Stef Smith

when released on home detention curfew does a prisoner have to be released to a family member and if so can it be any family member who is willing to accept them who has a landline and electricity?

im never hungry any more, and i just feel sick every-time i put food in my mouth i have kind of a gagging reaction and want to be sick and spit it out. i keep trying to eat for the sake of my partner who i know would be worried if he found out that i wasn't eating but i just can't. when i do eat i get a pain in my left side in the lower ribs and it feels like my rib won't sit right and somebody has a band round my chest and is pulling it tighter so i can't breath properly. for the last two days i also feel really dizzy and have a headache constantly. what's wrong with me?

im never hungry any more, and i just feel sick every-time i put food in my mouth i have kind of a gagging reaction and want to be sick and spit it out. i keep trying to eat for the sake of my partner who i know would be worried if he found out that i wasn't eating but i just can't. when i do eat i get a pain in my left side in the lower ribs and it feels like my rib won't sit right and somebody has a band round my chest and is pulling it tighter so i can't breath properly. for the last two days i also feel really dizzy and have a headache constantly. what's wrong with me?

i had really bad pains in my lower abdominal almost like period pain but much much worse. i have never been pregnant but it was almost like contractions, it would come and get worse and worse and then slowley fade, pain would still be there but not as much then it would go again and it was like somebody was squeezing my mussles together, i kept wanting to push, so i kept going to the toilet. their was loads of blood, then after about a couple of hours of it getting worse and worse i had really bad pain and pushed hard and this thing came out, like beans but red with loads and loads of blood, a few of them like hard oval red, bloddy dots. lately i haven't been able to eat much before feeling really sick, like i could almost feel my stomach digesting my food, but i have been eating more than usual. i would think i was pregnant but that is impossible. please help i don't know what to do. now the thing has come out the pain is dying down.

bascially my bf n i r long distance and he wants me to say if i could see him what i would want to do to him and make it really detailed .. help!!

okay so i self harm and recently my leg has started realling hurting when i walk for long periods. it will hurt a little to start and get gradually worse, if i have been walking a lot it gets a lot worse, really painful and its a shooting pain down my leg like somebody is stabbing me in the hip. so i have self harmed a while ago on the hip but nothing to major. i have self harmed more recently on the inside of my leg by my ankle. but the pain didn't start just after i had self harmed or anything, it started after i had been walking around all day, after that it hurt slightly for a long time and would get worse again when i had walked extensively. does anybody know what's happened, any treatments, what i could have done? i have always walked a lot.

i blocked somebody on Skype and first of all i noticed that in the messages section it has stef has blocked ****. does this mean they can tell i have blocked them or am i the only one who can see this message. second of all i have got a notification in my recent with a little one on it off somebody i blocked, when i clicked on their account their is nothing, does this mean they have tried to contact me or ring me or message me but can't because i have blocked them. help?

quite often im upset for no reason. i drink coke a lot and when i say a lot i mean about six or seven cans at a weekend and three cans a day during the week (when im at school) or seven or eight cans when i am on holidays. if i don't drink coke for a couple of days i start to crave it and its all i can think about, and if i still don't drink it i start to feel sick. sometimes i am really upset like crying and angry for no reason (usually at night) could this be that i have been on a high all day from the coke and then go on a slow at night, could it also be that i have been doing stuff all day so when i don't do anything effetivly when im bored i become upset (for some reason which i don't understand but somebody with experience might) or is it just that my mind has been distracted from what has been bothering me all day so when i get a change to think i am upset.

and im sorry if i got the catgory wrong i really didn't know which one it fitted into.

okay so some things have happened in the past but nothing extremely bad has happened recently, yet i am as unhappy as ever. i know that i am still slightly hurt from being cheated on, and i know that i have low self esteem sometimes and i know that i want to control everything or else i get scared. but what i can't understand is why i cry myself to sleep each night for no particualr reason, why am i always so upset, i just want the pain to stop which is so hard when i don't even know why i am so upset. does anyone know waht i can do if their is anyone i can go to who can help me realise why im so upset or anything just please suggest anything to help ...

so there is me and this guy. we are kinda friends with benefits. we haven't gone all the way but have done stuff. we text all the time and both have feelings for each other but i don't want a boyfriend right now so we aren't going out. i am going on holiday next month and where i am going i already know this guy who lives there (because i have been before) and he likes me, but i don't like him, but he agreeded that he would like to do stuff even if it has no strings attached, but i said only kissing. what i want to know is if i kiss and make out with the guy on holiday will that effect my relationship with the guy i am friends with benefits with, if he was to find out, i wouldn't hide it but i wouldn't tell him either. when we started i made it clear that i could kiss other guys n do whatever i wanted n so could he with other girls. the guy i am friends with benefits with i really care about where as the holiday guy is just a bit of fun... and if i do that even know he knows the rules and he knows i am just looking for holiday fun and that's it am i leading him on .... but if i don't kiss him i may lose him as a friend, even know i kinda do want to but it would be for two weeks only while i am on holiday. no feelings. help .. i don't' know if i should or not cuz i don't want to ruin it with the guy i really care about.

i cut myself with a blade that i had taken out a pencil sharpner, not for the first time, first time it has been this deep. dug the coner in to my skin

- 3cm long

-about 1 - 1 and a half mm deep

- red around the outside

- you can see my skin go in

- tinted yellow n crusty on the inside

- bleed for half a day

- only stopped bleeding when i applied hard pressure for ten minutes, so hard that my leg when kinda pins n needly numb and tingly.

- can't pull the two edges together, they are like hard, like i have something in my skin and the yellowish crusty bit keeps it open.

- the bleeding lasted for half a day - was worse when i moved - when i was moving i went through 6, 10cm plastas in ten minutes, the blood socked out the otehr end of the plastas. in the end i gave up and put tissue on it.

-when i did the cut it when white, like when you run your nail across that plastic and it indents it and turns white.

- about half a cetermetre wide.

i don't need a lecutre.

does it need medical attention ??

i don't need a lecture i just need help. i was in a bad mood and i cut myself (not for the first time) with a blade out a pencil sharpner, the blade had been removed from the sharpner n i just held it n cut. i am worried about my cut though. i didn't think it looked deep enough to need stiches but i just want to make sure. it has kinda yellowey crusty inside with ocastional blood stains. aroudn the otuside is pink andm you can see where my skin enters inwards. it look about 1 - 1 1/2 mm deep. as is aid inside is tinted yellow n crusty. it blead a lot. it blead all day n when i moved it got worse. whne i was moving i went through 6 massive palstares about 10cm long each (blood would leak out the end before i changed them) in about 10 - 15 min. i held pressure on it for about 10 min before the bleeding stopped but this was after it had been bleeding for about half a day. my leg felt a little tingly espically after i held pressure on n kinda pins n needly. i can't close the cut together, the two ends are stuck open by the crusty bit in the middle. hte cuts nearly 3cm across. and its on my hip bone. i have cut myself before but never htis deep does it need any medical attention.

okay so me and this guy have been out a couple of times, each of these times its lasted not every long, a couple of hours, a day, so we have broke up and remained friends. this time we went out and we were really close before we went out. then he asked me out and i said yes. after this again as usual we broke up but this time he is ignoring me. he ignored me so i asked him why he was ignoring me and he ignored he completely ignoring me and how do i make it better.

okay so me and this guy have been out a couple of times, each of these times its lasted not every long, a couple of hours, a day, so we have broke up and remained friends. this time we went out and we were really close before we went out. then he asked me out and i said yes. after this again as usual we broke up but this time he is ignoring me. he ignored me so i asked him why he was ignoring me and he ignored he completely ignoring me and how do i make it better.

so i know when a girl has long hair a guy finds it sexy, i have long hair and i soemtimes wear it down and sometimes wear it up. what i want to know is when i wear it up does it have the same effect because you can see its long. any other types for being sexy ??

i want to cut my hair differently, i like my long layered hair, but maybe something diffident with my fringe. i also want new ways to style my hair to make it look sexy but sophisticated. i also need ways of doing my make up. i have quite a long face, blue eyes. anybody got any ideas ??

i want to cut my hair differently, i like my long layered hair, but maybe something diffident with my fringe. i also want new ways to style my hair to make it look sexy but sophisticated. i also need ways of doing my make up. i have quite a long face, blue eyes. anybody got any ideas ??

i am 15 going on 16, he was 18 just turned 19. i live in the uk. is dating illegal. if it is not and only "sexual relations" are illegal what is classified as "sexual relations", we are not planning on actually having sex or anything like that, i just want to know if we continue to go out how far we can go without it being illegal, or weather it is already illegal because we are already dating.

so there is this guy which i have known for a while but i have just started talking to again, it started off with one kiss but soon started to be like 10 kissess after each txt. then it started to be hearts as well. we had a kiss n heart war were we were putting like 500 kissess and lines after lines of hearts. then he says like three times i love you. we are not going out. what does this mean. now we put half a line - a line of kissess after each text and about five hearts. if i put a few less kisses he will always put more, but then today he said he was working and i can tell he is lying because he is liking everything on fb. he said he is working till sevon so he can't talk to me then. ... i am soo confused. does he like me as a friend, does he want to be more than friends, am i just someone to talk to while he is board.

so there is this guy which i have known for a while but i have just started talking to again, it started off with one kiss but soon started to be like 10 kissess after each txt. then it started to be hearts as well. we had a kiss n heart war were we were putting like 500 kissess and lines after lines of hearts. then he says like three times i love you. we are not going out. what does this mean. now we put half a line - a line of kissess after each text and about five hearts. now does this mean he likes me ???