tom

Hi

So i’m the younger brother i make a lot of money and have my own comfortable house. I also board out some of my rooms to my sister and her kids cause they are struggling. Well my older sister who lives out of town has a family friend (whom my parents know) who started university in the same town as where i live and my older sis has asked me if her friend (20 yrs old) can crash in my spare room for a while until she gets back on her feet. So i agreed since it was covid and people were poor and stuff. Well fast forward 5 months and in this time i have offered her 2 well paying jobs from my friends and she turned them both down. She has no job and hasn't bothered trying to find one, i’m virtually hosting her a free guest in a hotel who eats my food and uses up all my power. I have told her and my sister if she does not get a job to pay her own stuff im kicking her out. My parents are furious at me cause im being heartless, but i have been complaining about her being a complete bum all shes does is eat my food, watchs tv and sleeps in the lounger when i get back from work, spends ALL  her time on tik tok and social media, sings and dances basically acting like shes at her own home. I have told her a couple of times to remind her this is not her house amd she can’t just do as she please, get a job then leave! My parents are the reason why she has’nt left, but im at the end of my wits i keep arguing with my parents about her and its making me and my parents fight.