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My fiance and I recently had a baby and have decided to move into a bigger place,but he does not want to sign the lease with me. When I asked him why he didn't want to, he says that he doesn't want to be tracked and I don't know what that means but he won't clarify. I asked him if he has anything he needs to tell me any secrets he says no just to trust him but I feel very uneasy about him not wanting to sign it what is your advice about this situation? fYI, he is not on my current lease where we live because it was my place before we met.

me and my fiance live together and we have a one year old recently my mother asked that she may possibly come and live with us for 30 days while they get her apartment ready my fiance says that he will move out during that time because the apartment is already crowded am I crazy or is that like really extremely what is your advice and what would you feel about your spouse if they do the same thing?

My Husband constantly cristisizes various things that I do mainly when it comes to our 11month old baby, For instance about the time that I allow her to go to sleep, moms out there know that a routine does not always work sometimes she will go to bed at bedtime but some nights she's up a little later he keeps saying that I'm keeping her up now here we are on Christmas morning and we were up last night because I was preparing dinner but she went to sleep an hour after her bedtime I didn't go to bed til 3 a.m. Because I was preparing dinner just a little bit of the demands as a mom. anyway my daughter and I woke up at 10:30 a.m. And she opened up all her gifts and then she had her breakfast / lunch at noon he's saying I shouldn't have let her sleep so late okay I understand but we are not in a perfect world the demands of being a parent is not predictable then when I comment on his criticism he gets mad and just says forget it do whatever you want to do I'm trying to understand what is that about am I overreacting it is really hurting my feelings I don't know what to do what is your advice?

Like most families we have issues, My family is opinionated, and fake, and talk behind each others back, and only do things for each other to brag about it, I clash with them because I am a loving down to earth person who has a low tolerance for BS I don't like drama so I try my absolute best not to be apart or create it. I recently started my own family and it seems like they don't understand that I have my own household and can't be apart of everything and also I am over the drama so I have just been keeping my distance.This is my last straw >> My mother had Cancer a year ago and my aunt volunteered to take her to chemo, since I had a full-time job and could not do it all the time so I appreciated it here a year later I am hearing that she is telling other family members that I should have been doing that and not her and that I am not a good daughter and should have quit my job to take my mother to Chemo (So I guess my car runs on air for gas and I guess I could have ate air too!) so this is an example of the craziness cause why didn't she tell me that it was an issue to transport my mom before I would have made a way then. So what is your advice . I have chose to give them space for now and have decided not to spend any holiday's for the rest of this year I need a break. Thank you for your Advice.

I had a baby 9months ago and I am engaged so I have my own household to run now and my own family to be around. Before meeting my fiance and having a baby. I was single so I was able to go to every function that my family invited me to and participate more now that I have my own family there is months that go by when I don't go my aunts house. When I do go over there they try to make me feel awkward by saying "oh hello stranger we though you lived in another country" or say oh is your fiance trying to keep you away. I don't get it I have my own family now why don't people understand that we go through transitions and things don't stay the same? why do they have to feel that it is some other reason besides me having my own life why I am not at their beck and call??? Does anyone else have issue with Family and friends feeling left out when you begin your own family??

I reunited with a High school friend on Facebook through messaging we begin to feel attracted to each other and we met up a few times to catch up. I had been celibate for 6 years and i opened up and told him and he totally respected it so we continued to spend time as friends who kissed and we even had an ongoing joke that I was his kissing girlfriend. I truly understood he wasn't ready for a relationship I just enjoyed his company and honestly was not ready for a relationship either. So, after a year of our friendship I really got tired of being celibate truthfully and decided I wanted to break my drought with him. I was perfectly clear that I was not looking for a relationship I just want to have sex with him because I trusted him and the sexual tension and attraction was there at first he was Leary because he didn't want me to think it was more and I assured him I was not looking for more than what we already had. Anyhow we ended up having sex and it was not all that great he seemed nervous but I never told him it was not good we still slayed there and talked and laughed the whole night but since that night we have not talked in over 6 months he stopped talking to me Anyone have any advice to what you think happened and why he stopped communicating with me even though I made it clear that I didn't want more???

I hit a parked car in a parking lot but I left a note knowing that I didn't have insurance. It was only a small bump and a scratch but after I agree to pay the person's car hit estimate came up to over 1300 dollars which I can't afford since this accident I now have insurance but of course it won't cover this accident so I'm asking since I cannot afford to pay her 1300 dollars which does not include a rental car if she goes through her insurance what will her insurance company do besides ask me to pay them back the claim how does that work?even though I have insurance now I am afraid that her insurance company will report me what will the DMV do if this were to occur as well?