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Does she not want him to think she is unavailable?  Or is she trying to not hurt his feelings is she thinks he likes her?

Why would a girl I get on really well with and share an office space at work with not tell me that she has dates with guys, yet tell other people she works with?

I think we are pretty close and she messages me everyday outside of work. Any ideas?

A girl I am kind of friends with and texted lots this year has gone on a date with a guy (which is fine). The thing is she told a group of our mutual friends that she was going on the date but not me. Why is that?

We never directly flirted but I think there was something there. I did not act on it because I was concerned about the age gap between us and also feeling like I could not give her everything she needed in life. I'm just wondering if she didn't tell me about the date incase I do eventually ask her out. Or am I being really naive and is there another reason?

Thanks 

If you tell a polite girl who you know a little bit that she looks pretty and she blushes, is she attracted to you?

I'm 35, she's 21.

She's worked in my office for a few years. She's really outgoing and dunny but is super old-fashioned, doesn't drink or smoke or even swear and goes to church.

We've always got on well and have lots of laughs, but lately she has been coming to hang out at work social events, including get-togethers as part of a group at my place.

She texts me everyday or tags me in instagram memes. Sometimes in texts she asks me advice on how to get guys she's not interested in to stop asking her out.

She compliments me on how young I look for my age and how fun I am and occasionally buys me small things like candies.

At work functions if I am not sitting beside her she will send me a message asking me to rescue her from a guy that's cornered her at a bar or whatever.

Is she just being a friend or does she like me a bit more than that? And seeing as she's quite shy, is she trying to get me to make a move?

I'm 35, she's 21.

She's worked in my office for a few years. She's really outgoing and dunny but is super old-fashioned, doesn't drink or smoke or even swear and goes to church.

We've always got on well and have lots of laughs, but lately she has been coming to hang out at work social events, including get-togethers as part of a group at my place.

She texts me everyday or tags me in instagram memes. Sometimes in texts she asks me advice on how to get guys she's not interested in to stop asking her out.

She compliments me on how young I look for my age and how fun I am and occasionally buys me small things like candies.

At work functions if I am not sitting beside her she will send me a message asking me to rescue her from a guy that's cornered her at a bar or whatever.

Is she just being a friend or does she like me a bit more than that? And seeing as she's quite shy, is she trying to get me to make a move?

I work with two younger girls aged 22 (I m 35) and they both talk about me. I'm never on with them at the same time, but if I tell one girl things about me she tells the other even the smallest details about my life.

One of these girl texts me everyday with small talk and if she has been on with the other girl she tells me all the stuff the other girl told her I said. The girl that texts me also tells me that they talk about me a bit. This is all done in a kind of humorous and light-hearted way, but should I read into it too much? Especially the girl who texts me everyday? They re both really polite and sensible young ladies.

Thanks.

She is really religious and a lot younger than me. But recently she broke up with her bf, left me gifts and a card and texts me telling me she misses working with me or will send me meme or tag me in things on social media. Is she into me or just being nice?

I'm 35. I work in an office with a lot of younger people. One girl i work with is very attractive, but I don't seriously consider her as a potential love interest in any way due to the age difference (she has a boyfriend anyway). I feel like she does things like says that are her way of trying to flirt with me. I just feel like I'm so out of touch I can't tell if she is or I'm wrong about it.

For example, if I'm working and she isn't she asks if I'm going to miss her on days she isn't there. Sometime other guys similar to my age try to flirt with her in work and she tells me about how it creeps her out. But then I'll her if I'm creepy or boring like she says they are and she'll say I'm not.

Sometimes she will kind of get very close in my personal space or pretend to stare in my eyes or try to help me with very easy tasks that I might be doing at a particular time. She'll also do other things like say she misses having her lunch break with me. She's also said things like say I'm too nice and thank me all the time for helping her when in reality I don't really do that much for her.

I should add that I'm fairly laid back and quiet and she's very talkative and confident. I'm not expecting any romance with her, I'm just wondering if she finds me attractive I guess.

Thanks.

I work in an office with a younger girl. She talks away and sits with me on breaks and is generally really open and warm with me. But if we are ever on work nights out it almost as if she kind pretends I'm not there and doesn't really acknowledge me. We will sit apart and not talk all night. However when I go to leave to go home on the nights out she looks at me and waves bye to me. Is she playing hard to get or not into me?

There's a girl I flirt with a lot at work. There's lots of Playfighting, hugging, holding hands and going on lunch together. But when we are out at clubs or bars on weekends with the rest of colleagues she almost ignores me, sits away from me and doesn't make much eye contact with me. any ideas?

In the last few months I've met a much younger (but legal! Don't worry!) girl at my church group. She is very shy and quite hard work to get to know, but we get on quite well. Recently though I'm wondering if she is starting to like me more than a friend (surely not?). Just wondering if these are signs-

Texts me nearly everyday

Started sending me selfies

Texts me very late at night or in the early hours if she's on a night out

Tells me all guys except me are idiots

Texts me if she's stressed or ill etc

Tells me about her uni work and her job issues

Hugs me a lot

Kind of holds my hand a little longer if we 'high five'

Tells me to come to hers to drink

Any ideas?

Thanks

In the last few months I've met a much younger (but legal! Don't worry!) girl at my church group. She is very shy and quite hard work to get to know, but we get on quite well. Recently though I'm wondering if she is starting to like me more than a friend (surely not?). Just wondering if these are signs-

Texts me nearly everyday

Started sending me selfies

Texts me very late at night or in the early hours if she's on a night out

Tells me all guys except me are idiots

Texts me if she's stressed or ill etc

Tells me about her uni work and her job issues

Any ideas?

Thanks

In the last few months I've met a much younger (but legal! Don't worry!) girl at my church group. She is very shy and quite hard work to get to know, but we get on quite well. Recently though I'm wondering if she is starting to like me more than a friend (surely not?). Just wondering if these are signs-

Texts me nearly everyday

Started sending me selfies

Texts me very late at night or in the early hours if she's on a night out

Tells me all guys except me are idiots

Texts me if she's stressed or ill etc

Tells me about her uni work and her job issues

Can a girl fall in love with a guy years after meeting him? As in, not being attracted to him initially but then falling for him very slowly the more she gets to know him?

A new girl just started working in our office. She is a lot younger than me, but is super confident and forward with me. I can't tell if she's flirting with me or not. Some things she does are:

Sits with me on lunch, and offers me her food.

Shows me her hands if she's hurt or bruised it

Asks when my shift ends, and if it the same time as hers she cheers or acts happy.

Stares into my eyes when talking, and smiles when there's a silence.

Play fights with me all day, and laughs when I try fight her back. Then teases me she's winning at the fighting.

Shows me where her trousers and ripped or damaged.

Talks about how tired or how much she's drank when she's out.

Comes around to my desk to borrow stuff.

A new girl just started working in our office. She is a lot younger than me, but is super confident and forward with me. I can't tell if she's flirting with me or not. Some things she does are:

Sits with me on lunch, and offers me her food.

Shows me her hands if she's hurt or bruised it

Asks when my shift ends, and if it the same time as hers she cheers or acts happy.

Stares into my eyes when talking, and smiles when there's a silence.

Play fights with me all day, and laughs when I try fight her back. Then teases me she's winning at the fighting.

Shows me where her trousers and ripped or damaged.

Talks about how tired or how much she's drank when she's out.

Comes around to my desk to borrow stuff.

But you don't feel the same? But he's s good guy and has never actually approached you over it.