Shaolinshane

Long story short, a girl I really like has stopped talking to me out of nowhere after it seemed to be going so well. We cuddled, we kissed, laughed and had a few great times. Then, a week ago we had plans and she said she would be over to my place later on and couldn't wait, but she never showed and hasn't said a thing since. Texted her the next day to no reply, called her a few days later and she didn't answer. She regularly posts on social media so I I know nothing happened to her.

Anyways, I took the rejection way too hard and had the most miserable week this year. I have literally been doing everything I should be doing in order to move on- hanging out with friends, exercising, being outside a lot, studying and working, even talking to new girls. But a whole week has passed and I don't feel better at all. The only time I don't feel completely dreadful is when I'm asleep. I don't like any of the girls I've been talking to, in afraid I won't find another like my crush for a very long time and its going to be a lonely summer.

I know I should probably just let it go, and I'm trying. But I don't really want to just give up with her, I've been thinking about giving it one more shot, should I? I was thinking of messaging her on Facebook, just anything to get her attention and talk to me again. I know there's probably no use but I've seen friends in the same situation actually rekindle a connection.

If I do this, should I do it next week, or maybe the week after?

I met a girl last week and we had the most amazing first date. A few days later, she spent the night. We talked, watched movies, kissed and cuddled and she fell asleep in my arms holding my hand. We made plans to do it again in a few days, and she said she couldn't wait. We would text each other good morning and a little throughout each day. I absolutely just couldn't wait to see her again. But then she flaked, said she would come by the next day instead because she 'wanted to see me so bad'. The next day she said she was coming and then suddenly quit texting me and never showed. I texted her once on Sunday to no reply, and I called her yesterday and she hung up after 2 rings!! I see her posting stuff on Facebook and Instagram so I know she's ignoring me and it's absolutely KILLING me. I'm not going to contact her for a while after she didn't answer my call, I probably shouldn't talk to her again, but i so badly want to get my feelings off my chest.. I feel like it's the only way I can move on.

I met a girl several months ago, had a crush on her, but shortly after we met she got a boyfriend, a guy she's known for quite a few years. I confessed to her that I had a crush, just to get it off my chest and be done with it. Distanced myself from her to get over it which I soon did, and I kept her as a friend. We talked occasionally, but recently she been texting me every day. She mentioned she might be breaking up with her boyfriend soon. We talk via texting until 1 or 2 am usually every day. She always makes time for me despite having a boyfriend, and the last time I saw her, she dressed all cute before I came over as well ad out on a ton of perfume. Wouldn't she be more casual around just a friend?

Anyways, I don't want to ruin a friendship trying to be more than friends, but I still like her. We understand each other and she's a joy to spend time with. I feel like she doesn't want to be more than friends, but she never had given me a telltale sign of friend zoning me forever. For instance, she never said she likes me like a brother and she's never once told me anything about her boyfriend, other than saying he's kind of boring once.

What are some things I should look for to determine whether or not where she stands with me is final? I really don't want to make this awkward but it would be so awesome if we ever took it somewhere else.

I met a girl several months ago, had a crush on her, but shortly after we met she got a boyfriend, a guy she's known for quite a few years. I confessed to her that I had a crush, just to get it off my chest and be done with it. Distanced myself from her to get over it which I soon did, and I kept her as a friend. We talked occasionally, but recently she been texting me every day. She mentioned she might be breaking up with her boyfriend soon. We talk via texting until 1 or 2 am usually every day. She always makes time for me despite having a boyfriend, and the last time I saw her, she dressed all cute before I came over as well ad out on a ton of perfume. Wouldn't she be more casual around just a friend?

Anyways, I don't want to ruin a friendship trying to be more than friends, but I still like her. We understand each other and she's a joy to spend time with. I feel like she doesn't want to be more than friends, but she never had given me a telltale sign of friend zoning me forever. For instance, she never said she likes me like a brother and she's never once told me anything about her boyfriend, other than saying he's kind of boring once.

What are some things I should look for to determine whether or not where she stands with me is final? I really don't want to make this awkward but it would be so awesome if we ever took it somewhere else.

I never approach anyone. Sometimes I get lucky and a girl I like will make the first move, but I always get burned because only sluts like to approach and come on to the guy very strongly. Right now I'm down and out over a girl who really played with my feelings, and the only way for me to forget about her is to find someone else. But I can't sit around waiting for someone else to give me her number and then hurt me, so I have to make a big change and start doing the approaching.

Today this girl who I think works at the library gave me a big warm smile while I was on my way out. Do you think that's a good sign? If so, what could I do to escalate? I am not a smooth talker, I'm shy, I never know what to do unless a girl makes it super clear that she's into me.

I haven't gone 5 minutes without thinking of my crush for the last 2 months, and she doesn't give a flying duck about me. She was the one to approach me, she came off very strong at first, but I think she was just teasing me for God knows why. She keeps holding it over my head that she likes me, claims that she wants to be with me but wants to first get her **** together before anything. I know this is utter bull because the next day she sent a snapchat story of her all smiles with some guy! The jealousy makes me feel sick literally, the fact that I've been led on makes me feel worthless. I can't stop thinking about the way we were talking to begin with. A girl I had a huge crush on seemed to really like me. It was like, 'best Christmas ever and sure to be one happy New year! :D' but this was surely not the case. And now all I want is to stop wasting so much brain power on someone who doesn't even think about me.. what should I do? I can't even find the motivation to talk to other girls

A girl will start out by acting like I'm the bee's knees, just completely infatuated with me. She'll text me every day and when I ask her to do something she 'really wants to', but can't for whatever reason, but it's fine for now, she'll still be flirting with me saying how much she wants me and whatnot. Then the excuses start becoming more obvious and sometimes even downright bogus. Then before I know it, she doesn't hit me up at all anymore, she seems very annoyed and short with me when I try and talk to her. I can't say I never made any moves or anything. I try when she makes it seem like I don't even have to, yet every girl goes from red hot to ice cold on me with the snap of a finger. What could my problem be? It really hurts, and it always happens. Is any girl really even interested in me at all? Or am I just an ego boost? And is there any solid way of bringing up how I feel about this to her in person without making it a disaster?

About a month ago, this girl from work who I had a crush on gave me her number, and for a awhile she would make me smile all day long with the way she was talking to me. Now something happened to her which I won't say, but she's all screwed up and won't talk to me. She says she's stressed out and isn't herself right now. She seems more like she usually is when I see her in person at work, but she wont hardly talk to me over texting and doesn't want to hang out or do anything. I can tell she's very upset about her current situation but I keep wondering if she still likes me or not, and it's the worst feeling ever. I have so much stuff to do- school, work, and more, but I can't concentrate on anything else but her. Should I give her space? What else can I do to show that I care about her without smothering her?

This girl I've liked from work gave me her number about 2 weeks ago. During the first week after I hit her up she came off very strong, which I didn't mind at all because I have a huge crush on her. She would send me pics randomly to make my day, even a couple naughty ones. She would text me at like 7 in the morning saying stuff like she wishes she could just lay next to me and cuddle all day. Starting last week she just seemed to get cold all of a sudden. She texts less and gives short replies. She's still pretty much the same at work and I caught her staring several times just like before. She sent me another naughty pic just the other day, but today her replies were the worst. Feels like she doesn't want to talk at all. I can't stop thinking about her and its making me miserable. For a minute she was making me smile all day long and now I can't get her to say hardly anything.

What do I do? She can't have lost interest that quickly after all the things she said, or could she? I can't think of a reason why. I brought her coffee last time she was at work and she was thrilled. She sent me that pic just two days ago, but today just totally cold and unresponsive.

Just the other day, I asked if she was done with her homework because i didn't want to bother her and she said 'oh you couldn't even if you tried. Now it sure feels like I am though. She hasn't texted me like she normally does in a few days now, and I can barely think about anything since I'm getting that awful feeling of dread like she's done liking me. Last night I texted her saying I just added her on snapchat, a couple minutes later a notification that she added me back. She didn't say anything about it at all. I sent her a snap and she opened it but didn't reply.

Dont tell me I'm over reacting and that 'maybe she's busy'. Everyone in this day and age checks their phone a good 5 times an hour at the minimum and 9 times out of 10 it means the interest is fading when she slows down her texting, at least from my experience.

Please help though :(

She texted me yesterday morning, then asked what I was up to, then nothing after that all day. She made it clear how much she likes me, she always texts me in the morning but nothing again today. I'm getting nervous. Should I call her this afternoon?

This girl from work I like apparently likes me too, but I'm an anxious guy and it takes me some time to get used to people. Well she has been being extremely sexually aggressive in her texts and it's making me super nervous. I like it, but I'm still getting to know her and its driving me crazy. I can't even breathe good enough to say more than hi to her when I walk into work. I have to go hide and catch my breathe for a bit before I feel good enough to talk to her. If I just say something like 'i have to be honest but you make me nervous sometimes' would that be an ok thing to say or will it make me look weak? She really digs me though, would it matter?

Girl clearly likes me.. alot! So why do i get jealous so easily, to the point where I don't even want my my friends to see her? (sex on their brains 24-7, my belief that some of them are better looking than me). It's like all other males are intimidating now and it makes me nervous just thinking about what she might think of anyone else besides me. In my head she's probably wanting others but settles for me for some reason. But she's super into me, so I shouldn't be so worried right? Why am I so insecure?

The girl I like has been throwing herself at me when we text. I want to kiss her and do stuff so bad when she's not around, but when she's by me I can't relax at all. I shouldn't be so nervous since she likes me big time, but I get crazy nervous around her. How am I supposed to cuddle with her if my hearts beating too fast to relax or how will I turn her on when I'm feeling so shaky?

So the girl I like is definitely into me, but she has a bf. She hasn't explained why she's still with him yet but she said she's miserable. I'm hoping that she'll break up with him but it's looking more and more like she just wants to have sex with me. I've never had sex.. so there's that. The biggest problem is deciding whether to go with it or not. I mean if I don't she'll probably just find someone else. She's making me more and more nervous with all the implications that she wants to screw. I want a real relationship but if I decline I'll still be a 23 year old virgin. I have no idea what to do here.

So I know this girl likes me, she flirts with me, goes out of her way to talk to me, is just a bag of smiles whenever I'm around her. She gave me her number without me even asking for it. So when I hit her up, I was surprised that she didn't seem her friendly bubbly self. Her texts are short and emotionless and it's hard to really talk to her that way. She seems very unintereed in her texts but not in person. She still texts me first so I know she wants to talk. But why so cold when texting? Makes it hard for me to joke around.

What is your opinion on dating a single mom? The girl I like is one, and I'm afraid to tell that to any of my friends because I'll get hounded with discouraging judgments. I like her and it doesn't really bother me at all as long as she really likes me. Whats the big deal?

Im aware of the possible problems but it doesn't bother me unless problems arise. What if I just make it clear that any drama with her baby daddy will be a deal breaker for me? If he's not a problem, the kid's not a problem, I think it could be a fun experience.

What is your opinion on dating a single mom? The girl I like is one, and I'm afraid to tell that to any of my friends because I'll get hounded with discouraging judgments. I like her and it doesn't really bother me at all as long as she really likes me. Whats the big deal?

Yesterday this girl at work (she's not my co worker she just works in the same building) wrote down her number and gave it to her friend to give to me. She wrote 'text me sometime :)' and put down her Facebook and all her other stuff too.. I didn't hit her up yet since I knew I'd see her today. Saw her today but only for a little bit since she was sick. Didn't seem her usual self since she didn't feel good.

Think she likes me? When should I hit her up? I don't want to right away but i don't wanna take too long. I wanna get her a bit nervous wondering if I'm going to text her lol.

There's this girl working in the same building as me and this weekend it felt pretty good the way she was talking to me, all flirty and whatnot. Then today I was feeling really nervous from all the caffeine I had trying to wake up, and I had what felt to me like a pretty awkward moment around her. i said something kind of dumb. She still smiled at me and didn't seem weirded out. If I had a good vibe going before do you think one slip up would turn her off? Or am I just tripping? How can I keep my cool next time I see her when I'll be fixated on that one little moment?