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So my girlfriend said she drank this "diet tea", and it has senna leaf in it, well, normally it only makes her poop a lot like one time, roughly 8 hours after drinking it. But this time: it has made her keep having diarrhea for going on 4 days now. She's getting dehydrated and worried and she asked me what she could do. The only thing I could think of to drink MILK because I know if you have a ton, it can constipate you a bit. Thoughts?

It seems like no matter what, this stupid internet will offer up very personal details about you for a nominal fee to anyone who wants to find you. Intellius, white pages, pipl, these guys are the bane of my existence. I'm getting my name legally changed but after that? How do I prevent my address from being published in so many places? Do I have to get the FBI involved? I feel so powerless to protect my information :(

I just realized, watching friends episodes over and over, and thinking about how Jennifer Aniston has had many high profile relationships that didn't result in marriage and kids...And how Rachel, the character she played on friends was so cute and hot and funny and several seasons focus on her being the ******** to Ross marrying other girls? WTF? like she never gets it right IRL or in the char she played...which is basically herself. I imagine her tone and humor would be similar but less dramatic IRL. And anyway...what do you think. Why did that happen?

I have a 5lb poodle, he was picked up in the mouth of a huge black police-type dog who's obbessed with balls. I think he touched her ball or something, all I heard was depserate squeeling and when I ran outside she had already dropped him and he ran right to me. The first 12 hours he still ran around a bit but was intermittently shaking and just standing there. No whimpering though. Now it is the next day and he is tender underneath, but can still be picked up gently. He won't walk anywhere and is shaking uncontrollably. When I get him to lay back and relax, the shaking comes in sort of "waves" and his eyes roll around a bit like he could just pass out (from inner pain?) There's no bruising, teeth did not break the skin, but I just suspect she crushed his belly. Could he die from damage internally? I really do not have a ton of money, and I wanted to wait 24 hours before going to the vet. I'm hoping he's just sore and a little shell shocked, but could it be more serious? (saw no blood in urine or stools, no vomiting)

A relationship that had basically proven to be DRAMA time and time again but you are a dramatic person so it's perfect for you? Like he is the alpha male, super motivated and competitive but sometimes too negative for my tastes. Yet I'm a dreamer and too optimistic without having the required motivation on my own. I just think we could do great things together if I was able to conform better. WOuld you stay in a relationship like this? If you believed from the time you were a girl that there was a prince charming on a white horse? And all your other boyfriends had been shitheads while this one actually took care of you and changed his ways to accept you and your love? Thats part of the problem I guess is that love never came easy to him...he had it so much rougher than me as a kid I cry just thinking what his dad put him through. But anyway I just mean- There are so few times out there that you feel a real spiritual connection to someone so it might be worth holding onto and suffering the drama and changing myself for the better at the same time. There's got to be a chance for real love right? I may never be open to love again after this if I choose to walk away and that is a sad thing. sorry for the long post. thanks for reading and answering. I posted in this section because we have many times discussed marriage/kids/house and where we want to be with each other in the future so I didn't want it in singles/dating. We've been living/traveling together off and on 1 and 1/2 years

If you were a 26 year old girl from northern california who had been smoking it for 10 years with no real problems. Survived abuse, harder drugs and alcoholism yet basically conquered all of those and now just chooses to smoke each day. Not excessively, I can still get things done....but my boyfriend that I maybe love is basically totally against it. The thing is he was a gambler and I stuck by him through that so he's willing to still be with me if I stop smoking. I just think I need it I guess. Helps me drive less stressed, be nice to people, exercise and it really enhances social experiences, entertainment. I tried NOT smoking it when we first hooked up and it just backfired like I wasn't really in love with him then because he was making me stop. I feel like smoking just makes me a happier person more capable of love. Is al this bullcrap though is that the addiction talking? Would you quit weed for a guy? (please don't answer all high and mighty YES if you've never smoked and you aren't taking MY situation into account I've been smoking for 10 years)

My little brother got fired from his last job 2 years ago, he lived in cars till they broke down, and now for the last year has been at my mom and step dads mooching and cowering them into submission with his emotional displays. He doesn't qualify for free mental health counseling because it's elective...he hasn't had an "episode" really he just goes on and on with excuses and nonsense till you can't bear to listen anymore. His whole life centers around going to town and looking for some girl who doesn't like him at all or parties, theres a whole crew of quasi-homeless hanger-outers in this quaint northern california town. He is 24. He's coming to live with me tomorrow apparently. I'm his older sister with a 2BR an hour away from his precious town. Maybe he will look for work, but maybe he'll just scream at me all day I don't know what to do. They were at their wits end with him so he's being shoved out of the nest. My mom is a nice lady and has done so much for him, enabling him too much for sure....yet he makes her cry and screams these made up stories about not getting enough food or attention when he was younger. Yet I'm his sister and I was there- I know he's full of crap we had a great childhood he's just a diva in my opinion and lazy as all hell......IN THIS TOUGH ECONOMY where people with degrees are showing up to restaurant interviews, is there any hope for chronic losers like him? People who talk about money and work like its the devil but gladly subsist on government handouts of food. Is acting mentally ill his gimmick? Or does he just need to exhaust all possibilities, really be homeless, then go into the system to receive mental health counseling??? He doesn't drink or do drugs all that much his main problem is this anger he has and defense of his ego. He has long curly hair. It would be very hard for him to charm an employer in the state he's in.

I sit around all day on the computer smoking weed, literally barely moving except to type or laugh at something. I take my dogs on 4 or 5 quick walks a day. I am soooo lazy. When I exercise I just sort of roll on the floor stretching but usually get distracted in 5 minutes and walk into the kitchen.

So why am I not like 200lbs by now? I lost muscle tone but that doesn't explain why I'm 104 lbs!! (5'4" frame) I'm not doing anything at all!

Is this healthy? I've been on my own 10 years and haven't accomplished much. Food service jobs and poor concentration/grades in college (that I payed for) led to me becoming a stripper and doing that for the last few years. I did a tiny bit of porn too. I never kept in touch all that well but now I am feeling drawn towards my family again. I moved to a town only an hour away wheras I've always lived 7/8 hrs away. We have been hanging out every couple of weeks. I do intend on continuing to strip. My dad is a millionaire but crazy and gives all his money to pakistani women's groups. My parents are divorced and remarried. I feel a strong pull, like, a warm and fuzzy pull, to just go hang out with my mom and step dad and also to hang with my step mom and dad. I don't plan on stopping stripping and really doing anything besides making money for the next few years. I CHOOSE this job. So is it unhealthy to stay in the area and be right up in my parents life? I'm 26. Depending on the money, I may just go off the vegas and return to not bothering them. But they love to see me, I'm not like, all strippery when I go visit you know. Whats healthiest? AND DONT SAY to stop stripping. P.S. my mom said I could grow some vegetables in her garden and she'll water them. I just want to get back to basics and not center my life around the club and the girls there being my only social friends. I would rather actually truly just keep my family as my closest support system.

Okay so I already have a 3 year old neutered male toy poodle, but two weeks ago I paid like $1400 for a 3 month old maltese puppy, male and unneutered, his testicles have already descended. He has puppy energy, is super cute and my original dog is not taking the change very well. They played furiously for the first week but now the poodle wont play with the puppy at all and will shriek if the puppy goes to play with him. He seems really depressed and theatened, no longer the happy dog he once was. Are they going to work this out? It was weeks of playing and only a couple days now of this tension. Maybe the whole time it was tension though. I read that I need to support the dominant dogs position (puppy goes for food first, through doors, etc so is the dominant dog) but what does that mean? I would rather find a new home for the puppy than start treating my original dog like the lowest member of the pack. What would you do? After spending that much and introducing him to your whole family and now to have them hate each other! (also note: cannot neuter the puppy for 2 more months)

Please don't answer "both" I will give you a thumbs down, I need a real answer, because after trial and error I know my body pretty well. It is impossible to work out AND cut calories on the same day or stretch of days. So my question is: Is it better to DIET for a few days then start working out and resume a normal healthy eating plan? Or should I start working out hard and cut the calories after that?