in site .

Northern VA

2017 Honda civic hatchback EX model

sport model is already black

EX model it comes chrome

on top of both windows front and back seats, theres this chrome part that runs all the way from front to back of car.

is only on EX and base model i think. sport is all black

i want to know what the part is called i f anyone could help?

i want to have it painted black, but to make calls and shop around i need to know how its called

please someone help

i recently purchased a 2017 honda civic hatchback EX

this car comes with 17 inch wheels

i am planning on changing the rims for bigger ones

and also pure black ones

what is the biggest size rim that this vehicle can handle?

currently of course i still have the stock rims

i am done will xmas shopping for all the kids in my family

i dont know where to store them

i have 2 cars

one hatchback with a lot of space on back

and a sedan with decent space

is it safe for the toys and cloth to be stored there?

we win winter and coldest it gets should be around 20F

will the toys and clothes get messed up if stored in a trunk of a car in the cold?

i have NO electronics

only toys with lights but thats not really ann electronic

i have both google maps and apple maps

google maps works perfectly for me when connected to my home wifi and also when i turn wifi off

apple maps works perfectly when connected to my homes wifi but when i turn wifi off on my phone it says "the internet connection appears to be offline"

is this normal? i have location setting on for both apple and google maps

i was in the hospital for very severe headaches that i had this week. i was there in and out this whole week

i was put on morphine a few times

i was put on morphine multiply times a day to help me sleep or relax from my severe headaches. i had viral meningitis "very painful"

now i am 100 percent good. no headaches at all.

but i crave the feeling of the morphine when it was injected into my body

thats all I ve been thinking about any any time i get some free time for the last 2 days.

like when you crave sex. that how i feel for that feeling

like i want that fresh feeling of morphine all over my body again

my questions is this.. will this go away on its own??? or should i go to my doctor and like see what he says? maybe put me on softer and softer pain meds until until i dont want it anymore? i dont know honestly what he would do.

i want this to stop

what do you people of yahoo recommend??

i have never before done drugs

not even weed

only alcohol but i don t consider that a drug

i am 23 my wife is 24

i am planning this for 2017

when is the best time of year to go to Europe ? weather wise

witch one of the 3 has the most to do for young adults like us?

we would be on a budget of about 5k-8k

planning only to stay for about 7 days.

we speak Spanish and english so i guess thats a plus for Spain.

witch one would you recommend?

non of us has ever been out of USA before.

we live in VA. northern VA

farthest we been is Maryland

witch one would be best for a first time experience.

my brother has a 2014 nissan sentra that he financed at sheehy nissan for 60 months.

he does not need or want the car at all anymore,

i just finished college and want to get a honda civic, 2016

i would be eligible for the recent grad program with low APR

what we want to know is this,

is it possible for him to trade in his sentra and pass the debt to me somehow and i buy a civic? he would help me pay the difference of what the sentra added in price.

he just doesn't want it anymore and i am willing to help him,

please someone tell me if this is possible?

we are located in northern VA

my credit score as of today experium 734

his is also high but not sure exactly what.

for example if they don't pull it back.. i imagine the urine would get all the skin wet and probably some would stay inside.. like are they suppose to clean it after?? or do they just have to pull the skin back while they pee???

i went to doctor cause side of lip.. like the crack where up and bottom meet... it has been drying and itchy for the last couple days.. and its been getting worse by the days .i feel like its expanding.

the doctor looked at it with a magnifiying thing that they use and she said it was angular cheilitis. than gave me a prescription ointment to apply.. i forget to ask if it was a type of herpes at al... i have never had herpes before... only cold sores.. is this related to herpes?? could the doctor had been wrong and this could be herpes?