james

Hey guys,

Long story short: Girl plays me (turns out to be an attention seeker). She was leaving the country anyways, so it would had never happened. I fell for her, I admit that. But through her friend, she admitted to her that she also fell for me and misses me. The only problem was her leaving to UK for a job...

Her friend tells me that I should mail her but should I really do it ?

Hey guys James here,

Last Saturday I went out with my class to this pub. I ended up getting pretty much drunk and the next thing I remember is kissing my class mate and was all over the place with her. My class mates saw me kissing her and things went intense between me and her. From what I remember, we were going to have sex but I somehow realized that this was all too wrong and left the place.

A few things I remember from that night. She told me that she liked me from

Day 1 (I don't share the same feeling but was willing to have sex with me such as friends with benefits - sounds crazy but I still remember her saying this to me).

Looks like every one from my class now knows about this and I don't know how to handle this situation. My friends tell me to just act like an adult (obviously it's easier said then done - but I will try my best). What else can I do to prevent all of this awkwardness ? And what should I say to my class if they ask about it ?

And should I take the friends with benefit offer ? :D

PS: we both are in college

Hey guys,

Started college and I have a pretty decent class. Nice people, friendly and all. But the problem here is that they don t talk to me, I am not one of their friends. Its very strange as I have done nothing wrong, but I am excluded from many things, it feels like they just don t like me. Let me give you an example.

I met this girl from my class at the bus stop, she looks at me and nothing. Looks ahead and walks away. This is the same person I have spoken to multiple times, joked around with etc. I mean she is my class fellow but its very strange. There are a few others that do the same thing.

What can I do about this ? At the moment I am just ignoring everyone. I am left wondering, what I have done wrong but to my knowledge I haven t even said a single darn thing to any of them...

Hey guys,

I bought a new laptop via eBay. Well i was saving up to 300 £ which is why I decided to buy it on eBay than the online store.

Well i payed to the seller on Friday. And he told me that he would send me the details for the shipping the same evening and ship it on Monday. I agreed to that and then he doesn't respond back to me for the entire weekend. Today i wrote him an e-mail to verify if he was going to send it today or not. He replied back saying he is and would send me the details today before 5 GMT. And he didn't....

A bit about the seller;

Has 1000+ positive feedback

Owns a shop in London

Well to sum it up he is legit or his positive feedback confirms it. So why on earth is he not sending me my item ! :-/ I don't want to spam him now but should i wait or should I write him a message now ? We are talking about 900 £ ... I didn't use PayPal gift so i can get my money back for sure if he tried to scam me.

8 GB memory

256 SSD

Use a laptop normally for work (word, excel, PowerPoint), save my work files and also watch movies or download them.

Hey guys

Planning on buying a laptop for my college start.

These are the specs;

6 generations Intel core i5 Quad core

Windows 10 Home

8 GB memory

256 GB Solid State disc

Touch Screen.

I normally use my laptop for work (word, excel, powerpoint) and save a lot of files though. Also use it to watch movies and youtube.

No i dont do any editing or want any personal Photo's or music on my laptop since I have my desktop for that.

This laptop is for work and off time movies. Let me know if these specs are good enough or should I rather go for the 16 GB memory and 500 SSD which is a bit expensive.

Thanks

Just craving it so much :p

Been day 2 and haven't consumed any dairy products :-/

Okay guys so I am on ciprofloxacin because of an ''Ear Infection''. Took my morning pill around 11:30 am and around 16:00 I ate a Shawarma with loads of chilli.

Later found out that I should avoid acid foods. Would this have any serious effect on the adsorption of the pill ?

Obviously I won't do it again. I just heard that you could eat whatever you want to but just need to avoid milk, dairy products and caffeine.

Been having a serious headache because I haven't consumed any Caffeine for the past 2 days now.

Been dealing with a lot of stress lately. And then there is this girl WHO I am trying to get over. Thinking about her drains all of my energy. I am not focused anymore and I have zero motivation.

I am on the verge of graduating this summer, have only 2 courses remaining. Up until now everything went perfect, I passed my exams with flying colors, finished off my internship but then I ran into this girl and actually fell for her. After realizing that I don t fit in her fancy World, I decided to move on. She is the kind of a girl WHO is so famous in college, extremely rich, popular and absolutely gorgeous. What was I thinking, we got to be friends but I just don t fit in, I don t have that kind of Money like she does.

Anyways, I have made up my mind and I want to graduate, but I can t even get started with anything. All I do is stare at my books and then Watch movies all day long. Have spent all my savings on junk food, buying clothes, just to get my mind off her. I really need to focus on my future now but I need a bit of motivation to get back on track. Any advice ?

I still don't know how to absorb all of this...

I applied for an internship at the local hospital last summer and luckily I got it. The project assigned to me was somewhat challanged. We had to discover or locate a protein that is never seen in a normal blood sample. This meant we had to do loads of testing and experiments.

Anyways, from August till today, we did all the experiments required to locate that protein but we never got any results and the person WHO hired me also knew about it.

Today I was called for a meeting at the Hospital and they basically told me that they don't have any more budget in order to carry out this project since no result is coming out. The experiments were expensive. Just one kit we used costs around 600 $. So I understood what she was trying to say, it was expensive and they weren't getting any results.

So basically she asked me to stop working, since they had no budget now. I already got my internship letter but what I really wanted was to see through my contract.

She also asked me to contact her again after summer if she has any more jobs available in the Hospital. I am a Bachelor student and have to start my Masters program after summer. She also told me that she could help me with her contacts to get me into the field I am planning to study in.

I mean it ended positive though I don't know was I actually fired and will this affect my CV ?

Hey Guys,

I was searching for an internship last summer and I actually had the luck to find one in the local hospital. When I went for the meeting, I was told that no hospital has a budget to pay students if they are to work here as an intern. So I agreed to a non paid internship and decided to Work there anyways to gain experience and this would had boosted my CV.

Anyways, a year later now, and when I ask the same person WHO hired me to write me a letter of recommendation. She first of all writes my name wrong, and then the most important thing says I am a ''volunteer''.

Its true that I am not getting paid but this will do nothing for me when seeking a job in the future.

I already replied back to her and said if she could change this and write instead unpaid intern and if she could rewrite my name again.

But why would she call me a volunteer. In my eyes a volunteer is someone WHO doesn't get paid and just works for the good will. It doesn't matter if he or she is going to do a major's in Art or not, they just do it for the good cause.

An intern, (paid or not) do it for the experience, to get more experience in the field they are headed out towards. And this is my field, I am getting useful hands on experience in this field and this could potentially be useful in the future when applying for a job in the same hospital.

So me writing back to her was a good thing or bad ?

We also agreed to this when I was hired, that I am going to work as an unpaid intern.

So I have been working at the local hospital as an intern or volunteer. I don't even know what I am now actually.

I was hired as an intern (unpaid) and close to a year now, when I ask my boss to write me a letter of recommendation, she ends up writing volunteer and also writes my name wrong.

How can I tell her in a polite way that this needs to be changed and this was not we agreed upon.

I really wanted to apply for the MSc in Immunology but my goal is to become a Immunologist and proceed to clinical practise. How does one do that ?

What I do understand is that first I need to finish my MSc in Immunology and then apply for a PhD, do i then apply for becoming a M.D in Imunnology or how does this all go ?

People tell me that I am very lively and extremely happy all the time. But what they don t understand is that I am just pretending or forcing myself to act that way.

I suffer from depression. How do I know this ? Well for starters, I have no real friends, lived either with my mom or my dad most of my life. It s been hard and from an early age, I missed having a complete Family. I remember after school watching other children getting picked up by their parents and I always wanted that for myself. It s hard for me not to ignore such things anymore, I am basically depressed the entire time, about my social life, my love life. I literally don t have any friends, because I make it so hard for myself, I isolate myself and never go out.

I always thought, maybe a someone special could turn things around for me but whom ever I tried dating or liked, just made a fool out of me. Recently, I fell for this girl, someone that has so many things in common with me but the only reason why she didn t date me was because of her standards. She is extremely rich, owns a Lamborghini aventador (Yup thats right), but I wasn t after that, I finally met someone that I could connect with...

I am 27 now, I never had the perfect Family, my parents are busy with their life, have no one to talk to, and considering going for a therapy, because I can t take this anymore, I feel sad all the time, I don t even know what I want from life, I just want to be happy for once...

My dad once told me that having an education earns one respect in the eyes of others.

Lets put it this way I am soon done with my Medicine (phd) studies but something has been bothering me for the past few months now. Why is the pay so lousy ?

I have a friend WHO is a painter, he recently sold one of his painting in Qatar for like 1 Million U.A.E and the next day went and bought a Ferrari. I am not jealous of him nor his car, actually I am really happy for him but what I don't understand is why does such professions such as his pay that high. Why isn't it the same for doctors, surgeons ?

Well talking about surgeons, my uncle is a neurosurgeon and he makes 100K tops a year, which is okay so to say but not that mindblowing either.

I am going to graduate this summer and already have secured an internship at a Hospital. The problem is my other part time job at this restaurant that my uncle owns. I never get payed on time, it always has to be 20 days after. And If i don't ask for my pay, he doesn't even bother to give me the pay. If I don't ask, he won't pay me like ever!

He makes me come extra days, makes me stay longer, he fired the dish washer and makes me do the dishes, however, I only get paid for being a bartender. Then on my free days he makes me come to work. There are no if's or I can't, I just HAVE TO COME ON MY FREE DAYS, he persuades me for his own cause. My cousin (His son) gets free days and yet I have to come to work on his free days, even though I am the one WHO has to study for my exams while he has to go to a dinner. So recently I have been making excuses to go to work, I lie about being sick or something that can't make me go to work. So both my uncle and his son threaten me that they will find someone else If I don't want to work there anymore. I said yes a 1000 times, I don't care, I can't ruin my studies over this. Even when I am at work, his dad is so sarcastic towards me, he kinds of insults my Family, insults my Brother (makes fun of his hair, the way he dresses up). Such an awful place to work. I really don't want to lie about Things, but when they force me to come to work, I can't concentrate on anything... Is lying to things such as this bad after all ?

So I have a crush on this girl and she is out of my league. I mean literally out of my league and here's why: Besides from being absolutely gorgeous, she is popular, extremely popular, she has 50,000 plus followers on her Instagram and it's all because of her beauty. I met her in London and she seems to be extremely nice and down to earth but on the other hand she is so rich that I can't even compete with her. She drives a Lamborghini Aventador (Yup you heard me right) and not only that, she also has the new Audi Q7, travels first class everywhere. Likes to shop and only exclusive things, wears a diamond watch. I am not attracted to her money, it's just that I am so strongly attracted towards her. Her personality is rock solid and we share so many things in common, it's unbelievable despite the wealth difference. I just feel like she would go after someone that is on her level.

She is NOT somebody famous, she is just a regular girl. People just saw her on instagram and decided to follow her because she is that gorgeous and 50 K people can't be wrong. She got all the things from her parents and they appear to be very wealthy.

To be honest, I really don't stand a chance. I heard somewhere that no one is out of your league and everyone has a shot at anyone but I guess those terms don't apply here. I mean come on, how on earth can a guy like me end up with a girl like her. What's the best thing to do ? Forget her or go for her but how ?

So I have a crush on this girl and she is out of my league. I mean literally out of my league and here's why: Besides from being absolutely gorgeous, she is popular, extremely popular, she has 50,000 plus followers on her Instagram and it's all because of her beauty. I met her in London and she seems to be extremely nice and down to earth but on the other hand she is so rich that I can't even compete with her. She drives a Lamborghini Aventador (Yup you heard me right) and not only that, she also has the new Audi Q7, travels first class everywhere. Likes to shop and only exclusive things, wears a diamond watch. I am not attracted to her money, it's just that I am so strongly attracted towards her. Her personality is rock solid and we share so many things in common, it's unbelievable despite the wealth difference. I just feel like she would go after someone that is on her level.

She is NOT somebody famous, she is just a regular girl. People just saw her on instagram and decided to follow her because she is that gorgeous and 50 K people can't be wrong. She got all the things from her parents and they appear to be very wealthy.

To be honest, I really don't stand a chance. I heard somewhere that no one is out of your league and everyone has a shot at anyone but I guess those terms don't apply here. I mean come on, how on earth can a guy like me end up with a girl like her. What's the best thing to do ? Forget her or go for her but how ?

Hey guys,

I have spent almost half of my life with a negative balance in my bank account. I know it sucks, and I often keep on paying extra rents just to get out of this negative amount. And after a year I did it. But something that really bothers me is that why didn't my parents help me ? The reason why I am saying this is because I asked them to help me out and instead of paying the bank rents I could has simply payed them the money back.

My parents have about 200 plus acres of land in Pakistan, they have money and I mean a lot. If they well a single acre, they can either buy 10 BMW 7 series (2016 models) or a Ferrari. I have spent my entire life even as a kid without having any real money in my pockets. My parents tell me that all of these things are mine and my brothers once we get married and start planning our lives but they what they don't realize is that life is short, what if I die tomorrow what then.

I don't need there money anyways, and I also remember as a kid that my parents wanted me and my brother to learn it the hard way. There are literally other children in the world that have nothing and when we went to school we were equal just like the others. I learnt these things the hard way and I appreciate that.

I want to be self dependent and don't have any big dreams either. That's it but how can I make them understand to cut that crap of 'it's all yours when you grow older' since the past 8 years. I am 26 already how much old do they want me to get?

Hey Guys James here,

About a few months ago i met someone in London, absolutely gorgeous, we just had a small casual conversation and I could see that I could get a long with her quite well. Well here is the sad part, she was moving to Dubai, as she got hired at this big firm. The odds of me seeing her Again in my life is like 0, I like to be honest with my self, I won't see her again in my life and this makes me sad, and since I already have depression and anxiety, this makes it all worse.

I can't stop thinking about her, because for once I met someone I really could get along with and there definitely was potential. So please help me out with this