Chrystal S

I went to the doctor on Friday for a check-up because I'm almost due with my 2nd child and they could feel her head when they examined me. But they said they had to go AROUND her head to feel my cervix and then told me I wasnt dilated yet. I guess I dont really understand how it works then cuz I thought your cervix has to be dilated for the baby to come through even. So can anyone explain this to me? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!!!

I am in Colorado and my boyfriend is in California. I came back home a couple months after I found out I wuz pregnant because I thought it would be better to get insurance here and the support I needed. My boyfriend couldnt come with me because he's on parole and cant leave the state. Ive been visiting him as much as possible but now I'm due anytime so cant travel. Well just a few days ago he admitted to me that he cheated about a month ago and now has another girl pregnant. I dont want to leave him but what should I do about this? Should I meet tha girl or what? Cuz no matter what its his kid and I love him and everyone makes mistakes. And I know a lot of you will think how stupid I am but Love is blind and dumb sometimes. SO WHAT ARE YOUR OPINIONS????