partygurlone

So, about 2 years ago I was friends with this girl. I had lived in another state and met her there. When I moved back home, she came to visit. She had met this guy we will call C through a friend. Through her I met C. Well, she liked him, but she had a fiance. Long story short, him and I hit it off and ended up dating and getting into a relationship.

When she found out, she went through the roof. She didnt even give me a chance to explain anything. Instead, she took the word of someone she hardly knew, as fact, and started attacking me. She got all her friends, who I thought I was friends with, to attack me too. In the end, I cut her and everyone out of my life completely, with only C to rely on. It was a very difficult time.

2 years have passed and C and I are engaged. She found out about the engagement and sent me a congrats. I said thank you and figured that would be the end of it. Now, she is contacting me again, trying to "restart" the friendship. I told her that I am still hurt by all the past and had buried it all along time ago, and that I dont want anything to do with her, but now she is being persistent.

What would you do? Would you forgive? Or would you continue to ignore?

My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. He has been out of work the past 4 months. I have been supporting us as much as I can on my salary, but we are barely scraping by. He is looking for work, but its hard.

Lately, he has been taking a lot of anger out on me (not physically, just gets mad at everything, even the most minuscule of things). He is looking at porn and even called someone off of craigslist. He denied it when I confronted him but then, finally admitted it. Now, I dont know what to believe anymore. I know that he is stressed, but he has been pushing away from me more and more. Now, I fear that he is cheating on me which not only upsets me, but puts me at risk. I really dont know what to do anymore. I love him with all my heart. His friends and my family, and everyone outside of the situation tells me that I mean everything to him but I dont know if I can trust him or not. I just need some advice.

I was friends with this girl before I got with my current boyfriend. (She is engaged to another man.) She met my current bf before I did, she introduced us, but said she wanted him eventho she has a man and he had no interest in her. Well, she lives in another state and she ended up goin back home. I started hangin out with him, just as friends cuz I wasnt interested, and she flipped. She said a lot of hurtful and untrue things to me and him. She tried to sabatoge our relationship before it even started. I havent talked to her since then and me and him now live together and things are wonderful.

Now, she is emailing me tellin me that she has to have surgery and all this crap like I should care. She turned her back on me and tried to ruin me with not only my bf but mutual friends we had. I want to email her back and tell her to go on with her life as I have mine, but I feel that emailing her back will only open up the lines of communication in her eyes and I dont want that. Please hel

I have been friends with this girl for over a year now. Every time she likes a guy (even if I am friends with them to begin with) she gets VERY defensive about them. She gets mad and attacks me if I try to hang out with them, and says horrible stuff about me. After about a day or two of actin like this, she will revert back to her normal self, as long as the guy isnt brought up. First off, it scares the hell out of the guy and he usually ends up leaving her (which I understand.) The main issue is, this has just happened again. She went off on how Im such a bad friend cuz I was gonna hang out with this guy who is a friend of mine. (We met him at the same time.) She doesnt even live in this state. He wants to hang out with me, as friends, and says that she has no say in the matter cuz they arent together or anything, she just likes him. She said some horrific things to me and about me yesterday now wants to be friends again. I dont kno what to do with her.

I am "friends" with this girl. She is my age and the only friend I have here, since I just moved. The problem is she is dating my dad now. I have a huge problem with this, and they both know it. I am staying with my dad till I get on my feet here, but am moving out sooner than planned cuz of all the drama. Anyways, every time we talk, she tells me how wrong it is and how much she would hate me if the tables were turned. How am I supposed to stay friends with her? I feel beyond betrayed by her and what she has done, plus the total lack of my feelings in the process. She is gone right now, traveling, and we didnt really talk before she left. But, when she gets back, I just dont know how I am supposed to deal with her.

My parents recently got divorced and now live on two different ends of the state. They were married almost 30 years. Now, my dad is dating someone my age, who is half his age. This is someone who was a friend of mine, and now I am not sure how to feel about the situation with her. Is it wrong for me to be upset about this? (I am mad at both of them.)