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So a friend and I want to do a girl's trip to the Dominican Republic...5 nights most likely. We want to enjoy the beach and have an all inclusive resort and a nice beachfront hotel, yet be able to do small excursions. The most important thing is the beach and relaxation. (We are on a budget so we can't be too extravagant but we want nice accommodations, just not too high end.) What part is the best to visit??

Is there a FREE website where I can go to search if someone is married or divorced? I've tried a few that say they are free but they end up asking for money to see the results. Have any of you successfully tried any website that is free? If not, which are the best background websites?

So this guy that goes to my university started sending me messages on Myspace and then we started chatting on IM. We both saw pics of one another and used the webcam. We have talked for about 2 weeks and he asked me out on a date. We agreed on a movie that started at 8:15pm. We talked on IM today before 5pm and both agreed the date was still on. Before I left my house tonight, I sent him a text saying I'd call him when I got to the theatre. He didn't respond to the text. When i got to the theatre I called him and his phone was off. I waited a couple of minutes and called back and left a message telling him I was there and if I didn't hear back from him in 5 minutes I was going to leave. Never heard back....why would he ask me out if he didn't plan on showing up? I'm so confused! This has NEVER happened to me!

So this guy that goes to my university started sending me messages on Myspace and then we started chatting on IM. We both saw pics of one another and used the webcam. We have talked for about 2 weeks and he asked me out on a date. We agreed on a movie that started at 8:15pm. We talked on IM today before 5pm and both agreed the date was still on. Before I left my house tonight, I sent him a text saying I'd call him when I got to the theatre. He didn't respond to the text. When i got to the theatre I called him and his phone was off. I waited a couple of minutes and called back and left a message telling him I was there and if I didn't hear back from him in 5 minutes I was going to leave. Never heard back....why would he ask me out if he didn't plan on showing up? I'm so confused! This has NEVER happened to me!

...or they are psycho or a rapist??

So I was at a bar with a friend tonight and this guy kept making contact with me and smiling. He finally came over and asked if he could sit by us and we basically had great conversation for about 4 hours. He told me he thought I was beautiful and funny and was glad he met me tonight (and that he was very attracted to me). Toward the end of the night he said he had to leave and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the cheek and left...without asking for my number!!! Why do guys do this??? I'm confused....

We've never met but we spent hours online and talking on the phone. He calls me from Afghanistan and we get to chat online pretty often. I'm starting to fall for him and he says he loves me, but I'm not sure if this is real or not. Even when he comes back, he'll be in Chicago and I'm in Texas. He told me today he would be coming back on a 2 week leave and when I asked if I would get to see him, he said he wasn't sure. I understand he wants to see his parents and family and he also has a son. (He's been divorced for a few years). I need some advice!!!

I am a bridesmaid for a wedding at the end of May.