Jimmy

We talked at at a friends social mixer, it was a good conversation, then when she left she said that she enjoyed talking with me. I looked her up on facebook a few days later and befriended her. She seems like someone I would like to get to know better. Should I ask her out over facebook or just wait a month or so until the next time I see her. If I wait a month then any excitement she might feel now may have worn off, but if I ask now I could come off as over eager...what do I do?

I am trying to cut my own hair for financial reasons, and I just like to keep it really short but not bald. I can almost get my hair just right, except the part an inch or so above the ears where there is a stark line where I switched from the smallest clipper attachment to the half inch attachment. Can I use an ear taper to solve this problem?

If I put together a small jazz combo and started touring and what have you, what would be the average pay a night, assuming we would be playing small clubs and opening up for other people?

I am a nice caring person who minds my own business, has my own life, loves my friends and family, and treats people well. Should I start ignoring my mothers phone calls, kicking dogs, hitting women, throwing trash at homeless people from my car, talking loudly on my cellphone in public? I somehow doubt that is what women want, so what does bad boy mean? I mean really?

Half of the women I hear say they love long foreplay and sweet sensuous intimate slow love making, and then the other half say that they essentially want to be thrown down and ravaged. I would like to defer to my good friend Chris Rock and say that this is a good example of "women want everything", but is there a better answer? Do women like both at different times, or do some women usually prefer one to another?

I met a girl online and we seemed to have everything in common. We met for Drinks and dinner and it turned out that we did have quite a bit in common, and have met a few times since. On the surface she is almost everything that I am looking for in a girl, and I am rather particular, but there is just no electricity. In my last relationship it was an electrical storm in the beginning, and then it turned out to be all wrong, so electricity doesn't matter THAT much, but there has to be some right? How long should I wait and see if sparks will develop? How do I not lead her on and hurt her in the process?

I am suffering from acute depression because of a recent breakup. I have done a lot of crying and greiving and everything, and I feel that I am over the worst of the pain, but I am still very depressed and cant focus on anything or sleep well. What should I do? How long should this sort of thing take?

Does anyone know where I can find them online?

I was dumped about a month ago by a girl with whom I was madly in love. Things were not going well, so I saw her dumping me from a mile away, but I am still taking it really hard. I just started seeing a therapist. Anyone have any coping skills or tips to share?

I am 26, in the past I have noticed zits popping up after chocolate binges, but lately I have had no sweets at all. Things that are new for me: I have been eating more peanut butter to get protein. I live in Phoenix and summer is rolling in along with much sweating. I have been working out a lot. I have been eating a lot of eggs. Anyways, I have been washing my face with acne cleanser daily and it doesn't seem to help to much. What is up?

I have found that the best cardio for me is done on the bicycle machines at the gym. Obviously these also really work the legs. Every third day I do the intensive squats and leg presses, but I am using the bicycles everyday for cardio. Is this ok?.