Nate

For me it was the Agonist's "five" that came out last year. It didn't do it for me.

A7X put out a really boring album. If I wanted to listen to prog rock I'd have played dream theater or Mastodon.

What say you?

I was sleeping with this girl and so was a friend of mine who is currently going through the whole divorce thing. They have feelings for each other in some level and she is a great friend and I do like her, she likes me. We all know about it, I was even staying at his house and if I wanted I'd give him a heads up and me and our "girlfriend" for a lack of a better term Would have sex up stairs. He'd extend the same benefit.

If we felt jealous we talked about it. Worked through it. Not that there was much of that. The girl and I by ourselves would go out, engage in PDA, cook for each other, tell each other personal things and overall confide in each other. Our other friend got the same attention. You'd think we were a couple if you weren't in the know. (Not many were.)

I liked this. I found it more likable than being in a monogamous relationship. It felt good. I could sleep with someone else if I wanted and she won't care. I'd still be with her in the end. Had to move out of state so I'm back to being regular old school single. But I liked the dynamic I had. Nobody was hurt and it was more honest than any relationship I've been in.

Thoughts. (Be warned, tell me I'm going to hell and I commited some mortal sin or be generally nasty and engage in any zealotry you've given me permission to roast you mercilessly.)

I just don't think a traditional relationship between just two people can work. All my life every so called healthy relationship end with both people hating each other. I've been accused of cheating when I never would with the person I was with. In college even if someone is in a relationship they cheated eventually in my experience. I even had a spree of flings with my room mate gf. I dont regret it. It was fun.Don't even get me started on the Army, married folk **** every one or got married for bah. Not saying every one does it. I just don't think I could be faithful how I think now. I'm sure I'd stray and not think twice about it. Thoughts?