kimberly

A mutual friend of this guy introduced us through text as he has been deployed overseas. We started messaging each other 7 months ago and 4 months ago I got to meet him and spend 2 weeks with him. Over the last 7 months we have become best friends and we often tell each other how much we miss each other. He said that he wanted to ask me to be his girl while he was here on leave but he decided against it as he wont officially be back here until July of 2017. We have been fortunate to be able to text every single day and I can't imagine my life without him. I know he is interested in me and I told him the other day that I miss him more than words can say. His reply was that he misses me even more. I'm scared that bringing the love word into it will scare him since he is gone. It's eating me away not to tell him, I want him to know so bad but I don't know if I should wait longer to cross that line. What should I do? He is coming back for a 30 day leave in June and I don't want things to be awkward.

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So I have been dating my narcissistic boyfriend for 2 years. He met me when I was 6 months pregnant and he has been my sons dad every step of the way. He fed him, changed his diapers, clothed him, he did everything a dad would do. Now obviously he has control issues and he like everything done his way. Usually when he gets mad at me he won't talk to me for a few days to a week and then tell me I need to listen to him or I'm ganna loose him. He finally broke up with me a week ago and said everything is my fault because I couldn't listen to him. 1 month ago he told his whole family that he wanted to marry and have a kid together. Why would he tell his family that and then leave me? Do you think he will try to come back? I want to know what I should expect. His whole family is mad he left me and so now he won't talk to any of them and has cut them off but he stayed friends with me on Facebook? Why? Is he just trying to see how I'm hurting? He isn't a complete narcissist and we had a lot of good moments. Please tell me if you think he will return.

So I have been dating my narcissistic boyfriend for 2 years. He met me when I was 6 months pregnant and he has been my sons dad every step of the way. He fed him, changed his diapers, clothed him, he did everything a dad would do. Now obviously he has control issues and he like everything done his way. Usually when he gets mad at me he won't talk to me for a few days to a week and then tell me I need to listen to him or I'm ganna loose him. He finally broke up with me a week ago and said everything is my fault because I couldn't listen to him. 1 month ago he told his whole family that he wanted to marry and have a kid together. Why would he tell his family that and then leave me? Do you think he will try to come back? I want to know what I should expect. His whole family is mad he left me and so now he won't talk to any of them and has cut them off but he stayed friends with me on Facebook? Why? Is he just trying to see how I'm hurting? He isn't a complete narcissist and we had a lot of good moments. Please tell me if you think he will return.

So 3 weeks ago my man told his fam he wants to marry me because I make him so happy and that he wants a future with me and to have a baby with me. Well he just completely quit talking to me for a week and then broke up with me in a text saying we just weren't meant to be and that he is mad that I never do what he wants. I found that he reconnected with an old friend that he used to be infatuated with and now he has alienated his family and friends and will only talk to her. I'm so confused because he met me when I was pregnant and he has been my sons dad every step of the way. He changed his diapers, fed him, clothed him and told everyone he was his son. How could he just leave us like this? Is he just scared to commit? Do you think he will come back? I'm so confused and hurt. I want him to come back I want to give him another chance but he won't talk to me right now and things don't make since why he would do this to our son when he obviously loved him and me.

Ok so my boyfriend has a suspended license and needs to get a hardship license. But in order to get a hardship license you need car insurance. The car insurance companies won t give him insurance because he doesn t have a license so it s a viscous cycle and he doesn t know what to do? Do you know any insurance companies that would insure him.

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, I love him but I see some problems and I want to know what others think or is the problem all in my head. So he expects me to be part of him to be in the same mindset and he tells me when I do something stupid, granted I want to know when I screw up but he gets so mad me for little things and then tells me this is how things needs to be and if you don't like it there is the door. I'll cry say I'm sorry and try to make him happy and then he'll say maybe he was to harsh and try to comfort me but nicely let me know things need to be how he wants them. I think he is just kind of selfish. Even I have to communicate he doesn't really do the same back he acts like I should be smart enough to read his mind. We just had a huge fight and he wouldn't talk to me for a week then he went off on me and told me he wouldn't kiss me until I earned his trust back and then an hour later he tells me he was just mad and he loves me and what his expectations are. I feel like he emotionally breaks me and then tries to make up for it cause he knows I'll give in. Maybe he isn't really like that? Maybe he was just mad and then felt bad? I don't want to make excuses for him or be stupid if he is trying to emotionally control me but I don't know? I have my son and if he is emotionally abusive I don't want my son around that. He has never been physical abusive at all.

So my boyfriend of 2 years was planning to propose before Christmas but then lost his job. I know he was cause he told my best friend. Losing his job changed everything and then he changed his mind to cause he said he scared to get married again. Now I told him 4 days ago that I might be pregnant and he flipped out asking me why didn't I say anything so I could have got plan b or something. I honestly didn't think of it till days later and feel like an idiot. He told me yes he wants kids but not right now with our situation. I agree but then he just left and now it's been 4 days and he won't talk to me or text me or anything. His best friend said he told him he needs to man up and deal with it. I don't even know if I'm pregnant though so why won't he talk to me? And he is the kind of guy that complains about men not stepping up to be there for the kid. Is he just in shock? I can't go through this alone and I'm so stressed out now. Do you think he will come back?

Ok so my boyfriend and I have disagreements about what is ok with how you treat and raise your children and of course everyone has their own opinion when it comes to that. But now he feels like I am attacking him and says I need to chill out. He does have 2 other kids and this is my first one so I kinda understand what he means and yet I don't. My son is 10 months old and my boyfriend thinks it's ok to give him a sip of soda here and there I don't think he should have any when I see parents do that to a baby I want to walk up and punch them in the face i mean it's a baby seriously? I do think that I am to paranoid to a certain extent with some things I was told I couldn't have kids and so my son is a miracle and I am so scared of losing him or that something bad will happen to him. My boyfriend is also a really big guy he is 6'3 and mostly muscle and he picks our son upside down or by one leg he bounces him a lot it just scares me. I'm picky about him eating foods and boyfriend doesn't care what he gives him. I do think I am freaking out to much and I know I need to chill out a little but I don't know how to word things so that he doesn't feel I am attacking him. My son is a little baby not a 4 or 5 year old and I feel he kinda treats him that way. I really am open to advice cause I don't want to damage my relationship with making him feel like I'm a nag that he doesn't want around

so every time my boyfriend and I are intimate together he asks me what do you want me to do to you and I go blank my mind just like shuts down and I can't think I want to be able to please him and show him that I want him but I never know what to say. How can I get myself to not shut down in moments like that or what can I say?

So me and my man have been together for a year now and he tells me he loves me more than I love him and he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I was pregnant when we started dating and he loves my child as if it is his own and he says he loves him as if he is his own he has been so good to us. Both of us have been married before and I know it was hard on him and I feel like he is distant and doesn't spend enough time with us anymore but if he wants us so bad and loves us more than why doesn't he want to get married? Am I wasting my time? Should I wait around? I am scared of why buy the cow when you can milk it for free or play house if you will. And I don't want my son to learn that marriage is a bad thing I just want the best for both of us. I truly love my bf with all that I have but I'm am worried and scared because he is really scared to commit so I don't see how he really loves me with everything he has the way he says he does