Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Lv 142 points

C K

Favorite Answers21%
Answers52
  • Is my girlfriend pregnant?

    She's 19 Im 21. She is on birth control and had been for years. We don't use condoms, I always pull out before finishing . However she's Been under a lot of stress lately and said her recent period that just ended was very light and he had stomach pain. She hasn't missed a pill . Is she pregnant?

    2 AnswersPregnancy7 years ago
  • How do I handle this? Am I over thinking?

    Hey guys, i'll keep this short as possible. I'm 20 and i took tlast year off from school, i moved to a new state where i am now with my parents about 10 months ago, I became realy depressed when when I first started college as a freshman when i was 18. i failed miserably due to this, worst thing i've ever experienced in my life. Since then I've been fine, i enjoy life mostly, I still find happiness and laughter daily, and i still have my hobby and passion for cars. However lately, i've been noticing that when i get bored or have time to myself, I tend to start ruminating a lot and thinking about when i was depressed, i cant seem to let it go and quite frankly I'm scared to death of it. i don't want it to happen again. I can't explain it but I find myself analyzing my feelings and mood and consciousness a lot. To the point I worry myself so much that i get anxiety and i start getting depressed, but I can't tell if i'm actually becoming depressed or if i'm just psyching myself out. How do I put my terrible experience of depression behind me and stop thinking about it? It's like i have a mental scar from it, I just want to forget about it, but my mind won't let me. It seems that anytime I get sad, or unhappy about something, or even bored, i automatically think i'm depressed or becoming depressed. I'm about to start college again and I'm scared to death because of what happened last time I went. I can't put it off anymore, and i can't fail. Any advice or insight?

    Mental Health8 years ago
  • What is she thinking?

    I used to date this girl, we dated for 2.5 years, we split up after about my first semester of college. Never felt connected to any other girl like I was to her. Anyways after about a month she started dating another guy whom she had been dating for over a year now and is still with. However we don't talk at all, but then again every so many months or evry so often she will randomly contact me or text me or even email me. Now i know what you.re thinking , so what she texted you, no big deal. But these texts are often more then just you're average text. she will text me things like, " i dont know what to do with my life" or " i saw a car like yours today" or "i'm going to the same college you were going to" or even" i saw an old picture of us today". now keep i nmind i rarely every respond to these bc i dont want to get caught up feelings and im doing fine on my own. but these random things from her always get me curious, what is she thinking? how does she feel? I just cant help it. I dont love her anymore that i can say, buttha doesnt mean i dont hold a special spot for her in my heart, but im still curious? Whats she getting at? i've asked her what she wants before, and she just gets mad or upset annd stops talking completely. So i'm confused on what to think or how i should handle these random messages from her. I need some advice people, what should I think, or do? what does she want? Also i know her current boyfriend is just a super nice guy and im cool with that, but i know that he doesn't know she contacts me and my younger sister will tell me how m ex tries to follow her on multiple social sites. So i have no idea what to do anymore, but i'm curious and I want to know

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Am I depressed or do i just overthink?

    Hey guys, i'll keep this short as possible. I'm 20 and i took tlast year off from school, i moved to a new state where i am now with my parents about 10 months ago, I became realy depressed when when I first started college as a freshman when i was 18. i failed miserably due to this, worst thing i've ever experienced in my life. Since then I've been fine, i enjoy life mostly, I still find happiness and laughter daily, and i still have my hobby and passion for cars. However lately, i've been noticing that when i get bored or have time to myself, I tend to start ruminating a lot and thinking about when i was depressed, i cant seem to let it go and quite frankly I'm scared to death of it. i don't want it to happen again. I can't explain it but I find myself analyzing my feelings and mood and consciousness a lot. To the point I worry myself so much that i get anxiety and i start getting depressed, but I can't tell if i'm actually becoming depressed or if i'm just psyching myself out. How do I put my terrible experience of depression behind me and stop thinking about it? It's like i have a mental scar from it, I just want to forget about it, but my mind won't let me. It seems that anytime I get sad, or unhappy about something, or even bored, i automatically think i'm depressed or becoming depressed. I'm about to start college again and I'm scared to death because of what happened last time I went. I can't put it off anymore, and i can't fail. Any advice or insight?

    2 AnswersPsychology8 years ago
  • What Should I do? ExGirlfriend confuses me?

    I used to date this girl, we dated for 2.5 years, we split up after about my first semester of college. Never felt connected to any other girl like I was to her. Anyways after about a month she started dating another guy whom she had been dating for over a year now and is still with. However we don't talk at all, but then again every so many months or evry so often she will randomly contact me or text me or even email me. Now i know what you.re thinking , so what she texted you, no big deal. But these texts are often more then just you're average text. she will text me things like, " i dont know what to do with my life" or " i saw a car like yours today" or "i'm going to the same college you were going to" or even" i saw an old picture of us today". now keep i nmind i rarely every respond to these bc i dont want to get caught up feelings and im doing fine on my own. but these random things from her always get me curious, what is she thinking? how does she feel? I just cant help it. I dont love her anymore that i can say, buttha doesnt mean i dont hold a special spot for her in my heart, but im still curious? Whats she getting at? i've asked her what she wants before, and she just gets mad or upset annd stops talking completely. So i'm confused on what to think or how i should handle these random messages from her. I need some advice people, what should I think, or do? what does she want? Also i know her current boyfriend is just a super nice guy and im cool with that, but i know that he doesn't know she contacts me and my younger sister will tell me how m ex tries to follow her on multiple social sites. so idk

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Just bought brand new HP labtop and battery charger doesn't work?

    Just bought my new HP pavilion llabtop and just got it started up, when i first plugged in the battery charger it was charging, now its not charging at all? whats going on? It's brand new!

    2 AnswersLaptops & Notebooks8 years ago
  • Any nice honest girls want to talk?

    Hey I'm 20 and I've been single for a while now, and I could really use a nice girl to talk to , I shy at first but I would love to talk about anything, I'm new where I live and don't really have time to talk with the girls where I work, that and Im shy. Any takers? I need someone to talk to! Someone one friendly and not rude

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Where to find a nice girl?

    I'm 20 and I've Been single for a long while now, I get plenty of attention but I'm nervous and unfortunately have trust issues. Where and how do I find a nice girl to talk to or even text Idc somebody horsey., a girl that's real.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Where would I find a nice girl to talk to or get her number?

    I've been single for a long while now and I get plenty of attention but I just want a nice good looking and Honest girl to talk to, but I have trust issues unfortunately and this makes it difficult for me to talk or even ask for a number? Where so I find a nice girl like that?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • What could be going on with me?

    Hey everyone, pretty concerned now. Been feeling off since about July of 2012. I',m 19 almost 20 and when I moved from my home state this summer to my parents place in a different state, I started feeling off. I just don't feel right. I currently work a full time job, and stay at home with my parents since i'm taking year of school off. Let me tell you what I do feel and what I don't feel. I FEEL off, a bit worrisome, a bit anxious. I get really tired sometimes, and I think about my life constantly, and my brain can't seem to stop thinking about the word depression, i try not to, but it's like I ruminate about it unconsciously. My head also feels heavy a lot , I get headaches and feel heavy too. I DON"T cry, I don't have trouble sleeping, I don't think of suicide, I'm still interested in hobbies. I don't feel totally hopeless or sad, and when I'm active or engaged in work or activities I feel normal, until I'm done or just sitting around. I weight lift, I take vitamins, and supplements, and I'm not anti social, my job requires me to be social anyways lol. I just feel off, I think I'm depressed but i'm not sure. I've always been a really enthusiastic person and upbeat, now I just feel "bleh" what could it be?

    3 AnswersMen's Health8 years ago
  • How do I watch the videos?

    on my iPhone when I access my yahoo mail , I can't watch the videos my friends email me, how can I watch them from my phone?

    2 AnswersGoogle8 years ago
  • How do I watch my video from email ?

    on my iPhone when I access my yahoo mail , I can't watch the videos my friends email me, how can I watch them from my phone?

    1 AnswerPDAs & Handhelds8 years ago
  • How can I watch them?

    on my iPhone when I access my yahoo mail , I can't watch the videos my friends email me, how can I watch them from my phone?

    1 AnswerCell Phones & Plans8 years ago
  • Am I depressed or something else maybe?

    Hey everyone, pretty concerned now. Been feeling off since about July of 2012. I',m 19 almost 20 and when I moved from my home state this summer to my parents place in a different state, I started feeling off. I just don't feel right. I currently work a full time job, and stay at home with my parents since i'm taking year of school off. Let me tell you what I do feel and what I don't feel. I FEEL off, a bit worrisome, a bit anxious. I get really tired sometimes, and I think about my life constantly, and my brain can't seem to stop thinking about the word depression, i try not to, but it's like I ruminate about it unconsciously. My head also feels heavy a lot , I get headaches and feel heavy too. I DON"T cry, I don't have trouble sleeping, I don't think of suicide, I'm still interested in hobbies. I don't feel totally hopeless or sad, and when I'm active or engaged in work or activities I feel normal, until I'm done or just sitting around. I weight lift, I take vitamins, and supplements, and I'm not anti social, my job requires me to be social anyways lol. I just feel off, I think I'm depressed but i'm not sure. I've always been a really enthusiastic person and upbeat, now I just feel not happy or sad, just neutral. thoughts?

    8 AnswersMental Health8 years ago
  • Do I have depression?

    Hey guys, I'm 19 almost 20, and I used to live in a different state where I grew up, after I graduated my parents moved away to a far away state, after that summer when i moved there to visit them before college, about a week after i was there I started to feel very off, couldn't sleep, emotional, crying for no reason, and anxious and hopeless. Then I went off to college back in the state I used to live, and I struggled to the point in which I finally left college and stayed in my hometown< it was only then that I slowly felt better and then last summer iI was still there and felt amazing, then In June i moved back with my parents, and the same thing happened, after about a week, I just woke up and felt off and depressed. Only this time it is not near as severe, for a couple weeks it was bad, but now after being here for 5-6 months, I feel a lot better, but the thought of depression haunts me, I think about it a lot, b/c I still don't feel quite like myself. My parents and people at work say I seem fine, and i'm too happy to be depressed. But i think about it a lot, but I hate thing about it it's like my brain won't let the idea of depression go. I'm not sad hardly at all, and i have frequent happy moments the majority of the time, And I always feel normal and 100% okay when i'm engaged in conversation, work, or activities, but as soon as i'm not doing anything, I start to get headaches, throbbing in my ears, and my mood drops, and the thoughts of depression start up. I also dream a lot. I feel like I might be mildy depressed, or maybe i'm just worrying myself to death? I feel like i'm battling myself. If I had to rate my happiness/feeling like myself on a 1-10 scale 1 being sad 10 being normal and happy, i'd say i'm a 6 or 7. Idk if any of this helps but it's how I feel, I'm just not sure what's happened, I don't think anything is bothering me, however, I don't really have friends here, bc it's all new to me and I don't plan on staying here forever. Any thoughts? I do find it suspicious that I have experienced this off feeling and worrisome thoughts both times that I have moved here.

    1 AnswerMental Health8 years ago
  • Am I just worried or do I have depression?

    Hey guys, I'm 19 almost 20, and I used to live in a different state where I grew up, after I graduated my parents moved away to a far away state, after that summer when i moved there to visit them before college, about a week after i was there I started to feel very off, couldn't sleep, emotional, crying for no reason, and anxious and hopeless. Then I went off to college back in the state I used to live, and I struggled to the point in which I finally left college and stayed in my hometown< it was only then that I slowly felt better and then last summer iI was still there and felt amazing, then In June i moved back with my parents, and the same thing happened, after about a week, I just woke up and felt off and depressed. Only this time it is not near as severe, for a couple weeks it was bad, but now after being here for 5-6 months, I feel a lot better, but the thought of depression haunts me, I think about it a lot, b/c I still don't feel quite like myself. My parents and people at work say I seem fine, and i'm too happy to be depressed. But i think about it a lot, but I hate thing about it it's like my brain won't let the idea of depression go. I'm not sad hardly at all, and i have frequent happy moments the majority of the time, And I always feel normal and 100% okay when i'm engaged in conversation, work, or activities, but as soon as i'm not doing anything, I start to get headaches, throbbing in my ears, and my mood drops, and the thoughts of depression start up. I also dream a lot. I feel like I might be mildy depressed, or maybe i'm just worrying myself to death? I feel like i'm battling myself. If I had to rate my happiness/feeling like myself on a 1-10 scale 1 being sad 10 being normal and happy, i'd say i'm a 6 or 7. Idk if any of this helps but it's how I feel, I'm just not sure what's happened, I don't think anything is bothering me, however, I don't really have friends here, bc it's all new to me and I don't plan on staying here forever. Any thoughts? I do find it suspicious that I have experienced this off feeling and worrysome thoughts both times that I have moved here.

    1 AnswerMental Health8 years ago
  • Will this pass, how can I shake this?

    Hey everyone, i'll keep this quick. I'm 19 ill turn 20 soon, i'm currently out of college, took a year off to figure out what i want to do. I go to college in Missouri b/c that's where I always lived, my parents moved to Tennessee. At the end of this summer, I moved back to stay with them until next year, after about a week I started to feel "off" not peppy as usual, my first thought was, oh I'm depressed. After that first thought, I haven't been able to stop thinking that i may be depressed or have depression, it's been about 5 months now, and I feel fine mostly , but I still feel "off". For the first 4 months here I just sat at home all day, nothing to do in this big house. which gave me way too much thinking time, i think it made me feel worse, that and i don't really have friends here. I now have a fulltime job, and i feel better, like purposeful. I always feel better when i'm engaged in work or conversation, but as soon as i'm not my rumination about depression begins, idk its like i'm scared of it, and my brain wont stop thinking about it. I;m not sure whats going on, I don't think i'm depressed, and my family and people work say im too happy to be depressed, my head and body ache a lot, i saw my doctor and we decided to do blood tests to see if anythings off, i have another appointment to go over the results next. I feel fine mostly, but my mind won't quit thinking about the word depression, and that bothers me. I also dream an awfully lot. I find it easy to smile, laugh, and focus when i'm engaged in activity. I even sing and hum a lot , but i still feel off and different since i've been here. thoughts?

    1 AnswerMental Health8 years ago
  • I'm just not sure what to do anymore?

    Hey everyone, i'll keep this quick. I'm 19 ill turn 20 soon, i'm currently out of college, took a year off to figure out what i want to do. I go to college in Missouri b/c that's where I always lived, my parents moved to Tennessee. At the end of this summer, I moved back to stay with them until next year, after about a week I started to feel "off" not peppy as usual, my first thought was, oh I'm depressed. After that first thought, I haven't been able to stop thinking that i may be depressed or have depression, it's been about 5 months now, and I feel fine mostly , but I still feel "off". For the first 4 months here I just sat at home all day, nothing to do in this big house. which gave me way too much thinking time, i think it made me feel worse, that and i don't really have friends here. I now have a fulltime job, and i feel better, like purposeful. I always feel better when i'm engaged in work or conversation, but as soon as i'm not my rumination about depression begins, idk its like i'm scared of it, and my brain wont stop thinking about it. I;m not sure whats going on, I don't think i'm depressed, and my family and people work say im too happy to be depressed, my head and body ache a lot, i saw my doctor and we decided to do blood tests to see if anythings off, i have another appointment to go over the results next. I feel fine mostly, but my mind won't quit thinking about the word depression, and that bothers me. I also dream an awfully lot. I find it easy to smile, laugh, and focus when i'm engaged in activity. I even sing and hum a lot , but i still feel off and different since i've been here. thoughts?

    2 AnswersMental Health8 years ago
  • I'm not sure what to believe, myself or the people around me?

    Hey everyone, i'll keep this quick. I'm 19 ill turn 20 soon, i'm currently out of college, took a year off to figure out what i want to do. I go to college in Missouri b/c that's where I always lived, my parents moved to Tennessee. At the end of this summer, I moved back to stay with them until next year, after about a week I started to feel "off" not peppy as usual, my first thought was, oh I'm depressed. After that first thought, I haven't been able to stop thinking that i may be depressed or have depression, it's been about 5 months now, and I feel fine mostly , but I still feel "off". For the first 4 months here i just sat at home all day, nothign to do in this big house. which gave me way too much thinking time, i think it made me feel worse, that and i don't really have friends here. I now have a fulltime job, and i feel better, like purposeful. I always feel better when i'm engaged in work or conversation, but as soon as i'm not my rumination about depression begins, idk its like im scared of it, and my brain wont stop thinking about it. I;m not sure whats going on, I don't think im depressed, and my family and people work say im too happy to be depressed, my head and body ache a lot, i saw my doctor and we decided to do blood tests to see if anythings off, i have another appointment to go over the results next. I feel fine mostly, but my mind won't quit thinking about the word depression, and that bothers me. I also dream an awfully lot. i find it easy to smile, laugh, and focus when i'm engaged in activity. I even sing and hum a lot , but i still feel off and different since i've been here. thoughts?

    2 AnswersMental Health8 years ago
  • Is it possible I have brain-washed myself?

    After I moved 4 months ago, I started feeling off, the first thought that came to my mind was, " I feel depressed" however my whole life i've always been very wary of depression, some people are scared of flowers, i'm scared of certain medical things, I don't know why. Anyways ever since the idea that I might be depressed crossed my mind, my brain literally won't let the idea ago, I think about depression for most of the day, i don't even feel bad or sad necessarily, But the fact that it crosses my mind most of the day irrtates me and makes me un-easy, I'm anoyed with it and it concerns me b/c I lnow it's not normal to think about something like that so much. Sometimes I wonder If it just all in my head, if I could just forget the word "depression" or the thought of it, I would be much happier and my life would be back to normal. Idk maybe I'm just crazy, i know it doesn't make sense. I did see my doctor recently he thinks it's because of the move, but want to do blood test to see if there is anything that might be changing my mood or the way i think. Thoughts? how do I forget something that my mind is obsessed with, or maybe I really am depressed? If I was it's definitely mild .

    3 AnswersPsychology9 years ago