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hi I'm 19 years old and here is my situation:

I was very late to be introduced to girls. my first girlfriend was this year at the age of 19. and basically all them years, and still including now, I masterbate quite a lot. everyday, and most days twice. and now I have a girlfriend, I've been experiencing some problems that I don't think are right?

I don't enjoy sex that much. like My girlfriend is extremely hot, but I just don't enjoy it that much. I can go really fast and for ages, even without a condom, but I never ejaculate. usually guys are worried about coming too soon, I don't have that worry at all. but it doesn't feel pleasurable. I'd prefer to masterbate than have sex. I think I've got so used to my own hand and done it with my hand so often it has messed me up? the only way my girlfriend can make me come is by using her hand.

the feeling is completely different. when i Masterbate I usually pull my foreskin up and down, but in sex the foreskin is always fully down.

I'm really worried and would appreciate any help. sorry for going into a lot of detail, please help! thanks

so i've met these guys for a drink a couple of times. we are creating a band. i've played guitar for quite a while and I would say I am decent. in a couple of days we have our first band practice. I am so nervous! they all already know each other as I am replacing their old guitarist so they all have experience with playing in a group and I have none! I've only ever played in my room by myself. I'm so worried that I'm going to mess up, or that my hands will start aching and I won't be able to play properly. please help? how do I get over my nerves?

like I find my girlfriend attractive, but she is the skinny type of attractive, and sometimes I'll be out and I will see a completely different type of girl to her, like someone who is the curvy type of attractive, and I will think ''damn I want to see what its like to have sex with a girl like that''

I'm not going to cheat, but was just wondering if this is normal?

Okay so basically I m dating a girl who is one year younger than me, and I ve started to realise she seems really young.

most of time she will be grown up, but sometimes she will turn into a little kid in public and its really embarassing. I don t know why she does it, does she think its cute or something? because its not, its just really unattractive. Like we all like to have fun and be immature, but what she does is just embarassing and I hate it

She also looks really young, but still is attractive and looks old enough to be with me, but the way she dresses bring that down. She dresses really girly and it makes her look younger.

I don t know what to do? I really like her, but I look old for my age, and I don t want to look like some freak who is dating someone way younger than me. What should I do? Should I say something to her?

thanks

I am no longer as attracted to my 4 month partner. Before we were together, I always thought she was extremely attractive and I was crazy about her and really wanted to.. you know.

Now after 4 months, I still find her very attractive and I really like being with her still, but I am not super attracted to her anymore.

I'm not planning on leaving her, because like I said she is great and very attractive, but I was just wondering if it's normal to lose attraction to someone after a while?

Extra question: if it is normal, would someone who is dating an extremely hot lady like scarlett johanson soon not see her as attractive as most men do?

Okay. I know how much of a loser I am, but I really want help.

I'm 18 and recently only just got my first girlfriend. It's been going on for a bit now, and I have seen her parts, but she has not even touched mine. I think she is soon expecting something.

I'm 18 and a guy. I should be begging my new beautiful girl for sex.. but I'm not. I'd rather just master bate alone in my room and have her never touch it.

I don't know why. I think I am afraid of my body. I'm tall and skinny and my penis is only 5 and a half inches erect. Her last boyfriend was quite well built and I can imagine he being quite well hung. I've always been afraid of failure, and I'm worried she will look at it and think it is too small, or I will be terrible in bed.

Why am I like this? My guy friends love sex, but I'm a massive wimp and afraid to get my penis out. Just some extra information, I have fingered her and gave her oral and she said it is the best she ever had ( I was worried so I did a lot of googling to learn how and it seemed to work)

Someone please help me grow a pair, and become a man!

So I have only just got a girlfriend at 18 years old and she is beautiful. (Yes I am a virgin at this age and I know it is lame)

Until now I have never had trouble getting it up, but for some reason, even when I masterbate alone, I will not get full erections. Also, I don't feel as horny anymore like I used to, but me and my girlfriend have only made out, and I think she is expecting me to move it on soon. I get a reasonable erection when with her, but its not full, and I don't even seem to get full ones when alone anymore. I am very worried about my penis size as I am only skinny and I believe it is quite small (5 and a half when erect)

I just don't feel like I want to do anything sexual with her, but before I was with her, I was craving her and was mad for her. Im scared I will be terrible in bed, and her last boyfriend was quite well built and I can tell he has a bigger penis than me.

Help?

So I have just got a new girlfriend (we're 18 years old) and she is absolutely gorgeous. I don't know how I have got her, and I don't know why she chose me (she had loads of other guys trying to get her at the same time) but I have.

The thing is, I worry so much. Like she is at a party tonight and I can't go because I have to be up early, and I'm just worried that with a bit of alcohol,and some guys talking to her, that she might cheat or something.

I don't kno why she is with me. I am not that good looking, and I am really boring, so I wouldn't be surprised if she cheated. Help?

I'll try keep this short and get to the point:

basically met a girl through a friend and we get on very well and have similar interests etc.

we were alright friends, but after a party we both went to, our friendship has increased.

she has invited me to her house a lot this week. we spoon and cuddle so much, like all night and then the morning, but nothing else. I gave her a few neck kisses and kisses on the forehead and stuff (as she gives them back) but nothing else happens. she is not confident and even though we are now very good friends and hangout a lot, I still don't think she would ever say if she liked me ( I have grown feelings for her) and I don't think she would ever go for a kiss.

Does she just like to hang out and have cuddles, or does she want more? she shows no emotion and doesn't get jelous when I mention other girls, but has complimented how good looking she thinks I am a few times

what should I do? I don't want to try a kiss, or tell her I like her in case she doesn't back and the friendship will be ruined, but when we cuddle it is very intense, and I sometimes feel she wants more, but I don't want to ruin it.

Maybe you could advice me a way I could try get a kiss the next party we go to (with alcohol) and get away with it if she rejects? like what could be a way I could kiss her, but have an excuse if she rejects it?

thanks

like back in the 80s/90s when they wore tight pants and long hair etc. do girls find this attractive? I am a huge fan and personally think they looked very cool

so basically I have only ever been in one serious relationship. Here is what usually happens with girls, and I will describe the situation what has recently happened to a girl I very much like:

so we met through friends and we talk all the time. I thought I had a chance. We get on very well, but I want more. I think she is attractive and she tells me how attractive I am quite a bit, especially at drunk parties. We spoon each other when at a party and to sleep. I thought I had a chance, but I never know how to move it on, and basically she got with this guy this weekend which shocked me, and she obviously must have not liked me back. we still talk a lot now, and she loves to hug and spoon me at parties, but that all I ever am with girls. They never want more, they just like my cuddles.

what am I doing wrong? why am I just a teddy bear?

So im 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. I am afraid to have sex ( I have chances) because of the following reasons:

Im 18 and quite skinny, and my penis is only above 5 inches when erect. I am worried this is really small, and all of my friends hands are huge compared to mine, and I can just tell that my penis is small and this upsets me as I will never satisfy anyone.

Do I have a tight foreskin problem? my foreskin retracts fine when non-erect, but when it is erect and I masturbate, I prefer to not pull the foreskin as far back. Is this normal? would it affect my sex life? do I need to do something about it?

and finally, I am afraid lots of masturbating has messed my penis up. I used to masturbate ALOT. I still do a lot but not as much. My erections don't seem to be full power? like they just feel 'weak'

I'm very worried and need as much help as possible as this is becoming a huge problem for me :(

thanks

So i am an 18 year old guy who is off to university this september and the last virgin of everyone I know. I have always been really self-concious.

I have a chance to lose it. I have made very good friends with an amazing girl, who I am pretty sure wants to sleep with me (she will be very flirty and dirty)

The thing is, this must mean she is experienced! she is very pretty as well. I have this chance but I won't take it. I have too many things I am worried about, here goes:

I will be terrible since its my first time. She is very nice, but Im worried she will not ever sleep with me again after, and tell all her friends and laugh about me being a virgin at such a late age.

I am always worrying. I am worried that I will be so nervous my penis won't work properly.

I am very skinny, and I think my penis is quite small. its only above 5 inches when hard :( which makes me very concious and sad.

I am worried I will never have a sex life. please help?

all of a sudden, I have realised I am not doing what I want and I am not enjoying my life.

I am studying very hard for subjects I hate. I was going to do biology in uni, to get a good job and make a lot of money, but my true passion is music. Me and my parents have now been talking about me switching to do music at uni.

Music is my true passion. I love playing the guitar, and all I would ever want to do is play in a band and make money.

Is this dream too much? What about when I'm 30 years old, with no money, a very small place to live and on some sort of drugs?

I am not even that good at guitar? yes, I'm average, and people tell me I am great but not as good as the best guitarists in the world.

Should I do this? should I start doing what I want? I have 2 choices: get a job I dislike but make a good amount of money, or get a job I love but be poor.

PLEASE HELP FAST

so basically I got my first girlfriend at 18, we broke up recently but we are both still good friends and we both wanted to break up for the best.

Until I met her, I was very shy with girls. she was actually my first kiss at the age 18!

but now.. well I've been to 4 parties and hooked up with 5 girls this last week. I don't know if I should be proud of myself or not? I don't understand how? I used to never have the confidence to speak to a girl at a party, and I didn't even plan to, it just happened?

Has my ex girlfriend possibly gave me a huge confidence boost? or have I just got lucky these last 4 parties? is it going to be this easy all the time now I have this huge boost of confidence??

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And i dont know what to do. I was going to break up with her yesterday, but i bottled it and started crying.

She is the greatest person i have ever met, but i have no physical attraction to her. She has put on so much weight and its so off putting. I dont want to have sex or even kiss her and try avoid it. But i still want her as she is such a good person

What do i do?

Please help. Thanks

i think its time i broke up with my girlfriend.

Its been great but its just not the same

I don't feel anything for her anymore

But i feel so bad because she will have no idea if I just leave because the relationship is going great, its just that I don't like her anymore and feel like we're just best friends.

How do I break up with her nicely? I want to stay friends, and she is so sweet and she likes me a lot and I don't want to break her heart, but I have to break up with her

Phone, text, in person? where? etc

thanks

So I was a very shy and an Un confident guy, and because of this I only got my first girlfriend at 18. I think I may be forcing the feeling though.

I don't think she is very attractive at all.. I'm not bothered if we don't talk. I think the real reason, and I'm going to sound like a horrible person, but I think the real reason I took this chance was because I want to lose my virginity before I go to uni this September.

I see other girls who stare at me and seem interested, and I now feel I have the confidence to approach them because my girlfriend has gave me that.

We still haven't had sex, and I think the only reason I've been with her for 3 months is because I want to not be seen as a Loser in uni. She really likes me, but I struggle to find her attractive and not bothered about spending time with her.

What do I do? It's too late to get a girl I like before uni and lose my virginity, but I know if I leave I will break this girls heart, but I just feel she is more of a best friend.

Plus I will still have no confidence to approach an attractive girl when she looks interested.

so basically I have never stepped out of my comfort zone. I am afraid of not being accepted, rejected, and getting a bad reputation.

I have a HUGE chance to get into a really really good band around my area. It will be the first band I have been in. I have not contacted them because I am afraid I will embarass myself in the audition, and on stage I will mess up. This is a huge opportunity which I have not taken yet.

Can someone help me grow a pair of balls? thanks

so basically I have been with this new girl for a short time, about a month, and I have always denied it, but now I realize I am not attracted to her.

She is such an amazing person, she is funny, caring, nice, smart and very musical and I have never met anyone like her, but sex is very important in a relationship.

I'm looking at girls and thinking 'I wish my girl looked like that', We haven't had sex yet because I don't want to. I should be excited but I'm not, and I'd rather just masturbate over something else. I don't get that turned on when making out, but she does.

I'm usually quite attracted to anyone, but she is overweight and it really turns me off and I feel no attraction at all when I see her. She is doing a bit of exercise, but still eats loads, and I can't see her changing anytime soon.

I sound like the worse person in the world but I don't know what to do. I really like her but I'm not attracted to her at all. it hasn't been long and we haven't had sex, so maybe I should end it now? what would I say? What should I do? I'm going to make her so sad if I leave her.

please help, thankyou