Zoe

Be honest with yourselves, people.

Mine was amazing even though it hurt a bit, but I got used to it

Just asking :P

Mine is country music. Lol I won't judge anyone.

Just a random question. Like, what makes you fall for a girl?

My best friend is a fourteen year old girl. She is a wonderful person in my eyes, but to others, she is weird...I am very concerned about her health in general and I would like to know what I can do to help. She is already seeing a psychologist who visits her in her household. the psychologist is only there to help my best friend, not anyone else in the household. Now, on to my concerns. She cuts herself once in a while on her arms...she's not looking for attention because she covers the cuts, but she sometimes tells me about them... Also, she talks a lot about how she's so upset because of her parents. Her mother especially. Her mother pushes her to do very well at school and by doing so, it brings my best friend down. She has a hard time in school but makes it worse for herself because she constantly tells herself that she can't make it and that she's not smart. The worst part is that she gets 70s and 80s as averages and has been in the honors twice this school year, also she's in enriched english. My greatest concern is that recently, she has been talking to me about "a new friend". Her "friend" is an imaginary male friend. She knows and has verbally admitted that her friend is a figment of her imagination. The problem is that she still talks to him and listens to what he says. She told me that he said the following things to her: "if you bite your thumb, the painful feelings will go away for a while" (this means self harm, again), "you can't be my friend until you die and you join me in the sky" (which means killing herself which she has previously tried to do multiple times, but wasn't able to) "do not trust anyone" and that's all I can remember. She is not trying to get attention because she does not speak about these things to anyone else but me and I doubt that she has spoken of her friend to her psychologist. She told me that her psychologist said that she is in a deep depression...someone help me please.I don't know what to say and do anymore.

I'm a teenager and I never received an allowance. Some kids are always complaining about "all the work they do" and how they should get paid for it. I find it stupid. What are your opinions?

I would think I'm afraid of having sex because I've never done it and the thought that I will never get my virginity back haunts the crap out of me. I'm not so afraid of getting pregnant because I'm on birth control (to regulate my menstrual flow) and I would make my boyfriend wear a condom...also I'm not so afraid of getting an std because my boyfriend is a virgin, like me (and as i said before, I would make him wear a condom). Also, I would not lose my virginity to someone I don't love and don't trust, so that's not a problem because I love and trust my boyfriend very much. I'm mostly afraid of what people would say...I don't want to get labeled as a slut...and I don't want my parents to lose trust in me...is this normal though? Maybe if I wasn't so afraid, I'd be able to make myself become mentally and emotionally ready to have sex...I'd like to know how I can get rid of this dumb fear.