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to start this question off, im 5'7 240 (Big i know)and in my mid 20's I am by no meansa loser, Ive NEVER been picked on at any level in my life, its always been very easy for me to make friends. Ive been told im very outgoing, funny, easy to talk to and great friend.

but I cant find a girlfriend? I dont knownt know whats wrong with me, its easy for me to to become friends with girls, but it never goes further then that? How do I stay out of the friend Zone? do I get put there in the girls mind right off the bat cuz im fat?

and then when im at Bars, clubs, and get togethers I never go up to girl I dont know to talk to them cuz I figure they wouldnt want to be with a guy like me anyways. How do I conquare this fear?

I can remember countless times in my life where Ive wanted to ask a girl out on a date and I talk myself out it, and Im sick of it!

Ive NEVER asked these questions, cuz 1. my boys would call me a loser and make fun of me, and 2. I just dont know how to start this convo with anyone face to face.

Please Please help me, Im starting to feel helpless and alone,