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My son's father was adopted and his adoptive parents wants my to take my son away?
In october of 2011 my son began living with his non blood related grandparents because where i live there aren't many schools around so he began to go to school from over there. I just found out that my son's father was adopted, that January of 2012 and now they want full custody or his father gets joint custody. My son's father is never around and we were never married..My son doesn't even call him dad, he calls him by his first name...Also he has three other siblings that is younger than him and he told me that he doesn't want to live with them..Paternity and child support has already been established. He has told me things like his dad has been to jail for selling drugs and having guns..He talks in his sleep saying grandad your nails hurt stop please...I don't know for sure if someone has messed with him but he doesn't sleep well..Now i have another court date coming up and before i got the letters i had planned on getting my son because i now live in a better area with two good schools nearby so him and his brothers will go to school together and also grow up together...Right now i'm really confused..Please any advice will help...Oh one more thing i also found out that my son's father went to jail for rape..how sick.I'm currently looking for an attorney so please any advice rules guidelines will help.Thank You
3 AnswersFamily8 years agoI had my second abnormal pap and is scared?
Ok. Well last week i went for a pap because of my heavy bleeding. They said i have an abnormal cell on my cervix. 3 years ago i had an abnormal pap but i was ok. Now im nervous and confused. I've been married for six years and have 4 healthy boys. Last year my pap was normal and im wondering should i be scared. Im hoping that it's nothing serious like hpv. I dont know what to do. Oh and also could anything like showering the day before and perfumes stress ect can cause an abnormal pap. Any advice would help.One more thing what exactly is cervical dysplasia. Thanks.
2 AnswersWomen's Health9 years agoI was wondering can i still get SNAP benefits if my husband bought our family a home.?
Me my husband and 4 children are living with my mother due to a house fire. There isn't enough room at my mothers home for all of us. My husband is thinking about selling his truck so we can find a foreclosed home.
I was wondering if my benefits will decrease but we need a place to stay.
1 AnswerMarriage & Divorce9 years agoWhy do so many married people friends just disappear.?
I'm a 26 year old married mom with four boys. I've always never had many friends growing up but the couple of friends i've had just stop coming around. I don't know if it's because i'm married and have children but they have children to, but i feel so lonely. My b-day is tomorrow and my son graduates from kindergarten on my b-day but if i wanted to do anything like go out and have a few drinks, laugh and talk i don't have any body to who would go out with me. I know that tomorrow is supposed to be a special day but im so depressed. Why can't i make any friends. I miss my old life where i had some kind of freedom. I'm lost lonely and depressed. What should i do. Also my older sisters live out of state but they're much older than i am. My mother we talk also but she's an older woman so certain things i don't say so i can be respectful. My husband well if you're married or in a relationship you should understand. My family really is all i have. Sometimes i think i deserve a break every once in a while to refresh my mind. I mean i cook, clean, go over homework with my children, bathe them, feed them, work. I'm a good mother and i don't want it to seem like that my children are an issue. What should i do when i need someone to talk to but don't have anybody.
6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years agoI was wondering is having an abortion wrong because i already have 4 boys and really don't want anymore.?
I'm a married 27 year old with 4 boys. I had a tubal done in Sept of 2010 because i asked my doctor to do it. I was pregnant with twins and lost one early in the pregnancy. He told well i made a good decision to have a tubal ligation done because if i ever get pregnant again i am at risk for uterine rupture and maybe losing my life and the baby but anyways. I'm about 2 weeks and a couple of days late and really confused. I told my mother in law about my missed period and that if i'm pregnant i was gonna get an abortion. Well she told me if i were you i wouldn't take away a child's life because i don't know what my child may be and that it is a sin. Children are a BLESSING. Im scared and really don't want anymore also i don't want people looking at me walking with 5 children. I'm lost. I'm still young and i really really need some advice from someone who has been through this and if someone had an abortion did they regret it. I need some help. Thank you for any advice.
15 AnswersPregnancy9 years agoI was wondering can plus size women have a nice wedding.?
I'm currently married now. Me and husband got married at the county court right before his grandmother passed 4 years ago. I would love to have a nice wedding but the only problem i have with myself is that i'm plus size. I'm not big to the point where i can't walk and can't fit in a car or chair. People say that i'm not big but i think i am. I have four boys so a lot of the weight gain happened while being pregnant. I would like some possible feed backs. My husband say's he loves me for me and say's he is happy. I've always had low self-esteem since i could remember. So i would like some advice on what to do. One more thing my father passed away last year and i wondering if i do decide to have a wedding, who would be the person to give me away to my husband. I would appreciate any advice.
9 AnswersWeddings9 years agoI'm gonna be relaxing my hair soon and i have a question about neutralizing shampoo.?
What does neutralizing shampoo do to the hair when using a no-lye relaxer. I was reading about the difference between lye and no-lye. No-lye relaxers seems to leave a build up so i was wondering does neutralizing shampoo helps get rid of the build up from the relaxer. Oh and what are some good shampoos and leave-in conditioners. Thanks for the answers.
1 AnswerHair9 years agoHow can I go back to school with 4 children at home.?
I'm a married 26 year old female with children. I want to take up nursing to better myself. I haven't been in school since 2003. The school I'm trying to attend is that you have to take an assement test. I have never been good at math but can do the basics. I'm afraid that I'm gonna fail. My husband says school is a waste of time but i'm doing this for me and my children. I keep putting myself down and can't stay positive. I dont know what else to do when my back up doesn't have my back. I really want to persue my career then my heart will be complete. Any advice would help. I really need some motivation.
4 AnswersHome Schooling9 years agoI was wondering are there any homemade diaper rash remedies.?
My baby has a very bad diaper rash that is open. Nothing is working at all. I've tried zinc, yeast infection cream, Vaseline, nystain, nothing is helping. Even the cream from the doctor. Any sugestions. Thank You.
1 AnswerFirst Aid10 years agoAre there any charities or organizations that can help fix a home.?
3 years ago me and my family had a house fire. We were in a lawsuit but lost the claim. Now me and my family are Homeless (there are 4 young children here.) I was wondering if there are any charities or organizations that can help. It will be 4 years in February since the fire. Me and my family have been staying from house to house car to car. It's been really hard. My children never had a Christmas, Thanksgiving, I mean i don't know what else to do. I scared for my children. There are no good paying jobs where I'm at. I'm really confused. I have no real family that will help me at all. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE IF YOU HAVE ANY INFORMATION I WOULD BE VERY THANKFUL. I've tried Public Housing, no good luck so far. Me and my family had a home and now it's to late. My oldest understands what's going on and all he does is say's " I wish we could go back home". That makes me cry and it hurts my heart to hear that. because we don't have a home to go to anymore, all because a stupid person wanted to rob u and cover up there tracks and burned up the house. Any information would help. Thank You So Much and God Bless.
2 AnswersCommunity Service10 years ago